Hey guys,

Just some food for thought.
I was with a friend at the local nightclub last week, her boyfriend ended up abusing her physically and I got involved in stopping it. He's a little manipulative and very jelous of her speaking to anyone else.

After that, he's convinced her in that I've said something that I didn't and she pretty much thinks I'm a bastard and wants nothing to do with me. I feel like I should ignore this but being a really good friend, I don't know if that would be the best way to handle this. Advice genuinely appreciated

Thanks guys,
Mick-Coffee.

*Edit - this is the back story. he-done-the-unacceptable-vt138657.html?highlight=

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Why did you have to make a second thread with back story? You are trying to get into the pants of this guy's girlfriend... right? Sounds like some kind of twisted tale of Oneitis to me.

I'm never one for violence against women. Some things you need to either let the authorities handle (bouncers, cops, etc...), handle them yourself or get the fuck out of the way because it's not your business (nor is it worth your time). Does she have bruises on her?

She sounds like a drama queen too. What kind of sane, mental healthy girl would hang out with an abusive boyfriend that yanks her around and then whines when she isn't there. For all you know, they could deserve each other and getting yourself involved could make things far worse...

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No.
Thankfully, no.
She could be, or she could not be - as I know her very well and say that the dude's just an abusive ass

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"We are what we repeatedly do. excellence therefore is a habit and not an act."

Just be there for her. Don't talk about it or him or things that relates to that. Even just silence is better. Be her friend and give her loads of hugs

There's nothing you can actually do besides from that so don't bother yourself too much about it. It is her choice anyway and girls always have the last word but if you try to persuade her she's not for her or something like that she'll get distant and you may never heard from her.

I read a book this year this was exactly in the book from real life experience. The book is called Girl with one-track mind http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Girl_with_a_One-Track_Mind and in it the author has described the same problem and how she unsuccessfully tried to resolve it and failed. The advice I'm giving you is from the book.

The only cure here is time. Just keep being next to her and distract her, do fun things with her just be there. I had a girl that cried when with me cause her mother recently died(which I didn't know) and I was being really agressive and dirty talking to her a little bit over the limit while having sex with her. What I did was just hugged her we both and holded her hand untill we both go to sleep and then stayed with her for 24 hours being nice. She looks as happy as I would of been now if the Chat was up.

Good luck man

Good Luck. It really sucks bad and I feel both the girl and you bro but there's nothing else you can do

Women who have been beaten are normally paralyzed by fear and don't think rationally. The statement Battered Wife Syndrome exists for a reason. Tons of women have gone back to a man who beat them multiple times. I know one who was in a relationship with one for 9 years. They keep going back, its not a logical decision, it's emotional.

In this case with this woman, you have to get her to perceive the situation from outside of herself. Which means you have to describe a similar situation to her, make her answer the questions. Then ask her about her own answers. This way she draws the conclusion herself.

That literally is the only way to deal with it, you can't ask her rationally, she isn't rational. You have to ask her in a way where she will realize at the end. It's rough, if you'd like I can create an outline using some of the old interrogation techniques I've studied but it may take me a couple days(have to re-study).

When it comes to how she thinks of you, again you need her to draw the conclusion based off of history with you. Especially if she has known you longer than she has been with your boyfriend. In fact you should almost get mad her for believing a man that beats her over you.

I'm not going to lie, I'd probably go to her boyfriend and beat the fuck out of him if he touched one of my close friends. It wouldn't be a fight, a beating and yes I would fight dirty as fuck, there isn't such thing as dirty fighter in a street fight, just winning tactics. If a man touched anyone of the close female friends in my life he'd be looking up at me with my foot kicking his kidney. Sorry but hitting women is the one thing I will go to battle for. It's bullshit, if you don't think you can kick his ass, get creative. I'm not here to advertise fighting and I've not been in a fight for a long time. I almost always avoid them but there is a line that gets crossed, laying your hands on a woman is unacceptable.

I'm probably the most heartless person you'll meet when it comes to this. It wouldn't be pretty, that fool would be hurting, and by the time he's done I'd comment on how small his gf said his dick is. How he is a 1 minute wonder of fuck. My whole goal would be to take his confidence, arrogance, and heart from him all at once. The physical beating plus commenting on his manhood, plus poking at any weaknesses and insecurities he has. I've figured out how to break men and women down physically and emotionally, it would be brutal, I would take everything from someone like that.

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