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Hey,
I only read your first couple posts, but congratulations, I guess! I'm an 18yo virgin, but I started heading out on the streets lately ot change just that. I had 10 approaches so far and I feel like I'm making some progress.
Seeing as you're a natural, what do you think about streetgame? What do you say or do? I just tend to be very observational and direct, i.e. compliments or little comments about her/our situations.
Street game, club game, church game, day/night game is all the same, IF! you looking at it through the eye of the observer and in it's purest form and at it's absolute root it becomes one simple thing, an interaction between and man and a woman, two human beings.
The most important element in any interaction is the unconscious energy and vibe you give off. If you give off a great positive vibe, it will more then not be received well and be reciprocated.
With the above statements in mind, rather then worry about what type actions to give, focus on the energy you give off. The rest will work itself in. If you are attracted to the woman, it will show and if she's attracted to you it will show. All you have to do is manage to stick around long enough for nature to take it's course.
I suggest you become more indirect with direct intentions. In other words, strike up a conversation rather then trying to game the target. let the conversation flow with a genuine desire to just talk to her. If it starts to flow and you start to feel a good vibe, then start to verbalize your interest.( but only then) Make it as though your interest has been spawned from the interaction, rather then your objective upon approach.
Attractive girls can get approached a million times by guys being direct and most tend to put up an automatic wall with some showing immediate interest.
Make your objective with each target to give off your positive vibe and get it back. The rest will play out as it will. If you learn do this well, i promise you, the question of what type of game to do will never be an issue.
Open your target up being polite and build comfort, read the signs then go from there. A girl will always show her interest in one way, shape or form.( especially after she's had time to assess you) If you feel it, then become direct. If you don't feel anything, move on and repeat the process.