My GF is hot and she knows it. She has a lot of attention, male friends and so on.

I always look at male-friends of a girl as beta males - the ones who want to fuck her but she doesn't. She event talks about how great I am in bed with her male friends.

She always compliments me, our relationship, how she's happiest, best fucked woman in the world and.. It doesn't require any of my support. I just act as I want. If I am busy or tired - she's not angry. If I wake her up in the middle of a night after doing some stuff and fuck her - she's happy. God damn, she's not happy only then girls show me attention, because, well, I attract girls without saying a word.

The mind I have from time to time is - what are the chances in such a relationship for a girlfriend with a lot of attention to CHEAT if she finds some other more manly, more fun, more attractive guy like me? This mind pops out in my head quite often.
I am quite an emotional person and my mood changes sometimes within seconds, maybe because of this I think about all of the stuff.

Your gf is hot but you live in a cesspool of scarcity. I always keep around orbiter girls like the hot girls keep around beta males. I call them beta females. These can be good looking girls mind you. Girls cheat for many reasons on their bf, big argument, right logistics, or the relationship was downhill anyways or got boring but is convenient. Every girl at the same time is different.

I say live in abundance and stop worrying/filling your own ego with what a worlds amazing fuck you are. Reality is, dick is a universal commodity like pussy. In this regard, no one is the "best"

its an endless thought process of what ifs.

true, she could meet a better, manlier, more attractive person.
just like you can meet a hotter more attractive girl too.

but youve invested in this one special person who you call your girlfriend. is it worth throwing it all away to have a sexual encounter with a new girl?

this is how women think. they will NOT throw it all away unless theres good reason to. you can bet your balls taht she will probably end the relationship if she finds that someone who she is more attracted to.

if she DID decide to cheat, shes probably getting ready to end the relationship anyways.

hey mate.

You seem like a confident guy. I wonder why you would break your head about it. To be honest, if you are really as good as she says, chances are very small she is going to cheat. Woman like good sex and its not so common to find.

Also, what would you do about it? There is nothing you can when she falls in love with another man and decides to go for it behind your back. So why worry? Besides, although it will hurt like hell when it happens, be confident that you will find another quality woman.

cheers!

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Sucker love I always find,
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Thanks guys for your responses. They are really insightful!

Yes, I am quite confident in myself and I am not feeding my ego with "i am the best dick". Actually I find it interesting that I feel low confidence unless I achieve something new and then if I stay on the same level of achievement my confidence starts to plummet, so I raise again and again.

Her words - of course are great to hear, however I do not mind about them. That girl is crazy about me and it's my second LTR. I look really seriously and want to continue our relationship. I want to marry that woman, because of her and what I am when I am with her - I feel superman with her.

My thoughts about cheating are because of my environment. There have been situations where my friends got cheated and in this case when a girl has quite a lot of options to choose from I find myself thinking in this way: there's always someone smarter, better, faster than you. So I am thinking if someone with my qualities would appear in front of her would woman cheat.

I am talking about all the woman, not exactly this one. I hardly believe in faithfulness, despite the fact that I haven't cheated myself even though I have had chances. It's my option to cheat or not to cheat and I choose not to, because I give 100% of me to that exactly woman I am with at the moment.

One more thing. I believe in self improvement, and being your best self is my option. I don't want to stop and I want to improve in all areas in my life. That's maybe the quality people like in me - passion.

So yes, naturally I don't give a fuck about thinking about that, I care about my own business and myself, however there are times when I am thinking in negative way. Also I hardly trust people.

Thank you guys again.

If the your snake needs to rattle then release him. We only live once mi amigos.

As my papa (lord bless his spirit) used to say "puso la serpiente en su culo".

Jav.

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