So I asked for advice from my last post and today I actually went on that day 2. The original plan was to go eat sushi, play bowling, watch a movie and have some fun at an arcade but we ended up skipping the movie because we missed our movie time.

Anyway, so I pick her up at her house and the conversation had extremely awkward pauses because all she did was laugh (I guess she was nervous). So we get to the hotel with the bowling alley and arcade and ask her which she wanted to do first. She said bowling and played 2 games.

During the games we high fived, snuck up behind each other and scared the other person after they threw their ball, grabbed her hand a couple of times and put my hat on her head. During the 2nd game she was losing pretty badly. So when she wasn't looking, I changed her score so it'd be a little higher than mine. She didn't catch on and was extremely happy until she caught me. Then she just changed her entire score to strikes and told me to beat her. (she won) Then our game just stopped before her last shot and I blamed her for braking the lane. After we bowled, we sat and talked which then I asked her about movies. I got a bit of what she liked then told her to give me her hand. I held her hand and told her "I can read palms. See this little line right here? That means you have terrible taste in movies." Then I let go of her hand as she laughed.

We left the bowling alley and gestured to lock arms. When we locked arms she started tickling me again while teasing me about my broad shoulders. We get to the arcade and play this arm wrestling game. I purposely chose the hardest people to wrestle against and won the first one by myself (You know... to show her how strong I was I guess?) Then I asked for her help on the last two guys. I put my hand on top of hers and we won the game. Then we went and played DDR

We leave the arcade without touching each other (we're both sweaty) and drive to the sushi restaurant. There I DHV by ordering in fluent Japanese and talking to the bus boy in Tagalog. The service was actually extremely fast (maybe because I ordered in Japanese) and left us with an hour and a half left before I had to go home. We sat for 30 minutes thinking about what we could do. We talked about walking in the park (but it was 110 degrees outside), going karaoke (place doesn't open till night time), and a bunch of other things but we settled on playing billiards.

On the way to the billiard hall I tell a DHV story about reading an article on body heat (10% produced by yourself, 20% when your near someone, 30% when you like someone. Basically when you grab her hand during the 30% part and tell her that she's liking you too much because her hand is really sweaty.) She takes it pretty well and starts laughing. (Should I have held her hand the entire ride there?) At the billiard place we played 3 games and I tried to escalate more by hugging her and showing her how to shoot correctly.

On our way out I figure it's time to try and k-close her so I try Kino's Five Kisses routine but it was extremely awkward for me to say because I'm still in high school and I've actually never kissed anyone before. So I grab her hand and kiss it saying "This means I adore you." Then I hug her and put my cheek next to her's and say "This means we're friends." When I lean in to kiss her forehead for the "This means I will protect you" kiss, she backs up saying "I'm scared of the other three." Then at that point I didn't want to force it. So we drove back home and she tells me about her sister and how she has a car but my HB doesn't. We get to her house and while we're still in my car I ask one last time "Do you wanna know the last 3 now?" She sits for awhile still saying she's scared. Then we sit in silence for awhile and it doesn't seem like she wants to get out. (Maybe then I should've used the "Do you wanna kiss me?" HB "yes/maybe/no" Me "kiss/let's find out/ never said you could") So I end the night by saying with a big smile on my face "Did you want me to open your door for you ma'lady?" She laughed and told me how much fun she had. We waved by as I was driving away beating myself up for not being able to k-close.

Sorry for the long post and I'm sure I have a lot to improve on and advice is greatly appreciated.

She was taking a shit test. You guys enjoyed so much,she was impressed,fascinated and ofcourse as you both hugged,she was in a comfortable position to kiss. "I'm Scared"- this is a good compliment from her to You. It means that she was turned on by you, and she is scared that how easily you disarmed her by your confidence and your DHVs. She is thinking "Oh,this guy has hold my hand,hugged me and is going to kiss me,what he will do next?" It is a good sign as she is surprised by you. Lot of my girlfriends say "The person they fear the most is Me" and ofcourse they are like fish without water when not with me. You have a good game,as you are enjoying yourself with her,and while she is with you. Now dont regret that you have not K-close her. Do it next time,just go for it,if she put guards or blushes(possibly she will not) just do it or neg a little,and it is not necessary that you kiss her only at the end of scene.

Tell her "Don't worry about it, it will be fine. Trust me.". You did great. You had fun and connected with her which is very good. She probably isn't used to kissing, just like you. Her telling you that she's scared does not mean she doesn't want you to kiss her. Be the man, lead, reassure her that it will be fine and proceed.

For now, don't worry about not kissing her. You handled things fine by smiling and saying goodbye. She will most definitively contact you to go out again.