Nono! i didnt initiate, she did! but stopped again after a while, that moment i stopped with her. On to the next!

EddieFews,

This HB has an exam the other day, I know this cause my brother follows the same course. She is pretty shy/insecure, even when texting (maybe even more lol, she overthinks things too much). What would you send? Thanks in advance. My texting is not really that great, mostly around building comfort.

Okay, so I friended this girl because her network said "harvard" and because she looked cute.


(in response to her question "hey, who is this" on my wall)
me: well my name's above... a little towards the left, you know, next to the picture
my thoughts: because she added me back after I sent the friend request

her: lol well hello o:

me: wait...you're not one those creepy stalkers that accept friend requests just because the other guy looks good..are you? lol

her: are you implying that you look good? haha. and no.. i saw we had mutual friends

me: haha. for someone going to harvard, I would think she would know there is no need to imply the obvious [ you set yourself up for that one ]
my thoughts: maybe I shouldn't have added "[you set yourself up for that one ]" at the end?

her: haha. quite humorous, i see

my thoughts right now: uh-oh....this sounds like she is getting cold...or creeped out.

I feel like I'm getting put into a shit test or she's putting me off with her last line. It feels awkward for her to say: quite humorous, i see. How should I respond?

Oh Cool

try and calibrate, if a girl goes cold on me, i don't just text her back right away the moment she gets in contact with me. I ignore her once or twice just to even the playing field a bit.

Haha she contacted me again after i followed this. Didnt reply, then she asked to meet

Ok quick overview of the situation. I'm 16, she's 18. We know each other for about 6 months, started meeting regularly 3 months ago. (yes a lot of time, I know).
I made out with her once and kissed her two other times (one before, one after), and about a month ago when we were really drunk there was kind of a talk about feelings and stuff (has a hard time remembering this, and no I'm not gonna drink that much with her again because i tend to get sentimental and shit) and she knows that I'm not satisfied with just being friends (though I guess she knew beforehand, after making out it should be kinda obvious). She basically texts me nearly every weekend what I'm doing and because we have a lot in common including our taste in music we mostly attend the same partys. (This hasn't stopped even after our talk).
Last weekend she called me where I was, and told her I was at a different place but would come by later if it sucked (which it really did). But her and two other friends were pretty much the only people there, so isolation didn't work that well. I had a chance but I only realised that after, well anyways I was touching her a lot, i mean like really a lot, by the end I had no signs of resistance with hair/face which should be a good sign (I kept it mostly playful), but well no kclose. (and i intend to do that this weekend)

Problem is that her and her friends are at another party at first, though they told me, they might swing by later on. (and whenever she told me that, she always came wherever I was) And I wanted to send a text to make the meet up even more likely. Thought about the Dirty Dream Sequence (I never used a routine like that before, why not?) because that would also be another push in the sexual direction. (I think one of her friends told me a month ago that she really likes me but the spark didnt jump over yet or something like this, possibly meaning attraction went downhill because everything took so long).

Ok for the question, how far would you play the whole dirty dream thing, just the mud wrestling (with of course, an appropiate time between the texts, so she can imagine something), or further (I'd stop at making out though, because more could come off to strong?). Your input would be greatly appreciated, but it isn't that urgent. Oh and sorry if some parts aren't that understandable, english isn't my native language.

Cheers

This sounds like something she does to guys to weed them out being she is an 8.5. She's having fun with you and not taking you serious, and its more than likely because you're first text sounds like something she gets inboxed on Facebook and dating sites by random guys all of the time. Also, all of you're text responses sound like things you have read on the internet. Where are YOU in these text messages? Where is you're own personality? Women text a lot of guys, and im sure this isn't the first time she has heard every single text response you have sent her already. Along with the text you are thinking about sending; most of the contrived messages you read on the net were just randomly thought about or worked because the text conversation was at a TONE level that made them acceptable. They aren't to be used at any time or any situation and I would advise never using anything that you didn't make up yourself.

You got all bent out of shape here and you couldn't handle it and girls go after the guy that can.. If a girls having fun with you, just have fun right back with her. Be man enough to call her a slut (in a light fun way) ; she is obviously looking to be sexually remanded. Be fun and unmoved by her shit; don't make direct comments on what she says, just keep the conversation flowing.

Me: What do you do for adventure? (never say this again please )
HB: Have sex / what she means " you're boring me already"
Me: [7][7][7] JACKPOT!

Respect? Are you kidding me? You respect that?

HB: Ok. Do u want to eat my pussy?
Me: Do you wash it?

Texting isn't interviewing the person you are texting, text girls the same way you would text you're guy friends while in high moods and busting each others balls; ejecting a flirty/sexual text in here and there. The trick is to confews girls be cryptic and keep them reading you're text over and over to figure out what it is you actually mean. That is what they try to do to us anyway. All in all man, just be FUN. there is a popular statement, 'girls just wanna have fun" and its absolutely true! Ask yourself before hitting the send button; is this text message FUN? If you're answer is no then don't send it. I still don't get how guys have all the time in the world to respond to a text and can't think of anything decent. Thats like a teacher at school giving us 3 hours to do a two question test open book and we write the most far off answer possible. Our brains just don't work like they used to huh? Maybe it's the tap water