Ended up with a girl, that was in rough relationship , dated for a bit
had an amazing trip with her ..

got back from trip she acted all weir spoke to her
said it moved to fast, which it did , i know it was a rebound thing

what r they chances of gettting back with her or anything i should do?
its been a week we work at same place n live on same island

within this week iv seen her tried to be polite but havent been giving her too much attention , only speaking to her if she speaks too me

what should i do i feel like shes ignoring me n that im ignoring her , i dont wanna seem deserate but i want her back i miss her,,

any advice on what i should do? i understand rebound relationships never work!! i need some advice please ..

i miss her but im trying to hard not to show it or act desperate

im a mess roller coaster of emotions , i seriously need some help

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christian hewitt

Wait her out. The worst thing you could do at this moment is be needy and press it. If there was something good between you two, she may realize it once her head gets clear. Simply do as you have been doing, give her the space she needs.

It may be hard, but if you press it, there's a good chance you will lose any opportunity you have left.

I suggest avoiding her at all cost, it will be hard as you work together, but your feelings will show through your body language even if they don't show with your conscious actions or words.( she doesn't need that at the moment)

Only speak to her when you have to or when she addresses you. She'll come around eventually and if she respects you enough, she should clear things up in due time. Whether it's good or bad.

If not, see it for what it is. Start to date other women, sometimes women need to see you with other women to be reminded of your potential as a mate or at least know that you will not always be there for them waiting around.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

The answer lays in abundance with women. Easier said than done, but the cure to all evils with women is other women.

I'm sure deep down, you know this...you're just weak-willed to act on it.

ahhhh no its time for 2 or 3 days it ddint bother me now it is ..


were not talking at all rihgt now , shes not even addrssing me

rebound relationships dont reallly work out do they..

its so hard to go out and keep my mind busy as ppl we work with have something against me now

someone told me about this 3 week race where i dont talk to her but f she addresses me i only be polite n respectful n be short with her,,

which i have been

i feel like theres nothing i can do as talking to her well mess it up

i new this was gunna happen n i was aware of it but when she took me out for my brithday for 3 days i fell for her thinking it would b different but it happebed

man oh man this is a roller coaster that feels like it wont end

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christian hewitt

The roller coaster can end, if you take your fingers out of your vagina. Problem is, the girl isn't into you, and your mind (I can tell you're new to pick up) is spinning it with thoughts, and made up fantasies.

Fucking be a man and find another girl. Millions out there. Stop chasing this one.

real new to pick up , id like to understand it more n get good at it for sure

not sure where to start tho

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christian hewitt

Are you a people person / outgoing (even if you dont have friends) or are you an introvert, not very outgoing, not easily social, more to yourself?

If you are a people person, best to go with direct game / extrovert game. Realize "pick-up" is all inner game core fundamentals: not-for-newbies-introverts-pickup-manif ... 38002.html

If you are not ready to go to a girl and tell her your true intent that you think she's gorgeous/cute/sexy/etc

then don't bother with my link. Learn indirect game...asking directions...getting a number....

Stay away from Robotic Mystery Method.

"Are you a people person / outgoing (even if you dont have friends) or are you an introvert, not very outgoing, not easily social, more to yourself?"

id say dont go out to mcuh dont always fit in all the parties n stuff .

so its more then just turning around one or two things , got a lot to change

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christian hewitt

Can you carry basic social conversation...make jokes? Or are you socially inept? If socially inept, start with indirect game, otherwise go direct

i have no problem talking with ppl i work front desk at a hotel.. eveyrthng was fucking good till this girl not sure how i let it get too me.. had tons of confidence , n still do when im not talking about this girl...

iv been with a few good looking girls last few months.. not sure how but did

i got confidence n im not scared to go try new shit just..

i dont really got any game tho, what do you suggest then , where should i start, im ready to get this shit changed

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christian hewitt

not-for-newbies-introverts-pickup-manif ... 38002.html

^ It's time to be a man.

will do captian

cheers

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christian hewitt

P.S. if you work at a hotel front desk, I imagine you are personable, very fair-minded, and are not overly crude. You can make a perfect romantic guy with the extrovert guide. All you need to learn is two things: ABUNDANCE and being free from the outcome.

Not needing a girl is the KEY concept to all pickup methods (mystery method, direct, 60yoc)

Remember the words: "NEXT!!!!!"

You will always see thousands of women you would "commit" to...realize you will reproduce with many.

hmm pretty good way of putting

a few paragraphs into that link like that attitude just laying it all out

last few months never wanted a girlfriend ended up with two beautiful women?? hmmm

one fucked me , so time to go fuck as many as i can .... will keep reading ,

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christian hewitt

Just picking in here, but this is indeed gold advice! Being free from the outcome, dont get too emotionally involved. Be ready when it comes, because you will not always be able to control it.

cheers

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
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