It's definitely hard for me to take what any girl says seriously. There's millions of reasons for why girls may not let you escalate, may not give you a number, may not engage with you, and may just say "fuck off" to you. I just eliminate that by realizing people are variables.

You can incorporate it to the best of your abilities, obviously if a girl freaks out I said the phrase "what the fucks up girl" I'll calibrate, but anything more than that is seriously not being yourself. It's hard concept to grasp "being yourself." If you start adapting to every girl, can one claim its because they themselves are 'socially saavy' but on another hand you can argue its trying to 'weasel' your way in. I'm not for being fake to weasel my way in.

Perhaps you can shed more life on how I can better adapt. In the past, and yes I'm young...but I used to adapt to women only to compromise my terms as a man and instead of claiming to "manipulate a situation to your advantage" you can find the girl may have 1000s of excuses to not care about your calibration.

I never play by women's rules because you never get credit for them.

Sounds good to me! If you can cook, that's definitely an attractive quality to most women.

No person is complete. We introject (take for ourselves) aspects we admire in other people. A pickup artist can sit back, observe (dialing the volume down and calmly examine the person's behavior, rather than focusing on words which are often incongruent to a person's true desires) and find out what that person's ego is lacking and in-turn cater to that one thing, or things that person is lacking.

For example some women's behavior will reveal that they are seeking a fatherly-like figure, in which case your role would be to play the daddy. Another example may be that a woman is bored with the mundane everyday living, in which it is your role to offer her a sense of mystery and adventure. One easy way to appeal to women is to cater to the child, the little girl in them you can do this through playful (non-offensive) teasing (e.g., pulling hair, taking her to a hilly park and rolling down hill together, pushing on swings etc).

The key thing to remember is that you need to hone in with your other senses, not just your ears! Listen, talk less, examine body language, think about what she's implicitly telling you, not so much what she's saying but what she's truly trying to say but perhaps may be fearful to directly reveal - once you've learned this inner language she is yours to seduce.

I wanted to give you 10 rep points for this...but I realized I already gave you some in the past. Thanks man. Your advice is invaluable

Download Robert Green's "Art of Seduction". It's better than anything you'll read on here.

I'm continually developing this art form with my clients. As I sit across them its all too easy to get caught-up in what they're saying and simply walk behind or with them. It's when you take what they've said, what they've implied and spell out EXACTLY how they're feeling (known as Evocative Empathy) that you truly connect and make them feel understood; its quite profound when done properly.

Its not about weaseling your way in, its about create the appropriate desire for the target at hand. Just as we as men have specific desires in women, women have specific desires in men. A true pick up artist learns to identify a specific desire or fantasy of a woman and give it to her. It's about becoming the woman's fantasy, not about playing by her rules. It's about taking absolute control and making it the most pleasant experience she has ever had.

It has nothing at all to do with your frame as the artist. I never see myself as weaseling in. That is what the simple man would do, the man that has no confidence. I never change who I am. I am always the same man. I simply read my target and adapt to her desire.

You are letting your ego get in the way of your progression as a pick up artist. NEVER compromise your core values. That's ridiculous.

Every woman is different and has specific triggers and desires, if you don't adapt you will have a limited amount of women that will desire you. A true artist knows this and adapts accordingly.

Sexually I never change, I am always dominant. But yes I will have a million different ways to get to that point and I don't know which way I will get there until I have properly assessed my target at hand.

Don't see adapting as a weakness, it is a strength.

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This.
I have never had two sarges be exactly the same. Most (if not all) women respond to the same patterns and routines, but if you are any better than a robot, you will be able to put a little personal touch even in precooked stuff. And hopefully that personal touch will also partly be dictated by the person who's next to you.
This discovery process is a non negligible part of the fun of the chase.

Some girls will respond very very well to the cooking thing, others will not. If it is something that you naturally enjoy doing (and I do), and you get the right vibes from the target, then by all means do it.

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I have been seducing women for over 20 years, I can honestly say I can't remember a woman turning down an invitation for me to cook for her. I truly can't remember one time.

If you get good at this, you can make a woman squirm with desire just by describing the dish you will cook for her.

Add a couple glasses of wine and it's game on.

It's a great recipe for seduction.

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Unless she has to take a big shit afterwards.... This is why I don't do dinner dates (not always but its a second choice to cook/feed the girl). As for adapting to a girl...some girls are just not into what I want and I admit you can adapt to them, but I find this process largely a waste of time.

Now I do agree, adapting is a serious strength...in the long run in relationships, etc but seriously during the 'seduction' it can linger some seductions into a zone where you may never get it to go anywhere. What if she's a girl that doesn't open to your advances but will date you and kiss you but nothing else? I just find "adapting" to this rather pointless. This is what I mean by not playing by their rules.

WTF?? dude! agentprovacteur just basically said the same shit I did. and you wanted to give him 10 rep points. You are completely missing the point and in all honesty, I don't really feel like explaining it anymore to you. You are obviously set in your ways.

I never have seduction issues, and rarely ever have women flaking on me. WHY YOU ASK????? Because i have learned to adapt to their seductive desires. It's an acquired gift, If you can't understand this, you have a long way to go in this game.

I'll give you this: you are far more advance then most guys your age in regards to pick up. But your ego is going to keep you limited.

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I know my ego is keeping me limited. I feel it but truly realize I am asking for help in this regard...and I am slowly integrating the adaptation ideas into this..but realize I am trying here. Thank you for your kind words.

All you've said that remotely rings familiar to my post was that you calibrate your tactics to each woman. Your statement is merely surface level and doesn't much insight as to WHY you do this, specifically identifying her LACK and how to offer through insinuation that you're able to satiate whatever she feels is missing. Your elementary analysis is vague at best, to somehow say you are stating the same thing I did is laughable and ironically demonstrates somebody who has weak ego defenses. Calling others out on their 'weak' egos? Pot, meet kettle.

These ^^^ comments are ego filled. If anyone is calling the kettle black it's you. If you can't see the commonalities in the two posts, perhaps you need to open your eyes. I'm not here to battle ego's it's frankly not my style.

You on the other hand seem to thrive on giving rude brash comments to all, in particular the less pick up inclined.( see most of your posts) If that floats your boat, all the power to you.

You do write very well, I'll give you that. If you wish to challenge my knowledge of women or the art of seduction. I implore you to contact me through PM. I'd be more then happy to respond to any questions, challenges or brash/rude comments you may have for me.

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Reread what you just said. Thanks for proving my point. Why would I waste my time PMing somebody who clearly knows less? There's nothing to be gained by hearing you blow fluff. This is all just amusing to me, and quite frankly I'm having a laugh on your dime.
Enjoy the rest of your night.

This was the exact response I expected from you. Talk is cheap. If you are so sure of your superior knowledge and skill, why wouldn't you challenge me privately, or do you merely feed off of being observed by others.

I don't care to argue with you, you are obviously ego driven. This is a cooking thread. I am open to any challenge you present me. Or I forgot, everyone here is beneath you yet you have one of the highest posts average on the site. Interesting to say the least.

I too am laughing. ( just look at your avatar, who but the egotistical man posts a shirtless physique photo in a forum filled with men)

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