I have somehow managed to fall into a de facto relationship which I don't want, advice please!

So, the girl. She's not ugly, she's ok. But I don't particularly like her and certainly don't love her, but every time I'm out at a bar and drunk I find myself making out with her and some other less than PG stuff. This has happened about five or six times and now she has started texting and facebooking me.

My biggest weakness is that I'm too nice. I can't tell this girl too fuck off and as a result I give her the impression that I do actually want to date her. Everytime I'm out she comes straight to me and since it's so easy to get her I just keep doing it and now she is expecting more from me. More texts, more facebook and more arranging of meetings in the future

Her (via text): So are you going out this friday?

Me: Yeah I suppose

Her: So am I

Me (not sure what to say) : Cool! I guess I'll see you then!

Her: Cool

So gradually I seem to have absorbed this girl into my routine. Is there anyway I can let her down without seeming like a complete prick? I take advantage of her when I'm drunk and horny but sober I don't want anything to do with her. BASTARD!!

Lulz, you fucked yourself over.....


But not quite yet tho, because you still have the chance to drop her. Just go to different bars/clubs, and quit texting/calling her. If you're doing this drunk tho, it shows you still like her because what we say/do, usually, when we're drunk is a reflection of how we think while sober.

Well going somewhere else isn't really an option, there are very few good places where I live and the bar I go to is the best, it's also where all my friends go so relocating isn't an option

as for your second point... I guess I do like her to some extent. I'm horny as hell for her when I'm out and more often then not I'm the one who starts things (remember, while drunk) also some of the sexual experiences I've had with her have been the best I've ever had. The thing is though that I have very high relationship standards, any girl I go out with has to be perfect and she's just not girlfriend material. It's progressing though, I might have to marry her out of sheer awkwardness.

Have she ever brought up a relationship between you 2? If not then its easy to tell you are not looking for something serieous but that you do like her in a other way.

Tell her you are not looking for a girl friend SPAM.. You prefer open relationships and no strings attached.. If she sticks around, you still have a fuck buddy . If not, you achieved what you want.

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Uhhh.. Get some will power and self control.. You come here to complain that you don't know how to let this girl off easy but you keep kissing her every time you see her. Are you kidding? You are delivering mixed signals which will only make her fall in love further. Politely tell her, that you have a girlfriend now but you guys can be friends. It's easy...really

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Stop it now, just tell her to fuck off, and be real pissed.

I've been in this situation, and i had to tell her to fuck off and become very fucking angry at her before she actually did! stop while you still can!