Hi guys,

So tonight will be my first night "sarging". I am looking for some good/simple openers to start out with besides "Hey whats up?" I live in nyc, so there will be an abundance of chicks to go after.

I am coming off of a breakup so my confidence is low. I know that the only way to get it back up is to go out and approach girls even though I will probably get rejected. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

Thanks for your help.

Funny enough
"Hello my name is ......." Shake hand is a really good opener if you just believe in it.

Also Just follow it up with so what brings you all here? Celebrating? Remember to deliver it all very nice and slowly .

Good luck.

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You can use the girls fighting opener, which is like going "OMG did you see those girls figting over there?", there is the jealous girlfriend openes or the "i`m new in town, do you know what good places are here to go to?", but remember that more than just a simple opener, the most important thing you need is confidence, that is what diference us from the rest

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Funny that you say it.
Yesterday I told a random AFC who asked me for an opener to say this.
He looked at me like this: , probably thinking: that shit wont work?
I told him: I know what you're thinking, just fucking do it.

He went to the first chick he saw, I saw him say something, shake hands etc. etc.
Afterwards he came to me: Thanks man, it worked :O!

If you decide to do it, just hold out your hand, ask what is your name? And never break eye contact or let the hand go untill she does it.
If you want to force an ioi, don't say your name. If she asks for it you got one.

random fun

-hi, hows the night goin?

-hey, you're kinda cute, I had to come talk to you

-open by making an obervation about the chick ''you know I noticed you...''

-open by assosiating the song playing in the club with the girl, ''she had dem apple bottom jeans'' *singing and pointing at girls jeans*, ''BOOTS WITH THE FURRRRRRR!!'' *pointing etc.*
(or updated club vertion, ''HEY I HURRRD YOU WERE A WILD ONE!! *pointing* OHHHHHHHHHHHH)

-hey haven't we already had sex before? (to be followed up with, oh that sucks or awesome you totally looked familiar)

-try to open a chick with the song ''my humps'' by the B.E.P.
''what cha gonna do with all dat junk, all that junk inside yo trunk?''

-hey, let me ask you a question... (you can experiement with this and ask any question you want)

-hey, now... don't take this the wrong way or anything... but you....
(you can experiment with this one as well, but it is pretty fun to pre-frame the opener with the idea that what you are about to say will be offensive, follow up with something that is totally polite and kind to say/do)

-just pick a girl at random to harass her for a few minutes or as long as it brings you entertainment, continuously walk around her, make sure you are out of her field of vision, every time you get close enough, just say ''I LOVE YOU'', in whiney stupid voice and direct it at her to get her attention, every time she looks at you shy away and keep doing it, keep doing this until the girl either laughs or talks to you (or until you are not enjoying yourself doing this)

-hey what are you doing

-try to open by making stupid faces at a girl, when she smiles back or gives you any form of ioi (like a stupid face in return), just wave at her for a compliance check, she waves back, you can go talk to her at any time, she is opened

blow out openers

-Hey, no one loves me at all, will you please reject me, I'm (tell her name and stick out your hand for her then try to talk as if you never opened with this at all)

-Hey, could you girls please blow me out?
(if they ask what that means just say, you know... tell me to fuck off... reject me)

-UHHHHH!! *lift up shirt show off abs* DAMN GIRLS, LOOK AT DEM ABS!!, YOU LIKEY!! YOU LIKEY!! YEAH YOU WANT TO TOUCHY, YOU WANT TO TOUCHY???!! *rub own abs until girls get creeped out enough to blow you out, or until they start laughing at you or playing along*

In the UK I open often with polite, gracious "hello" then when marked lady is engaged I'm start talking a few Spanish words in casual replies like "bueno" and "ci".

Gets lady interested in exotic voice then I'm can employ my Latino heat technique.

Muy bien.

Jav.

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