| write down a goal, pursue the goal, create a timeline to accomplish goal by
at the time line cut off date, reflect, improve, and re-create the process
example: set a goal for a minimum of one approach a week, the goal of the week is to say hi to one girl a day, that is your approach
next week you set a goal of finding out a random persons name a day
continue increasing the difficulty and number of people approached in a day and the types of singles/groups you open up
just enact discipline until you have formed a process that is getting you the type of results you wanted, if you are not pleased then there can be improvement, and being able to enjoy what you do is very important, if you continue to struggle and view pickup as a task, a chore or something negative, eventually you will lose motivation, you have to figure out a way to make it fun and entertaining for yourself or it gets somewhat boring, as long as you associate positive feelings towards going out to hit on girls, it will be easier to maintain focus
you have to figure out what it is you are looking for from a woman, seriously figure it out, then find out if women truly are fitting what you are looking for, there are billions out there, just imagine if about one out of every two girls found you attractive but alot of these girls had limitations on sleeping with you, either attached or religious reasons or otherwise and could not start any form of sexual relationship with you due to reasons totally out of your control not related to your sexual attractiveness, now with that in mind think of it, billions and billions and billions of women in the world are attracted to you, and billions and billions are not, you have to sift through the girls that are not what you want, and find the girls that possess what you want, then let them know they are what you want, and as long as they are still what you were looking for, then it's a sunny day, but just remember, if she is starting to be all weird or rude, you don't have to put up with that, there are billions of other girls out there attracted to you, you can give her as many chances as you truly want, but ask yourself where is the line?, seriously BILLIONS OF OTHER GIRLS... just sayin..
do at least 1000 approaches before you give up, chances are if you actually commit to a plan and reach 1000, you will no longer be on the same train of thought, whether or not you can actually start a new habit and stick with it though is up to you
GOOD LUCK
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