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The following article was originally posted on my blog.

If you like this article, look up Skills360. He gives great dance floor advice.

I’ll come right out and say it, I suck at dancing.

However, while I may suck at it, I still LOVE to dance and it only made sense to me to combine two of my loves, dancing and seduction. Back a few years ago when I first decided to to jump into dance floor game I went online, bought a few books catered towards dance floor seduction, asked questions about it on the forums, and watched the good dancers in the clubs.

The conclusion I came to is that to get good at seducing women on the dance floor I would have to get better at dancing. Wasn’t happening.

Not only did I have to much other stuff I was working on at the time but I also just didn’t care to become a good dancer. It wasn’t long after that a buddy and I were out in a loud dance club having fun and hitting on the women in the quieter areas. After a few drinks and a dare we both went out to the center of the dance floor and displayed what was probably the worst, silliest, and most amusing dance moves in the history of club dance.

Think of every single silly/dumb dance you can think of. Chances are we did it that night. It was really fun and we got so into it we did it for over thirty minutes. Many people even stopped and watched us. Some though it was funny, some didn’t care, some wanted us to get hit by a bus.

After a while my buddy and I grew tired and needed a break so we stopped dancing and headed to the bar. Once at the bar I noticed a cute brunette in a killer black dress eyeballing me down. I noticed her minutes before as well when I was on the dance floor.

I approached her, started a conversation, turned up the heat sexually, and eventually lead her out of the club and back to her house.

A couple nights later he and I went out again, got onto the dance floor, unloaded the silliest dance moves ever and then went to the bar when we got tired. While I was dancing I made sure to keep a mental note of each cute girl that was watching and checking me out while I danced.

When we were finished dancing I looked around for any of the cute girls I seen checking me out. I ended up taking home the second one I approached.

Over the next few weeks I went out with my buddy and even by myself some nights and repeated the experiment. I would go onto the dance floor, have a massive amount of fun by being silly, taking note of all the girls checking me out, then approaching them when I was done.

The result was some of the fastest and easiest lays I had ever had to that point.

In my book, The Night Game Blueprint, I talk about screening for interested women. Interested women include women who are giving you “approach invitations” (such as eye contact, proximity, open body language, overexertions) and horny women.

Many guys complain to me that they “aren’t good looking enough to get approach invites” and they they cant spot horny women. Being silly on the dance floor solves all that.

While your out there being silly and having fun its quite easy to take a quick mental note at which girls are smiling and enjoying watching you. Once your done dancing all you have to do is approach these women,

I promise you that if you go to a club and start silly dancing and then approach the women who looked into you, your meet to lay ratio will sky rocket up. Of course, you still need “game” such as escalation skills but opening the women who appeared into you will make everything easier.

Give it a try.

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Good example:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sSc5gG0Ugqg[/youtube]

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YES. I have done the exact same thing at house parties, and most recently at a club on Friday. Works likes magic. I dance ballroom which requires automated steps and just figuring out where you want to lead your partner, but when I'm dancing socially to hip hop or house, just having fun and not caring works wonderfully.

Hiding your insecurity and having confidence to not care what others think is attractive and fun to girls.

Being a good dancer and dancing requires competence.
Being a bad dancer and dancing requires confidence.

Very very good advice.


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Yes it's a kind of "flashing DHV": huge confort zone, having fun, you are not a wallflower, active disinterest (because you don't sarge anybody while dancing and having fun), maybe some social proofing if sets like what you do, some preselection if a party girl comes and dances with you,...

But like all flashing DHV techniques (like peacocking), that's "double or quits". If you are doing it right, your value will be sky high, if you are doing it wrong, you DLV...


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Yes it's a kind of "flashing DHV": huge confort zone, having fun, you are not a wallflower, active disinterest (because you don't sarge anybody while dancing and having fun), maybe some social proofing if sets like what you do, some preselection if a party girl comes and dances with you,...

But like all flashing DHV techniques (like peacocking), that's "double or quits". If you are doing it right, your value will be sky high, if you are doing it wrong, you DLV...
As long as your having fun you cant really be doing it "wrong."

It should be said, if someone were to go onto the dance floor and dances silly to use as a technique and not really having fun with it, many women will pick up on it. Anyone who wants to try this actually has to make a point to have fun with it. The women are just a bonus.

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As long as your having fun you cant really be doing it "wrong."
I've been in many social situations where someone was out on the dance floor, having the time of their life. Their actions on the dance floor also allowed everyone to realize how weird/socially un-adjusted they were To claim it can't be done wrong seems like a bit of a reach.
^ yea, actually there is a regular i know that does this type of stuff(he is not doing it planned he just dances like that naturally), he never hooks ups, is risky(girl may see you as a clown vs seducer), specially with 24 over crowd...But he gets tons of attention... However i heard from some post in the community(specially the rsd crowd) that it works and they even advocate things like this... i just have never seen it working...Learning how to dance is not difficult at all... Remember that women associate how you dance with how good you are in bed, so i do not see how the funny dancing will help to bring that view about. I guess the showing you do not give a fuck what people thinks(with the silly dances) may be attractive to some women, i just thing is more effective to do the i do not give a fuck what people think, with more calibrated, and sensual moves.

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Women defintley like guys who can dance. If you have never witnessed social proof, you will if you can dance and you are dancing with a hot hick, Every woman in the place will be eyeing you.

having said that, I suck at dancing, I rely more on my classic good looks and abnormally large penis :D


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As long as your having fun you cant really be doing it "wrong."
I've been in many social situations where someone was out on the dance floor, having the time of their life. Their actions on the dance floor also allowed everyone to realize how weird/socially un-adjusted they were To claim it can't be done wrong seems like a bit of a reach.
^ yea, actually there is a regular i know that does this type of stuff(he is not doing it planned he just dances like that naturally), he never hooks ups, is risky(girl may see you as a clown vs seducer), specially with 24 over crowd...But he gets tons of attention... However i heard from some post in the community(specially the rsd crowd) that it works and they even advocate things like this... i just have never seen it working...Learning how to dance is not difficult at all... Remember that women associate how you dance with how good you are in bed, so i do not see how the funny dancing will help to bring that view about. I guess the showing you do not give a fuck what people thinks(with the silly dances) may be attractive to some women, i just thing is more effective to do the i do not give a fuck what people think, with more calibrated, and sensual moves.
You and hobbit may be onto something. When my buddy and I first started doing this we were already well socially calibrated and normal guys. I can think of a few other people who does this (one being an RSD coach) and for most of them it works for as well. However, the one I can think of it doesn't usually work for is very socially awkward. It would be interesting to know if the guys you and hobbit know are also socially awkward off the dance floor as well.

I'm starting to think that for normal, socially adjusted guys this works very well but for the guys who arnt it could simply make them look like a clown as you said Skills360.

I'm coaching a new student for a week starting Wednesday and he is very socially retarded. I'm going to have him try this and see what happens.

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I've been in many social situations where someone was out on the dance floor, having the time of their life. Their actions on the dance floor also allowed everyone to realize how weird/socially un-adjusted they were To claim it can't be done wrong seems like a bit of a reach.
^ yea, actually there is a regular i know that does this type of stuff(he is not doing it planned he just dances like that naturally), he never hooks ups, is risky(girl may see you as a clown vs seducer), specially with 24 over crowd...But he gets tons of attention... However i heard from some post in the community(specially the rsd crowd) that it works and they even advocate things like this... i just have never seen it working...Learning how to dance is not difficult at all... Remember that women associate how you dance with how good you are in bed, so i do not see how the funny dancing will help to bring that view about. I guess the showing you do not give a fuck what people thinks(with the silly dances) may be attractive to some women, i just thing is more effective to do the i do not give a fuck what people think, with more calibrated, and sensual moves.
You and hobbit may be onto something. When my buddy and I first started doing this we were already well socially calibrated and normal guys. I can think of a few other people who does this (one being an RSD coach) and for most of them it works for as well. However, the one I can think of it doesn't usually work for is very socially awkward. It would be interesting to know if the guys you and hobbit know are also socially awkward off the dance floor as well.

I'm starting to think that for normal, socially adjusted guys this works very well but for the guys who arnt it could simply make them look like a clown as you said Skills360.

I'm coaching a new student for a week starting Wednesday and he is very socially retarded. I'm going to have him try this and see what happens.

Yes, the guy extremely socially awkward he looks like and acts and dresses like napoleon dynamite... wm, as i said everything works( i believe is not the type of method or game, is the dude doing the execution what makes the difference)... I just personally do not like the style, but as you just said, is for people that already gave up on dancing... I am a big believer of the male stripper type of game...

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I love when wanna be puas talk to each other like they are PUA's :D

So what is your professional opinion on this "blah blah"

oh the hilarity. :D


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I love when wanna be puas talk to each other like they are PUA's :D

So what is your professional opinion on this "blah blah"

oh the hilarity. :D

^ well thanks for the love, i just love kjs like you, post their opinion like is relevant...Dude i already made you an offer... What is your game??? where are your field reports, where are your lay reports???? I am dying to see, and please tell me is not the stuff you posted in the looks matter post...

Tatoo this on your dick:

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I love when wanna be puas talk to each other like they are PUA's :D

So what is your professional opinion on this "blah blah"

oh the hilarity. :D

^ well thanks for the love, i just love kjs like you, post their opinion like is relevant...Dude i already made you an offer... What is your game??? where are your field reports, where are your lay reports???? I am dying to see, and please tell me is not the stuff you posted in the looks matter post...

Tatoo this on your dick:

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Field reports are about as real and true as a Kardashian wedding.


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I do this alot even though I can dance when im with mates and I usually out with a group of girls anyway. It works really well


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Yea was gonna say for some reason this works better if you're out with a group instead of alone.

If alone I would suggest learning how to Groove some-dancing-basics-groove-vt126351.html , not very difficult and infinitely more useful for gaming on the d-floor


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Yea was gonna say for some reason this works better if you're out with a group instead of alone.

If alone I would suggest learning how to Groove some-dancing-basics-groove-vt126351.html , not very difficult and infinitely more useful for gaming on the d-floor
^ that is difficult, if you can not dance the best thing to do is after opening, dance from the back and let the girl do the dancing... You can also take aerobic classes, zumba,hip hop, capoeira etc.. or just wait for my videos...I will break everything down like baby, when you dance you do not really want to be jumping around, is not intimate, it does not produce arousal, you want to be as close to the girl as possible...The whole point of dancing when it comes to game is to get women aroused and entertained(as an excuse to continue the arousal)... However what wm is doing is peackocking with dance moves, i can see how that can work, while displaying fun, and drawing women to his and his friend self amuzement and awesomeness, i see how that can work is just that wm knows what he is doing if the guy is an afc that shit won't work...

Here is a sample of what you want to do, feeling, emotion and arousal, disregard the dance moves, they are weak, but is the right idea:


[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46F3rJek_WE[/youtube]

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