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PostPosted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 8:34 pm 
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but a woman will always respect a confident man even if she actually isn't attracted to him for whatever reason.
quoted for truth, even if she doesn't show the respect, it will be there.

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I'd have to disagree with this comment....all are to one extent or another and most are on the higher level of insecurity.
OK SA911 - the thing is I don't really like absolute statements, especially when analyzing the entire female race.... My ex 5 yr GF is a psychologist AND extremely insecure, so we talked about that a lot... I sort of meant that their insecurities are not always in the extreme neuroses department (high end of the scale) :)

That said, all humans (male and female) have neurosis and insecurities, it's impossible not to have them. What I meant was that some women (as well as some men) have them in check, and they don't hinder their social interactions significantly.

I agree with you that with regards to physical appearance women are more insecure than men, maybe on the hogher end of the scale because that is primarily what they are valued for (and this aggravates as they get older)

Would you agree then that some women have a handle on the "typical" insecurities that most women let govern their minds? Just for arguments sake not really for the OP (I would like to know exactly what he is saying to them)...
Yes I understand what you are saying about absolute. I don't really like to use that word either or judge an entire race. You are correct not ALL are to the extreme. I can only speak from my experience, and study of the female mind.

I know some truly fascinating women that exhibit amazing confidence and appear to not be insecure what so ever. Of course they are far and few between and if i told anyone of them that they had a fat ass, well I am sure you know what would happen.

I know some truly POWERFUL women that crumble like a 10 year old fat girls that are going swimming the first time in public as soon as it comes to men and dating.

In my experience, even the women that seem to be in absolute control over men/dating and their own sexuality are usually harboring more insecurity then most.

Speaking in general terms and not for the entire species. I'd still have to stick to my first assessment.
That's cool man, we are thinking along the same terms (and I was nitpicking a bit I admit)... I hear ya.

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It's very important to take a lot of things into consideration when reading a woman's body language. Some women who are uncomfortable with their attraction will react differently. My question is what face are you making at these women, they tend to reflect our face so if you are sending a repulsive face they may simply be returning it. You may not even realize your doing it.

Note: Eyes wide open are a sign of surprise and/or fear. This is a sign of arousal, arousal is a sign of attraction (heart starts beating faster when you see your crush and you perk up). We only open our eyes like that when we need to asses all the information in the area. When you put her on the spot and grant her a compliment it could make them very nervous, especially if she is attracted to a man. I would look at the rest of her body language as well, preens, submissive signals, repeated eye contact, etc.

I compliment women all the time, it's not difficult to compliment women and use it to open but it does require skill. I've come across a lot of men who don't know how to grant a woman a true compliment, they feel manufactured.

I'm a big fan of complimenting, but there is a right way and a wrong way to compliment women. Most men(people) compliment in a horrible way, "I like your shirt", "Nice shoes". It should be more than that, you also need the compliment to be accompanied by very confident body language. Body language that doesn't place a woman above you but does evoke conversation with it's detail and class.

The key lies in the why, tell them the why it's pretty or nice or whatever, avoid complimenting looks stick with clothes, accessories, shoes, this shows you appreciate her choices and personality rather than merely her aesthetics. I wrote a compliment article right here http://showyourmind.wordpress.com/2012/ ... and-class/ .

I practice charisma, which means raising people up to your level. I will agree most women don't know how to take a compliment but most of the time it happens from poor delivery. When I compliment a woman she may freeze and even blush but she always thanks me, and more importantly starts a full blown conversation.

If you are having trouble evoking a conversation end it with a question.

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I complimented the girl on her new hair, she dyed it and it was a lot lighter. After the initial reaction that I described, I caught her playing with her hair, pretty sure that's a good sign. Awhile back I told her I liked her bracelet and for like 5 minutes after she kept fidgeting at it and moving it. Pretty sure that's a good sign, right?


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