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| JetLife | PostPosted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 5:28 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Thu Dec 02, 2010 6:55 pm Posts: 45 | | Just looking for any input from you guys
While I'm good at random pick ups the gf category isnt my forte. Heres a little background on the situation, met this girl through mutual friends at school, she started banging a guy for a bit just kinda after I met her which I didnt care about cuz I didnt like her at the time, but we started hanging out like 3 times a week while we were at school and now the semesters over and we live about 50min away from eachother and she comes over every weekend with her friends to drink n party at my place.
The situation hasnt escalated other than a few kisses that ive snuck in however shell say shit like arnt we cute when someone takes a pic of us and the other night we went to this concert/beer tent kinda thing and she was like your my pretend bf tonight, and was holding my hand or hanging off my arm for almost the whole night but when ppl would ask if we were together she would say were just pretending.
So im wondering what you guys think shes looking for, is she waiting for me to make a move or does she just wanna be friends? Thanks in advance _________________ Your not getting rejected, you seeing if she has good taste.
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| dark one | PostPosted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 6:20 pm | |
Joined: Thu Jul 10, 2008 4:41 am Posts: 1193 | | She's looking for you to take the lead and tell her what you want, she clearly likes you or she wouldn't be going out of her way to see you. Girls don't go out of their way for guys they do not like.
Do you like her? and are you ready for a gf?
If so my advice would be to tell her you want be be exclusive, and you are ready to take the relationship to the next level.
when she asks what that mean you can say "It means you my gf" and then kiss her.
Its very unlikely to go bad....she has given you just about every hint in the book! lol and you still have not made a move? she is probably thinking "whats wrong with this guy does he not get that I like him?" lol
If by some rare chance she does turn you down then just brush it off, push away a bit, be nice but start spending less time with her and start making her chase you, but I really dout you will need to do this.
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| dark one | PostPosted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 6:22 pm | |
Joined: Thu Jul 10, 2008 4:41 am Posts: 1193 | | p.s if you wait to long she will see you as very beta and afc and you will become the "friend" it happens a lot!
Most guys have a short window before the relationship goes from "I like him" to "He's just my friend".
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| JetLife | PostPosted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 7:34 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Thu Dec 02, 2010 6:55 pm Posts: 45 | | yeah I like her and Id be willing to try the gf route as its been a while since ive had one aha as you can prolly see from me not picking up the signs. Any suggestions on how to go about it? _________________ Your not getting rejected, you seeing if she has good taste.
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| JuanAntonioB | PostPosted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:29 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Wed Apr 06, 2011 9:54 pm Posts: 281 | | you mentioned this girl jumped on some cock pretty quickly.
i would not tell her you want to take the relationship to the next level, nor that you want to be exclusive. thats her job.
your job is to fuck her. thats it. just fuck her.
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