I'm 29 and I'm an AFC. Nuf said.
Being an AFC is not something I usually talk about, but since this forum is all about improving oneself and helping each other get there, I'm saying it up front the way it is.

I live in Toronto, Canada.

Up until recently, I wasn't aware of the fact that I'm an AFC, now I know and I am determined to become a PUA.
I realized I was an AFC when I realized that one year already passed since I've broken up with my girlfriend. Since then I was only with one other girl for a very short time. (I give myself the credit for starting to bang the other chick same week I broke up with the other one). But its been dry ever since.

Where I stood before I started:
I can start a conversation with a chick, sometimes get IOIs, maybe even a number, and that's it, dead end.

That's the jist

Now I'm on day 7, but I'll give a quick break down of what happened in last week.

DAY 1:
I had 1 hour before work, so I tried the newbie challenge. epic fail.
Went to the mall I've spent the whole time in my head, rationalizing why I should not approach that or that chick.
There was a HB9 with 2 kids, in my head I said, she's probably married, she wont be friendly.
I was perplexed. I didn't think I have an approach anxiety. What I realized was that I haven't approached girls with the intent to pick them up in a long time. ( I know that's not the purpose of the exercise, but its a good realization for myself).
This process happened for 4-5 other chiks.

DAY 2:
I got a gym membership. chatting with the girl at the desk HB8. I saw some IOIs such as she was twirling her hair and eager to give me answers. I didn't go for the number, didn't want to seem to eager. but I've noticed her co-worker is trying to hit on her too.

DAY 3:
got a number from this girl who know my parents... not sure where I want to take that interaction with the HB8.

DAY 4:
went to the gym again, the whole 6 stuff members where up front, I've chatted with the HB8, but that's it, didn't go for the number, too many people.

DAY 5:
nothing

DAY 6: (Saturday)
I went to college street closed street festival with my wingwoman, and met up with some more friends of mine there.
Got a number from an HB7 within our set, under the pretext of her helping me out with my resume. Maybe that was wrong (any comments?) but I did the mistake of not isolating her ( wasn't sure how) and just asking her number in front of our friends could put her in an uneasy situation, that was my reasoning.
But on the bright side, that will force me to work my resume to go grab a coffee with her sometime soon.

Here Comes the JUICY part of my week:
Me and my wingwoman walking down to my car after breaking off from the rest of the group, hugging each other talking about how we are just friends, laughing and having a good time. a set of 5 girls ranging from HB6 to HB9 (probably overhearing our conversation) approach us asking if we have booster cables. Fortunately, I do have them in my car.... which is apparently rare in Toronto. I'm parked 10minutes away from that spot. HB9 walked with us showing us where her car was so I can find it when I get my car. I showed no interest in her. all that time I had my hand around the shoulders of my wing and so did she around mine (DHV?). When I came wit the booster cables, she was very happy. While talking to me HB9 kept twirling her hair and swaying her hips, HB6 was just planted there, staring, I tried to get her into the conversation too (engaging the whole group), but HB9 was doing most of the talking. Rest of the group were sleeping in the car. HB9 offered $20 for gaz, I refused laughingly, and told her I'd much rather take the payment by partying together. She gave me her number. Asked me to text her to make sure she has mine.
I texted her she texted back thanking again. I haven't replied yet.
I've mentioned to them an event that's pretty happening in Toronto every Tuesday night, they seemed interested in that as well.
Massive IOI's from HB9. Massive boost in my confidence.

Day 7:
Father's day. family time.


So not bad, 3 numbers in one week. Now the challenging part for me, turning those numbers into lay reports.


Any advice, comments on my booster cable girls (or anything else) is greatly appreciated!

Mr. Satisfaction
Out.

Those first 2 are pretty circumstantial, unless there is something you left out, not much "game" involved. However, great job on number 3 number-close. Just make sure you have a good routine for a K or F close when you meet up with her,or the others. I am by no means an expert, so take this in stride. Good luck bro

Thanks for the post bos10george, I'll read some material fro that tonight.
I think there was more inner game here.
Usually I seem too needy, but this time I acted right, I didn't show any interest in the girls besides pure desire to help a stranger. I was leaning back most of the time (realized I was doing it after the fact). also I think because I haad a pivot, it turned them on too (preselection by other women). I'm not exactly sure what I said, but there was a few jokes, and I made fun of them a bit for draining the battery. and I think its my inner state that was different this time (usually I scare them off even if they do show interest). I was fun, and sexually indifferent (wasn't coming onto them), I think that what it was.

But otherwise your right, its circumstantial, but in this circumstance I played it right, so far.