Day 53 (Friday June 15): I went to dinner with my friends. We sat down at our table. A few minutes later, I got up and walked to the front where the hostess was. I said to her "I thought you were really cute. I came here to try to hit on you". She said "I have a boyfriend". I said "how long have you been dating?" She said "Two years, but thank you though". I said 'no problem' and walked back to my table.
I have to step my game up and do more than one approach per day.

Day 54 (Saturday June 16): I went to the mall with my family. I was sitting with my Dad waiting for my Mom and sisters to finish shopping. For the first time ever, my Dad pushed me to do an approach. I was telling him that I didn't feel like doing an approach and that I needed motivation. He pointed a set out and said "Do that one". I immediately stood up and did it.
It was a hot 2set. I said "I thought you guys were cute, I wanted to come meet you. My name is Slick". They told me their names. I said "are you guys shopping here?" They said yes. Then, the girl on the left walked away and said "now this is awkward" and her friend (who seemed perfectly willing to stay and talk) followed her and that was the end.

Its good to know that your dad is supporting you with this shit. I never tell my parents about this stuff. I think your sex life should not be discussed with your parents. Obviously your dad believes that you will never get laid and so he is supporting you in your endevours so that you will lose your virginity one day. If you need your father's consent or approval for everything, you are not going to go far with this. Read up something about core value. Your happiness should come from within. A real alpha male does not need anyone around him to feel happy. He only surrounds himself with people because he chooses to give them value. He raises their spirit because he is a true leader. An alpha male only talks to women not to get laid and not because he has desires. Sex and emotional connection is a reward he gives to women who are worthy of his standards. The only purpose of opening a set is to qualify women and find if they are ready to invest in you.

Day 55 (Sunday June 17): I spent the day with my Dad for Father's Day. My sisters and Mom went on a plane to visit my grandparents, so I had to say goodbye to them. My Dad and I ended up going to the Winghouse, a restaurant with hot waitresses dressed in revealing clothing. After we got a table, I walked back to the hostess and said "I thought you were cute, I wanted to come meet you". She was not interested, at all. I attempted to number close, but was brutally rejected. I walked back to my table and my Dad said I was in there for 60 seconds. He also said he was surprised that I actually did it. I like to continue challenging myself.

Basically your dad wants to learn pickup from you. Wait till your mom comes back and busts his balls. You are going to lose your wingman soon.

Day 56 ( Monday June 18 ): I went to Books A Million today. Before I walked in, I approached a girl at the bargain bin outside. Went in direct, talked for a minute. In the middle of the conversation, she told me she had a boyfriend. She met him at work.
Then, I went inside and looked at a book in the front. I see two hot girls walk in. They walk past me and I decide to approach with no hesitation. I walked behind them and said "Excuse me (they turned around), I thought you guys were cute. I wanted to come meet you" They told me their names. I said my name and then asked them what they were doing here. I noticed that they were looking at the summer reading list, so were probably students. I said "are you really young?" They said "no, we're 18". After that, I said "Do you guys want to contribute, I don't know what else to say" *awkward silence* I ended it, saying "I'll let you guys get back to what you were doing". Then they walked away.

Improvements:
Both approaches were done with absolutely no hesitation.
I did more than one approach today.

Field report
i decided name change . from DRAGON to WOLFGANG

DAY 1 and DAY2

Fromm today I write more FR seeing I have more time there is no reason for me to not to be proactive in my sarging. In town I started off by asking five people for the time so that can get in to chatty mode. My first proper approach of the day was sexy girl with sweater that who walked past me. To honest it took while for me to finally approach her and even did approach her I noticed my voice sounded weird but in my defence I didn’t expect her to be that good looking. Anyway we had a short interaction which I had cut off when I found out she’s was sixteen. (shes ain’t worth going to prison for).My second approach of the day was this chines girl seating down texting. I don’t usually do stationary sets but I thought what the hell and I tried talk to her but she turn out to have negative attitude so I ejected. Third approach was straight afterward which happen to be girl i approach couple week prior. I used that as an excuse to open. The interaction was awkward and filled with some quit pause. I offered to take her on an instant date but she declined.

thank you SLICK for helping me to be more active with sarging .

Good name change Dragon. We got a wolf and a jackal in the gang now.

You should have written it "There is a wolf and jackal in the gang now" because, saying "we" inclines that you are part of the group and friends with us, which is not the case. Post somewere else now Don, your even more boring than before. People who have met you in real life Don know what your like, so stop been a bell end and troll some place else

DAY 3 20/06/2012

Today was really eventful in the sense that I have learned some new techniques and more importantly I have been reminded old ones. I met up with JACKAL in Mcdolands today and he didn’t wast time in that he was already starting a conversations with nearly everyone in his cue. It was good to see that he had fun in his interaction this what I have tried to keep mind when I am having conversation with someone. Anways we quickly moved outside . Where THE JACKAL and I approach nearly all walks of live. We would in a friendly manner ask people how their day was going or compliment them on a particular thing their wearing. This was to help me to project my voice so to grab the attention whomever I was trying to talk to. After this we approached some females. One memorable set was when JACKAL told me to approach these mature women by asking them what would be a good pick-up line to use to get beautiful women . At the start I was a bit skeptic about the idea of doing it but however with assistance from JACKAL I found that these women were surprisingly welcoming . After that interaction I understood what JACKAL meant by approach instantaneously because I should not given my mind time to anker me down into this submissive pattern of thinking. Before JACKAL left we practised some body shifting to prolong interaction with moving sets. This and other techniques I will try to practice till it becomes natural

Day 57 (Tuesday June 19): In the evening, I went to a bar with some friends. It was open mic night, so I played a couple of songs. Afterwards, I saw a cute girl standing with two guys. I assumed they were only her friends. I approached the girl and said "You're cute, I wanted to come meet you". She giggled and looked at one of the guys. I turned to him and said "are you with her?" He said "She's carrying my child" I said "How long have you guys been together?" He said "Two years, but thanks for the compliment". I walked back to my friends. They wanted to know what I just did, so I told them. The guy from the other side of the bar that I just talked to walked over to me and said "where's your drink?" I told him that I didn't drink anything. He said "I give you props, because it takes balls to walk up like that".

Day 58: I went to the mall with a friend. I approached a 2set. Talked for about 30 seconds, then I ejected.

Day 59: I went to Publix. On my way out, I approached a girl who was walking towards the exit. I went direct. She looked flattered and said thanks, but turned around and walked away.

Day 60: I went to the drive thru at McDonald's. The girl in the second window was cute, so when she opened the window, I said "Will you be my girlfriend?" She said yes. She told me to find her on Facebook and gave me her name. I went home and found her profile. Let's she if she responds to my friend request.

SLICK!

GET A NEW OPENER MAN!!!

I'm sorry...I had to get that out.

You use "I thought you were cute, I wanted to come meet you..." all the time!
THat's 80% of your problem.

Use that as a back-up opener or something...but not as the lead player...

How old are you btw?

A good opener produces a conversation man...it get's THEM to talk. That's why questions are good. And LISTEN to the answers, they will fuel the rest of your conversation. You wont even have to talk you just direct the conversation. And they will think you're amazing.

"Hey, I thought you were cute, so I wanted to come meet you..." says...nothing. It gets them to think....ok, you met me...I'm cute. I know Thanks, now go away, we're shopping."

The girls with the fans and the A/C...instead of making them feel like turds because of their lack of central air...you should have said something like, "FANS! Ah ha! Wait...I'm pretty sure I saw a good sale on fans in here. Come with me I'll show you" (Now you guys are on a little trek together...just the 3 of you. They're with YOU now, not you interrupting them.

And if you wanted to be funny, you could take them to like....the kitchen-ware section and say, Right here...Rachael Ray's super-heavy duty sauce pan for only 9.99 (I'm making this up on the fly...just as i would do in the store). Awesome sale....

Then, when they look at eachother all confused like you're crazy you play stupid...have that 3 seconds of awkward, but then pull it back and say...OHHH you said FFFans!? I thought you said PANS!

But I did see a cool fan! Let's go! (But let the TONE in your voice let them know you were joking the entire time).

then actually take them to the fans, and then qualify them.



I'm not a fan of "canned" openers unless I'm stuck. always have a few in your head, but I mostly make mine situational. And I say "Hi" and smile to EVERYONE I meet everywhere. If their eyes catch mine...I nod and say hello.

It keeps you in that talkative mindset and then you're not worrying about how hot the girl is...you just said hi to her out of habit.



Oh oh...learn to think faster too. Scope things out at the restaurant AS you enter...see who you MAY want to talk to and warm them up right from the start.

check this out:

You and your dad go for wings, the hostess asks you how many...you say 2 and usually they ask if you have a preference of seating. You see 2 hot girls eating that you MAY want to talk to (you're not sure yet...) so you ask to sit over in that corner (so you have to walk past those 2 girls)

chit chat with the hostess on the way to the table, and as you're walking past the hot girls, stop and say "oh my...what IS that you're eating? it looks amazing...i'm getting it...thanks girls!" (be very fun and forward with it though...kinda like....I'd say Van Wilder

Now you go sit down...and you've already broken the ice. heck THEY may even come talk to you more.

but now it's much easier to go back and talk to them. I'd wait a few mintues and whether you ordered the same thing she did or not would determine which way I went with this...

Same thing: Approach their table again, look at the girl with the food you ordered and say something like, "I just had to come back and tell you....you...are a genius.

Girl: *giggle* What? Why?

You: Because only a genius would realize how exciting that salad is...with the nuts and the oranges (whatever)

Girl: laughing

You: And I wasn't kidding...I ordered it. So, i had to come say thank you...for giving my taste buds a flavor party today! if you weren't here...they would not be enjoying this deliciousness today...

Girls : laughing hysterically, they may even repeat some of the things you said like flavor party...

You: Listen...I'm taking my dad out for lunch right now, and I promised him I wasn't going to get side tracked this time...but you both seem like very cool girls and I'd like to continue this conversation later....

Start writing your number, and hand them the pen to do the same.

I'd get BOTH girls numbers...let them guess about which one you're after.

and go from there.

Oh, if you ordered something different I'd go back and say something like:

Hey...I just wanted to come apologize...

Girls: "huh? what? about what?"

You: I lied to you...I said I was going to order that salad...but...I didn't

Girls: They'll laugh and reassure you that it's ok. But you must continue to make it funny or the conversation's dead right there.

You: I mean...when i told you I was ordering that...i had every intention to do it...I mean, I was already eating that salad before i even sat down. BUT...Then I saw the (insert menu item with a picture in the menu)

Did you see this thing? No? Hang on....(leave and go grab a menu, point out a picture of the item you just mentioned let's just say it's a smokehouse burger).

And say: Here, here it is...you have to see this, and then I'll let you get back to your meal (time constraint).

Look at this thing, the photographer deserves a medal! I mean, the barbeque sauce is glistening, how do they do that?

How can someone take a picture and change my mind about what I'm ordering just from the picture? I mean...no no seriously, look at this picture, you can almost SMELL it can't you? That's good..that's a good photo.

So anyway, I'll have to let you know if i made a good choice or not...but I have to go now, I'm taking my dad out for lunch today (and finish the same way).

see How i said I was taking my dad out? it seems less...weird. lol Less needy.

good luck!

And Don Juan is right...you may want to not sarge with your dad so much.

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Mike D

I like your sense of humor. I always have trouble making girls laugh. However, if you read back, you'll see that a lot of the girls respond to the direct opener by immediately telling me their name. After that, I'm in. The problem is that I don't know how to keep the conversation going. That is a problem I need to fix, regardless of my choice of opener.
Another big problem is my lack of approach frequency. I've been going out for the last 2 weeks since I came back to Florida, but I've only approached about 15 girls in that time. My goal today is to match that and talk to 15 girls when I go the mall today.
Thanks for the feedback, mdeschaine.

Good call Hobbit, you maybe to comfortable with that opener, and no hating but it doesn't really appear to be working slick so change it up and if anything it will just broaden your game. I won't lie I use a similar opener everytime but usually not fully canned, cause I just say whatever I am thinking although its usually very direct, but it works for me, but keep going mate, you have come on along way from when I first met you