So we met 3 night ago in a mutual group of friends she is a HB7 she is 16 and i am 18 the reason that i say she is wierd because she is verry smart and in the same time kinda drug addicted. Me and her Bestfriend never let her take anything when and that kinda pisses her off.She said she will take a break on it.But she will still use later.(Should I or Should I not help her drop those things?)
Day 2 after we met i was getting her and her bestfriend home and I get a phone call right in the moment i was about to kiss her, a few girls calling me to drink with them and she was looking kinda jealous cause it was 3 AM and i was gonna go to a party.I kiss her and after that she said to me that i should go straight home ... ofcourse i didn't listen I got home at 6 AM.
Next day we text a bit , we meet in the same group of friends... we act normal and then we go home i say we should stay a little more only 2 of us and she hesitated then she agreed.
We sit down she tells me more about her ,and i tell her about me i ask her if she has some other boyfriend ,she said no ,i ask her if our kiss was a mistake(AFC MOVE!!) she didn't really know what to say.Then I say "i dont give fuck, i still wanna kiss you" she said "why" i said "because i'm attracted to you cause you are wierd" we make out few times and she tells me she cant be trusted and she will cheat on me (Shit test? ) i said "Dont worry you wont hurt me to bad and i will cheat too" then she tries to convince me to smoke a joint tomorrow (Today) i said we need to be only 2 of us...But i dont really wanna smoke some legal shit like that,im not really into drugs we got at her place and i kiss we kiss goodbye.Next week she will go home in some other town near ... i dont think we will see to much this summer.

NEED ADVICES HERE:
1 -I want to get her in love with me so she will come this summer often in the city.How do i do that?
2 -She doesn't often start texting.. Should i do it?
3 -I dont know how to act in front of our Mutual friends..only few of them know about us.
4 -I wont get drugs because of her or anybody.Should i let her smoke when shes with me? should i give a fuck if she smokes? cause i dont let our friends give her the joint and she gets pissed off(all i want is to protect her i told her that).

Please give advices guys!!

I NEED HELP HERE FAST !!!
She told me not tell to our mutual friends and i kinda did, anyway she has a crush on a friend of mine. What should i do? Should i give up on her ?

BUMP GUYS I REALLY NEED YOUR ADVICES ! BEFORE I Make some big mistakes.

Take it easy amigo.

1) Making somebody fall in love with you, attracted to you... lots of work and you are never sure if its going to work or not, nor if you have enough time or are willing to put enough effort into this.

2) You can send a text, occasionally, rarely... I hate 'text game'. I would go even further, for me, it doestn even exist. Texting to me is only a way to make appointsments, like: tomorrow, 8 pm, or whatever.

3) Why cant your other friends know you are together? Because she takes drugs? If you can deal with the fact that she takes drugs, then also deal with the prejudices of your friends. If you cant deal with the reactions you expect coming from your friends, dont make a relationship out of this. I dont think you alone will be able to stop her from taking drugs. I think believing that is a bit naïve.

4) If you dont like drugs, you dont like them. You are right when you dont want to take drugs because she does, or anybody else does. Its your body, your mind, you do with it what you want to. She says you are a pussy, or you dont have the guts to take them, tell her you got guts enough to just leave her. Then do so as nobody should ever tell you what to do or what not to do.

pm me if you got more questions

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I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

Hey mate thank for responding
I wanna make get her in love with me because she has a crush in some other mutual friends of us.
I just dont know if i should start texting..
They know now because i told to a guy and he told almost to everyone then she texted me "i dont want the boys to know anything about last night" and they have jokingly said something about us.We didn't talk at all when we were with our friends ,at a moment she goes with her crush(our friend) to walk and her bestfriend and me wanted to go home so her bestfriend got the keys from her and we were on our way home.She stayed with her crush(btw her best friend hates her crush because he gives her drugs,and i hate him too because of that).Her Bestfriend told me that the two of them made a deal to hurt all the guys possible because of some ex boyfriends issues,but she told her bestfriend that she doesn't want to hurt me.
Me and her best friend were chatting in front of their house and the she arvied too,we chat normally , no kiss goodbye this night(i dont know if she expected but i didn't want to do it).
I think it was just a shit test , she told me last night that she just wanted to know what i would say if she will ask me to smoke one time.


Sorry for long responses but i think you need some more info
Waiting for more advices.

So you just want her cause she likes someone else? Idk if thats the right reason, and dont get caught up too much in (saving) her cause she'll probably just use you (get money out of you, get lifts here and there etc). Also her being 16 and you 18 will cause problems, 16yr old girls arnt emotionally or mentally smart. Their fucked in the head, as my friends like to word it. I'd go for 1 your age man, also this forum is about girls 18+ if you read the rules, be careful what you post here.

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No mate i have a crush on her and thats why i want her to fall in love with me... she may be 16 but shes much smarter and dont worry, she cant get any more from me , and i dont have a car . Anyway today me and some friends were going to a bar and we met accidently we said hi.... we didn't talk . after few hours i send her a message "Hey how are you?" she doesn't respond.

What should i do next?
I have big exams comming now.... and all my friends are tellling me to NOT FALL IN LOVE.... but i think im starting to fall in love with this girl.
How can i stop me? or how can i get her and chill.

Waiting for advices.
Thank you

Hmm, this looks its going bad.

I wonder, why didnt you talk with her when you met her? How many times do you guys meet?

In reply to your question: should i text her? You can text her and ask to meet up, if you guys dont meet up much. Dont forget, in seduction, in real seduction, its all about what you do in real life, not how cocky funny you seem to be in text messages .

Also a little warning/prediction for you or an ugly truth for all that matter: prepare yourself for this to go wrong. You think you are falling for her... that is all fine and sunshine, but considering what you wrote in your previous messages, this love might never be answered.... can you deal with that?

Also, you want her to fall in love with you, well you better start doing things together. Either in group with others but most of all, just the two of you guys alone. I dont really know this girl, but likely she is protecting herself behind this tough i do drugs and rebel thing. Most teenagers do. You would want to get passed that. How you ask? Do things together, and talk with her. And please, dont talk about the weather or school or any other funky fluff subjects. Go deep. You want to get to know this girl, that is core in seduction. This doesnt mean you have to agree with everything she tells you, but be able to understand her opinion/emotions behind it, etc.

You will know when you made progress when after you met up you have this feeling you really connected with her and she responded to that connection. That would be good progress, although you arent there yet.

This might work and it might not work. If she doesnt even want to meet with you, she really doesnt like you that much. then i would suggest you get over her and find yourself somebody else

cheers and good luck!

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

Dude, I will tell you this once. STOP RIGHT NOW. MOVE ON. Please trust me on this.

I was just in a similar situation with a girl, and it went on for two months, we almost had sex but she backed off because of some outside circumstances, and I let myself fall for her.


I went and am still going through immense pain. You said you will not see her much this summer. Good. You must forget about her.

Also, she is 16 man, she doesn't even know what the fuck she wants. This forum is for 18+.

She has a "crush" on someone else, she feels about that person like you feel about her. Guess what, it's probably not gonna happen. Sorry dude. You need to move on, please trust me on this. It will end badly emotionally for you. You will become needy and fuck up your chances big time. Forget about her and move on. Move on. Move on.

She Responded to my message
"I'm good thespikez, just now saw the sms,how are you?"


Thank you guys for support.
But before i move on i wanna have one last shot... i will as her today out and see what happens...
I will text her to meet up and see how it goes.

I will update here.
Waiting for more advices and things that can help me.

Hey mate,

i think that is what you should do. update on how it went. I dont think we can give more advice then we did already.

still if you have questions, shoot!

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

Hey Guys Sad Ending
She still kept texting me and , We meet with our mutual friends and on our way home, I dont know if it is true or not but she told me she is back with her ex.
Well i've done some mistakes witch i payed for now.
I dont think i can do anything else to get back with her.
I needed this to see that my AFC stage has fucked me again...
I will move on.. if there is nothing more to do i think.

Thank you for support guys ,
Special thanks to LD :d.

Sorry to hear that man.

Yes the only thing you can do is move on. If you have feelings you should go cold turkey and try not to see her. Do other things. Forget about her.

Good luck.

we have mutual friends so we meet almost daily, but she lives the town in 2 days..