Wouldn't 'Yes' have been an appropriate answer?

Dont OVERTHINK it, comes off as lame. to the last question i would say

"It depends"
then shell ask on what?
"What would you do for me?"
.... so on

This sounds like something she does to guys to weed them out being she is an 8.5. She's having fun with you and not taking you serious, and its more than likely because you're first text sounds like something she gets inboxed on Facebook and dating sites by random guys all of the time. Also, all of you're text responses sound like things you have read on the internet. Where are YOU in these text messages? Where is you're own personality? Women text a lot of guys, and im sure this isn't the first time she has heard every single text response you have sent her already. Along with the text you are thinking about sending; most of the contrived messages you read on the net were just randomly thought about or worked because the text conversation was at a TONE level that made them acceptable. They aren't to be used at any time or any situation and I would advise never using anything that you didn't make up yourself.

You got all bent out of shape here and you couldn't handle it and girls go after the guy that can.. If a girls having fun with you, just have fun right back with her. Be man enough to call her a slut (in a light fun way) ; she is obviously looking to be sexually remanded. Be fun and unmoved by her shit; don't make direct comments on what she says, just keep the conversation flowing.

Me: What do you do for adventure? (never say this again please )
HB: Have sex / what she means " you're boring me already"
Me: [7][7][7] JACKPOT!

Respect? Are you kidding me? You respect that?

HB: Ok. Do u want to eat my pussy?
Me: Do you wash it?

Texting isn't interviewing the person you are texting, text girls the same way you would text you're guy friends while in high moods and busting each others balls; ejecting a flirty/sexual text in here and there. The trick is to confews girls be cryptic and keep them reading you're text over and over to figure out what it is you actually mean. That is what they try to do to us anyway. All in all man, just be FUN. there is a popular statement, 'girls just wanna have fun" and its absolutely true! Ask yourself before hitting the send button; is this text message FUN? If you're answer is no then don't send it. I still don't get how guys have all the time in the world to respond to a text and can't think of anything decent. Thats like a teacher at school giving us 3 hours to do a two question test open book and we write the most far off answer possible. Our brains just don't work like they used to huh? Maybe it's the tap water

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Quoted this from a post, still unsure what to text her back


he girl is an American Exchange student here in the Netherlands, HB8, very cute smile.

Saw her at lunch in my faculty, invited her to come to international evening that night in a bar. She showed up, i talked with some other friends before going to her. ( she seemed drunk) Apparently she forgot me but that was ok. I kept talking with her, ofcourse did escalation and ended up kissing. Got her number aswell, did some more kissing before she left. We made an arrangement for lunch the day after.

The day after, i text her in the morning if she still wanted to lunch, no response. Later on facebook ( after lunchtime..) i get a message i forgot about her( which was not true, obviously) Asked her if she wanted to come over for cartoons and cereals( my standard line for a date, works like a charm) She said she couldnt come for cereals because of homework, but for cartoons she was coming.
We meet up later that night, i show her around the city in the night, we go to a bar, have a beer and a good talk, then go to the park, where we start kissing etc etc. Walk her home, nothing happens

day three, Ask her if she wants to meet up before she goes to belgium for a week. First a no, but later she text me she will miss me, so i answer by saying i can come now to your place. So i go to her place, we sleep together , i had to leave early in the morning for work so kiss her goodbye and she said she wanted to meet again.


Me : I enjoyed last night, monday you were back right ( she told me that the day
we slept)

her : I did too, and yes, i think that is right

Me: Great! enjoy your trip this weekend and please cheer for Holland tonight, we are playing an important football match tonight.

Her : Haha okay, i will cheer. only because I'm nice!

Me : hmmmm, you are ?

Her : Yes! ... im a 14 ( she asked me to scale her 1 to 10, so i said 14 some days before)

Me : 14 is my favorite number, what a coincidence!

2-3 hours passed

Me : Cheer more! we are 1 goal behind

Her : I am Sorry

Next day

Me : I havent heard 'i dont know' ( she used to say this alot ) in quite some time now, I kinda miss it.

Her : Aww How sweet I havent heard 'fuck you' in awhile and i kind of miss it?? ( i said fuck you a couple of times when she mocked me in a fun way )

Me : Im trying to stop saying it! But when i say it it actually means that i like the person

Her : Well good, cause i pretty much like you too.

me : When you are back in Delft give me a notice, so i can say fuck you again;)

Her : Haha I will

Her ( Middle of the night, i was asleep) : I wish you were here Promise you're not married right ( my FB status says married with some random chick)

Me : Promise, I'm waiting for you like a loyal dog ( wtf was wrong with me here...)

The day after:

Me : I think meeting you brought me good luck! After 4 months of experimenting the experiment from last friday just proved to be perfect ( i work on my thesis SPAM)

Her : That's Great! I'm definately good luck!

me : Then i definately have to see you before friday, cause i have an exam then

Like 12 hours later

her : Glat kli kledong ( WTF? )

Me : Lol, drunk much??

her : That actually wasnt me! my friends were fucking with me:P

me : When are you coming back ? My life is very exciting without you but it could be more exciting!

Her : I think i'll be back on Sunday!


Totally bummed on what i should react with.

So whats the problem? You've already slept with her and shes obviously still interested in you. Only suggestions i might have are 2. 1. Keep looking for new girls, going on dates with other girls, sleeping with other girls. Keeps you from writing shit like that "loyal dog" comment. 2. Dont always be the first to text her. Keep a 2/3 ratio or at least a 1/1. What i mean by that is you have her on the hook and to keep her (if you want) you have to make her chase you a little (dont overdo it tho) and she'll want you even more.

Sounds like a good plan, I would probably still wait for her to contact you first on sunday but thats just me. I like to keep the control. Even more so with a girl i really like. Sometimes its worked sometimes its backfired and they dont contact me when i want but eventually its always worked out that they do or i end up sending a Hi there text a few days later.

i think this is awesome advice. i consider myself pretty good at text game, but ive never really thought about it like this before. im gonna start doing this from now on. thanks man.

Just take a step back man, you've banged her.. You're in! Let her initiate some, you are not leaving her time to miss you and if you don't start she will begin to resent you

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Ignored her for 2 days, she started texting me again. this time im keeping my game more!

What a champ!

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Wow this guys really knows his stuff!!!!!! Nice Eddie . How do I find out more about you're coaching

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Haha! This girls is such a flake! are all americans like this ? Started convo again, now not responding withint almost 20 hours, whereas she was active on facebook! love this! back to spanish

You initiated again man? I told you what to do; there are more important things going on.

Stop digging you're self into a deeper hole lol

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Nono! i didnt initiate, she did! but stopped again after a while, that moment i stopped with her. On to the next!