Hey,

Did some CF on a new girl at the gym, and she seemed realy interested. When I asked her if she wanted to take my number and go partying with me and my friends some time she practicly ran to get her cell. (She is new in town btw...)

I met her on a saturday and the following day she texts me wondering if i did anything fun and she told me that she went to some bar... Pretty casual..

My question is: Should i text her like wednesday asking her to meet me for some tea, or should i just play it cool during the week and then call her on fri/saturday telling her to hook up with me at some bar me and my friends are going to. Not sure how to handle it to avoid LJBF zone... Just don't want her to think of me like im her first friend in the new city or something... That might be easier to achive in a bar?

feedback any1?

good rule of thumb is to not text or call on fri/sat nights because you're a busy guy... so i would go with the tea and some stimulating conversation on wednesday, that way if she's cool then you might take her out fri/sat night, but if she's a dork then you can always escape her... hope that helps

Listen to the other this guys response. That is exactly what I would have told you. Great info friend

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Yes, good, go for tea.. I was gonna say exactly what hollywoodinpa said

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yeh.. umm.. me too, i think flarms right on this one..
but yeh good advice from TMT there and dont forget the obvious kino escalation when u meet her for tea- its crucial in avoiding LJBF (dont underestimate it bro =])
much luck.

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go out with her on wed but kinda make it clear of ur intentions. i mean like escalate ur kino if u can and try to make it clear u aint in for getting into the LJBF zone. cheers.

yea another vote for tea. im in the same exact position you are, # close friday, then invited her to a bar for a poetry reading with some friends monday, bar again saturday. my problem was i forgot to initiate kino and escalation but she did that anyway.

Don't forget the kino. I travel a lot and have noticed most chicks want a best friend in every town we go to.

Just make sure you Kino and you should be fine.

I second BlakMagic - DONT UNDERESTIMATE LJBF!!!

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