So Im gonna skip the story about how I know her/got her number.

One day I posted a response on her face book. (something about pitying her for being portugese).

Her(text me immediately after post): Lmao your too funny.

Me: Your flowers are in the mail hun, hope you like roses.

Her: Lol, you know I have a boyfriend right.

Me: So does that me I have to be a jerk? I can't help if I make you laugh, just who I am.

Her: I did!

So now its just been us texting random stuff, also hers are immediate while mine lag 10-20 minutes. Whats your guys take on it? Is she just being nice.

Today I decided to drop it, but she text me again for no reason.

hmmm. ive been in this position. my first mistake was to question whether or not she liked me.

doubt made me hesitate and made me appear unconfident.

unconfidence is an attraction killer.

the thing is, i didnt want to mess with someone with a bfriend but instead of going one way (friends) or the other (going for it) - i kinda stayed in the middle. doing neither. so when she did eventually split up with bfriend, i made a half assed move, and she ljbf'ded me. that really sucked.

i would say make a decision what direction to go in and go full steam ahead.

as Mr Miyagi said to Daniel in the Karate kid: Karate Yes, good. Karate No, good. Karate, guess so - get squished like a grape.

Just assume she likes you.

She's probably getting a little bored with her relationship at the moment.

I'd suggest you keep talking to her. Keep your confidence sky high and dodge any questions or comments made from her about her boyfriend.

Whether she's interested in your or not, just make sure she's still talking to you. Try to arrange a couple of meets ups, whether it be just you and her or in a group of friends, as long as you meet and keep to the talking - There's a big chance she'll start swaying towards you, attraction wise.

I'd suggest you only do this is she's honestly worth it... it could take quite a while before you get anywhere close to fucking her.

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Thanks for the advice. Its a real bind, ive got to make sure im not just thinking with my dick. If I did the answer would be obvious.

I was told by one of my friends that one night she slept over with him. He said nothing happend but im not sure. He has a gf as well but that relationship is shit.

I think joking with her and acting like im not interested would be a good seed to plant if they do break up. They are living together though which makes this so much more weirder.