| Guys i need your opinion about some situation.
Sorry for my grammar mistakes and long text. I hope you will understand situation.
I was texting with some girl on facebook. I'm not guy that love texting and if i text with girl, this is girl that I met outside and i always arrange a date after few text messages. But this was first time I add a unknown girl on facebook. Well, we have a big number of mutual friends outside but we haven't met. She sent me a message about 5-10 min after she accepted a request 'Do we know each other' and after i replied we started to have conversation every day for 3-4 hours. She studies in my city but day after accepted request she went to her parents home on extended weekend(4 days). So we spent 4 days texting with each other till early hours every day. It was so great and we enjoyed it and figured out we have a lot in common(music, sense of humor, thinking). After she got back we arranged a date and walk for 3 hours talking and laughing about our texting and topics from it (monday). I was doing some kino like touching/hugging her while teasing her. She(hb7) was shy on date and i liked her cus of her personality. Also she told me that she recently broke up with her boyfriend(they were together 4 years, living and studying together and he was the one who left her) and she was having a bad time but now she said she is all right and wont never get back to him (but i think opposite, she is still into him but 4 years is long period and need a time to get over it). After date I didnt k-closed her cus this was a first time i met her and i was sure we will have second date when i would do it. We chatted on facebook after I got home from date. She said that she enjoyed and had a great funny time. I was teasing her on something (that she have great voice but not hoarse how i thought when we were texting). She said next time she will have deliberately hoarse voice. I admit I tried hard to arrange second date as soon as possible what was my mistake I think. After conversation I looked at my messages and realized that i was little boring with arranging second date. I should be patient.. She answered like this 'we will see, she has exams to finish and not a quite time..'. I responded: 'If you find a free time just contact me. I dont want to be strenuous. I know you have exams and good luck with them. I really enjoyed our walking and i hope that we will repeat it.'.. She didnt respond to this message but she saw it. This was on wednesday. After this i didnt contact her i freeze up, but everytime I was online on facebook she would come on facebook.
Yesterday I was out in club with my friends, dancing surrounded with females (all of them are only friends) and I admit i was Alpha there. I didnt figured that this girl was there also with her friends. She saw me and come to me suprised that she sees me. I was also suprised and I hugged her, danced a little with her, spin her and talked a little bit but i told her to get back to her friends. After that I purposely continued to dance with females friends spinning them around and I realized that she is behind me dancing and looking over. I didnt do anything just pretending she is no there, dancing with my friends, hugging my female friends etc. About 4 a.m. I left the club and I saw that she also left 5min after me..
I think it better not to send her a message cus my last message was clear and she haven't responded. Also I was the one who always started conversation on facebook when we were texting 4 days and after date.
I want to know your opinion, how would you as PUAs react in this situation(texting,date, behavior in club, after etc). Feel free to criticize me and teach me so i dont make mistakes in near future.
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