Good wit.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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I understand all sides of the arguement.
I have had the pleasure of meeting Jackal, he was incredibly nice and gracious.
This is a man who has chosen to leave behind all sexual attachments to live a life of helping others.
Jackal may not have copulated with many women and I'm sure he will admit to how many he has. The fact of the matter is that he has helped many with their fears in life but my only concern is that he has not dealt with his own demons.

We can tell something about a person when their posture has changed dramatically when he asked a particular question. This also happens when dealing with situations away from reality and online on forums.
Jackal's reactions to these accusations of being a manipulator show a lot of discomfort and his natural response to them is to lash out in retaliation.
The lack of control shows that Jackal is not the put together spesimen he claims to be.
This is why I can understand why people have had a little poke towards him. I do think presenting facts about an arranged marraige and how many children he has should not be disclosed and Jackal needs to choose his friends with a little more care.
Although this may be true it concerns people of the community that Jackal claims to be a PUA and is teaching and advertising that he is a PUA. I too disagree with this and it is misinformative and not true but I don't like the manner in which people have dealt with it.
Now this is why I understand that people deal with it in such a bold way. Jackal's responses are not of the best quality. Jackal uses a strategy whereby he tries covers up any accusations and overcompensates with every breath.

It's a very vicious circle.
All parties, for and against need to communicate in better ways and understand each and one and others views - good or bad.

I hope this helps.

awesome dude, i cannot believe you actually did it in front of your family.
you are getting there

Typical slick's beta response. An alpha male is supposed to be shameless. At the same time, he should have high standards.

WOW i've been missing out on all this.
Didn't know Jackal was a married man and has 3 kids. I'll have to take it back that i said he was a virgin.
Well done Jackal for having sex 3 times.
Don juan I have read really amusing things about you. will you be taking over the jackal crew when he leaves it?. I think you are the perfect replacement as you are both retards.
Where is Diamonds gone?

I have attempted to ignore things. However persistent people have to be dealt with. Evil when unchallenged grows in confidence, and then has a danger to contaminate.

I have a trusting nature. However innocence is not always respected.

Since I started this, it has always been about developing confidence. The F closes is something I could not really care about. Since I have met men with huge F Close scores and was not impressed with the level of social confidence, nothing personal, I just wanted something more. This does not mean I am better than them, just that our priorities are different.

The omission about F Closes was not deliberate; I just never cared about it. In addition others teaching online were not disclosing such information. Even from those who attacked me. I found this deeply hypocritical. Confidence is the key has, and for that I respect him. I do not have a suspicious nature, so guess I did not think people would be suspicious of me.

I had made an assumption at times that guys who had 100 F Closes would not have any insecurity. I have learnt that pretty much everyone has. If anyone does not have any insecurity feel free to show yourselves.

I am scared at times, but this is because I have set high expectations for myself.

I have always been frank when questioned about F Closes. I am a NLP aficionado and can with EXTREME confidence say that my score is ZERO. This has no negative connotation for me. So I guess I did not know how much it matters to some guys online. I do not share the same socially conditioned anchor.

I am confident in what I can DO. However I find the online debate as a distasteful place to discuss such things. I stand my by my definition of PUA, in my introduction. It is a broad definition. I have been ignorant of the fact that to some it meant PIMP, which I consider to be a narrow definition. There are AFC’s out there and also moderate experience guys who call themselves PUA. It is pathetic to say that I do not have a greater skill set than some of them.

The debate can go for on forever. I stand my ground. I have met professionals who have recognised me as a PUA from observation.

I have found it offensive for people to question my moral principles - the teaching frame allowed me to do this whilst at the same time respecting my moral boundaries. It has taken two years to have a broad enough skill set to continue doing this SOLO without it clashing with my core values.

If some are hurt, there was no intention of this. I do have a conscience. The intention was always to learn. If anyone complains then that is there opinion. As far as I am concerned I have always reciprocated value. If people think what I do is easy, they have their heads up their asses.

I had the rules as a RESULT of meeting assholes. If people think it was an ego trip. They are wrong. The ego trip is not the best way to develop confidence. Just because I mention I have flaws, this does not mean that I do not usually have more social confidence, than those in a social setting. This is not a boast it is a comment of the hard work that I do to push myself.

I can be civil to those that that are civil back. However I have a healthy respect for both the alpha positive and alpha negative quality traits. To deal with those as is necessary.

I will mention some bad times as I found them hugely beneficial to my journey. I have done some guys sets, which I had neutralised, but later one member came back to pick a fight, at the time I did not understand win win. Another time I had done hostile guy set as a challenge, and was head butted, at the time I did not understand hostile dynamics. I have been pushed by guys. One occasion I stopped a fight between two guys with kino and verbal commands. I could not have done this without learning pua principles. I was scared but still went in, believing I could neutralise it. Another time 10 guys were harassing a gf and bf set, I was hesitating and could not decide what to do I sent in Romeo to deal with it as he is 6, 5, this did not go well as I was not clear in my instructions. This situation left me feeling guilty for weeks. One of the reasons of doing guy sets is that I believe doing them, I could have non violently dealt with the situation verbally before it escalated. My understanding is that PU is about being a total man. How can we be that that without the skill set to protect those we care about. I could not feel good about ignoring someone being hurt. I am not a hero but do believe if I have the ability to assist then I must.

Before doing PU. I would say things unintentionnally and offend people, the fact that I hurt someone would be on my mind for months and vice versa. This was a sensitivity issue on my part. PU has helped me to develop better social awareness, there is no other community to develop such skills. However I have adapted it to suit my needs. This route has been more cost effective and rewarding than stand up to build confidence. I did not plan doing this for this long.

As I have mentioned I do not discriminate between sets. Since I am not an F Close man, I can devote more of my time on approaching aspects.

Private questions, people can mind their own business. However those I consider my friends are privy to my background.

I found it absurd to not refer to me as a PUA, as I can hold my own with anyone of moderate experience. Although my intentions are different, I do value the transferable skills very highly. I am confident not because I am arrogant but because I spend a lot of hours learning this to improve my skills in life.

I find it offensive that people think I set out to deliberately misinform anyone. I have a creative background, so if I wanted to I could have been a lot more convincing. However I do have a moral conscience and would find that difficult. Besides the truth is a lot easier to remember which is why I am a direct natural gamer.

It is absurd that people want to benefit from my skill set, but do not appreciate the pain barrier necessary to cultivate it. This includes a lot of silly exercises similar to RSD. I still do similar things as a way to keep momentum. I do not do F Closes so have had to broaden my skill set to get the same sense of achievement as the rest of the guys. Quite frankly I like doing things that no one else has got the balls to do.

I am melodramatic as I have always been a creative spirit.

I am always honest about what I CAN and cannot do. If people have inferred dishonesty, that’s their business not mine.

I have no wish to be loved by everyone. However I do make an attempt to be liked by everyone.

I am not a professional so can be brutally be honest to students. I have taken great risks at the risk of losing students, purely because I believed in my motivational methods.

I do model myself after James T Kirk; he is a leader and friend to his compatriots.

I have never made claims about getting anyone to be able to talk to any women, or F Close anyone. My boasts have been general comments which I found to be entertaining. It anyone thought them to be anything else. Then I personally believe those to have a negative mindset. The trolls online are still bothered about posts made over a year ago. Some igorning the actual wordings which. For example:-

"Afer being with me why would you go to anyone else. This is a boast that can fall flat on its arse. This is a indirect boast. I am not deluded enough to make direct boasts.

Also boasts saying

“I am the worlds shittist PUA",

“I am the worlds most hated",

"worlds most fattest PUA".

“learn from the gay fake virgin everyone loves to hate”

It is convenient to pick and choose.

The editing has been as a result of my constant change of mind. Not as a result of me covering my back. I guess that is why the edit button exists. I am not one to hide behind my actions. The trolls are bored so have been regurgitating old news.

The trolls have entered my world and have also been emulating the presentation style of the FRs which is a bit IRONIC. As It is sometimes quite difficult to get guys to get the FRs done in a presentable manner.

I have done the best I can, without having the luxury of being trained.

Thank you for your comments. Apologies If I cannot be more light in my comments.

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Meet and Wing.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
[link]

Typical Don Juan PUA Alpha paralysis in analysis comment.

You forgot to mention you are deluded.

The very fact that you are responding to this shows AFC tendances.
Stop telling everyone that you are good and just get on with it.

Actions speak louder than words.

CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISMS FOR JACKAL

Couple of points for you jackal:

1) JACKAL, please count the number of times you have typed "I" in your message. Its not all about you bro. Drop the ego. Its easier said than done unfortunately.

2) Please learn how to be unreactive. Your responses are getting bigger and bigger. Shows you are the most reactive person in this thread.--- beta.

3) Essentially, a married man is a beta male. You have absolutely zero alpha qualities in you because your wife has destroyed it years ago.

4)What you call social confidence is basically going to the pub and talking to women without qualifying, creating emotional connections or sexually escalating with women. And you create zero attraction. Do you have any female friends ? Do you have a PUA lifestyle ? No. Everytime you go to a club, you act like a cat in a bathtub. You are a nervous wreck. Your social confidence is only due to the fact that you have your fellow pua henchmen around you and will defend you. Bottomline is that women don't like you. They will tolerate you for a few minutes because you are a goofy standup comedian (which you call social confidence) and you belt out your 3 page memorised routines which sound so contrived.

5) You are more interested in maintaining group hierarchies and ego boosting than in women. Better go to a gay club like you did last time. Unfortunately that day Dolphin and Volcano didn't come inside cos they were ashamed and were insecure about their sexualities.

Day 50 (Tuesday June 12): I went to the grocery store. After leaving with my bags, I go to my car and put the bags inside. I was about to go inside my car, but I saw a really cute employee assembling carts in the parking lot. I jogged up to her and approached direct. Then, I asked her what she would rather be doing. She said she'd rather be laying under the sun. We continued to talk for a bit, I went for the number, she had a boyfriend, and that was the end. Before she walked away, she smiled and thanked me for the compliment.

Day 51 (Wednesday June 13): I went to Walmart with my Dad. I approached a 2set, saying to them that I wanted to meet them because they looked interesting. Surprisingly, they immediately told me their names. I shook their hands and told them mine. We talked about why we were in Walmart. After a bit, I ejected. I'm slowly starting to make this a part of my everyday life.

Day 52 (Thursday June 14): I went to Target with my Dad. I walked away from him to go to the bathroom. On my way back from the bathroom, I saw an attractive 2set walking in my direction. When they walked closer to me, I said 'Hey, you guys looked cute. I had to come meet you.' They told me their names and I asked why they were at Target. The girl on the left said they were getting a fan.
Me: You don't have central air conditioning?
Her: No, I just moved here from Georgia.
Me: Do you like Florida better?
Her: I prefer Georgia.
Me: Why?
Her: Because there is a variety of seasons there. (Florida is hot all year)

After this exchange, I said 'I have to catch up with my Dad now, but I want to keep in contact'. She said ok, and giggled a little bit. I took out my phone and she gave me her number. I shook hands with both girls and we parted ways. After reading this post, I realise that I didn't say anything special. I got the number because of good tonality and strong body language.

CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISMS FOR DON JUAN
 
1) Shut up!!! You sound like a broken record!!
 
2) Do you honestly think a married man can not be alpha?? Shows how much u know!
Some of the best guys I know are married & are more alpha than half the guys on here & they make great wingmen- The fact that they dont go out cheating on their wives does not make them less alpha (some of their wives are stunning women who anyman would be proud of)
 
3) Please learn how to be unreactive?? Come on man, you are a fine one to talk, you are constantly on here giving "constructive critism" (seems like u are fairly reactive)
 
4) HOW MANY WOMEN HAVE U SLEPT WITH? I wouldn't take advice on football from someone that has never played the game, so why should anyone take advice from you when you are yet to even say how many women you have been with???
 
 
5) Do YOU have any female friends ? Do YOU have a PUA lifestyle ?

You know what your problem is Slick ? You need to grow up just a little bit.
Stop going out with your dad and mom all the time and be a man.
Your worst enemies are your parents because they will never let you become independent. My best advice for you slick is to stop this pua stuff. It is fairly dangerous. It can ruin your life if you are not careful enough. One of the main things you need to learn is to go out, get rejected, get amoged, get ridiculed and this will seriously destroy your ego. When the ego is destroyed, you can either go mental or you could become an alpha male if you are able to control yourself.

May I ask which professionals have recognised you?