So my friend introduced me to this chick in an online game (they know each other in real life), and after spending time with her I started to like her.

Anyways I knew her for around 2 weeks when my friend decided to take her, along with some other friends, on a group to a festival, and that was the only time I met her in real life. Over the time I've been with her I've noticed some positive things and negative things. She's 18 and I'm 17.

Positive:
-First thing she did when she saw me was hug me
-Usually giggles/laughs after I make a joke (I'm usually a really funny guy though, so I'm not sure if it's an IOI)
-She did initiate a couple of online games with me, not sure if it's an IOI

Negative:
-She mentioned her ex-boyfriend to me (briefly, but I heard this was a bad sign)
-I was making a joke about me being super sexy and she said I wasn't
-She hasn't shown any other IOIs

Unknown:
-She playfully calls me a noob a lot (in a teasing way)
-She doesn't try to stick to me all the time (she'll suddenly stop talking on SPAM sometimes for whatever reason)
-She gets opportunites to see me/be with me but doesn't come
-She said that she was forever alone to me once (Is she looking for me to ask her out?)

ANYWAYS, I'd like to know where I'm at in this situation (is she interested, did I get friendzoned, should I ask her out yet, what step should I take next, etc.)

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The key to generating attraction is to always assume it is already present. If you are taking time to analyze a girls every move to see if she is interested in you then she may not because you are spending value time thinking when you could be escalating. What have you done that she would be interested in? And I'm talking in the sense of attraction generating; Me and my buddies laugh and tease each other all the time.. What are you doing that is separating this from a normal teen interaction?

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The key to generating attraction is to always assume it is already present. If you are taking time to analyze a girls every move to see if she is interested in you then she may not because you are spending value time thinking when you could be escalating. What have you done that she would be interested in? And I'm talking in the sense of attraction generating; Me and my buddies laugh and tease each other all the time.. What are you doing that is separating this from a normal teen interaction? [/quote]

I really don't know, as the only chance I get to talk with her is on SPAM. Could you please define escalating and give some examples?

best time is NOW, worst time is LATER. while you're wondering if she's really into you, she is having orgasms getting fucked by that college football quarterback.

now, let that image go threw your head a second…… enough. not what you want to feel?

JUST DO IT! ever heard that one?

you will feel better for having tried, no matter what the outcome. trust us, we’ve all been in that position before.

you don’t want to see her fuck that dude and think, “shit! why didn’t i DO anything!!!”.

years later she will tell you, “hey, i really liked you too! i had no idea you were into me….” by that time she will be ugly, or old, or married to the football qb.

then your only consolation will be, “well at least i’m not married to HER”. or not, maybe she’ll be smoking hot, living in a huge house that she won in a lottery and talking about how great her husband football qb is.

GOOOOOO! NOW! WHY ARE YOU POSTING ON THIS BOARD? DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, THEN POST ON THE BOARD! lol.

Great solid advice man. Thanks.
One more thing though, how do I generate attraction/build her up before I ask her out?

don't "ask her out"! in fact, try to limit your questions (generally), especially those that have only a "yes" or "no" answer. open-ended questions are better. "wanna make out?" get's a pass.

asking her out = pressure, unless you are sure she is attracted. don't kid yourself, if a girl is attracted to you, it's pretty obvious. by asking her out you will make her think, and you don't want her to start thinking. get it?

in fact, you want her to think less about "do i want to?" and more about "i can't stop thinking of him", and let herself go.

now you must attract an escalate-

tell her, "i want to hang out with you! i'm chilling at ..... with some friends. meet me there at ...." there was no question there. assert yourself. she may not have time, but if she's interested, she will suggest another time. now, she's the one asking you out. get it? it's a subtle trick that works on a subjective level.

in a nutshell, be the unique dude. you mentioned being funny. good sign when women laugh BUT, don't be the clown!

big difference between entertaining women and sleeping with women, although not mutually excusive. do not be the dude that she hangs with because, "he's so funny". be the guy she hangs with because "he's so much fun". get it?

lead the convo. turn the SPAM sexual. tease her. make her laugh about herself. whatever you do, don't be boring! don't talk about the same shit everyone else talks about with her! even if she's the one being boring, it will be YOUR FAULT. again, LEAD THE CONVO. be unapologetic with your sexuality. and DO IT FAST (but be relaxed and non-needy. either way, you hit a good point if you're getting resistance from her, she's a young girl so it should be the case. if you're not getting any resistance at all, you're not escalating enough, unless you're fucking her. lol).

one thing i learned about attraction is you need to keep the temp. high. if you let it cool off, you're back to square 1 (if you're lucky). escalate. i say it again ESCALATE. this is what you should have been doing all along.

keep temp. high, escalate, and don't be scared of the outcome. fuck it, she's just another hb.