I mean, asking 'does she like me?' means you're not sure, right?

If you're not sure then you're in doubt, right?

if you're in doubt, then you're inner game is compromised, no?

Therefore....if you have to ask 'does she like me?' are you coming off from the wrong foot?

Wouldn't it be better to ASSUME she likes you and take it from there?

I did this recently with my one-itis. was always looking for IOI's wondering, does she? doesn't she?

But as soon as I assumed 'She likes me', i felt a lot better. relaxed. and strangely enough everything she does now is perceived as her liking me. does that make sense? if she likes me its's only a matter of time with her so i can relax and do other stuff wheras comign from a needy 'does she like me' i was always doing wrong stuff. trying to get her attention. at least this way, it seems she is trying to get my attention now. like 'accidentally' bumping into me in the hallway etc. whereas before i might have hung around to make conversation with her, i can confidently walk off knowing she will find another way to get my attention. and if she doesn't? no great shakes. there's always someone else.

If not handled, small doubts become complexes! I believe that the world is what we think it is mate. If you start to believe that she does like you, this idea will transfer to her mind too.

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totally agree mate.

Analyze your situation with every chick you interact with. What are the dynamics?

Are their doubts? If so - address them.

Am I friendzoned? Caveman out and FIND OUT.

Does she like me? Gain complaince, escalate and FIND OUT.

Doubts are pre-cursors to trouble; a festering wound of non-communication that leads you to a negative place.

I always confirm as quickly as possible any doubts I have. Then, good or bad, they're no longer doubts - they're facts. It's who I am; I go for the honest response, and go for it directly.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

This makes a lot of damn sense. Thank you I needed this, post of the fucking month

Kudos good post.

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