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Dude as a foreigner you are a dtf man in the eyes of women(they do not have to worry about being view as a slut etc...) also you are being look as a ticket out of spain(spain second world country in tons of financial trouble), so remember that, bring the topic that you are from out of town(being a foreigner is a form of peacock), and if you are American/England even better, you do not even need game... Find a way to bring the out of town topic asap...if you are going with 6 dudes, make sure they are not dorky/ afcs(even if they are print out my top mistakes and have them read it), and try opening alone or with another dude, too many dudes opening a set will scare them away, i do something similar to what gambler say to do sometimes by shaking my head up and down and lip sinking kind of a funny way guetoo, looking for a response and brief eye contact, no with hand signals like gambler said to do, but try the gambler stuff if you want... I really just open by dancing, as i said not planned, or calculated, just kind of i happen to be there dancing next to them and/or i just open dancing, then i look for compliance(while escalating), dude is just too easy... in spain you should have an easy time, i would also pm Phagan, he travels and goes clubbing all over Europe, just pm me what he advise you for a second opinion, cause sometimes he goes tyler durden on me(mentally masturbates)... Any way you should not have any problem in spain, the dudes in spain are very good looking, but they are so weak, soft and afc, that is not even funny, at least the dudes i have met from there...
must important part of opening when dancing is confidence, lack of hesitation, and being decisive... You hesitate you are done, 3 second rule important...
Sorry man, I should've specified this before in my last post... Anyway, I'm from England and the place I'm going to will be full of other British women too as it's where most of them go for a summer holiday, so it'll probably be around 95% British women and maybe 5% or even less than that for Spanish women (bartenders, club/hotel reps, etc) most of them going out there will be DTF as it's a holiday, the weather's nice and hot, they'll be showing more skin and being louder/more fun than when they're back home, all that jazz. The sets should be relatively easy, so long as they're not too drunk, when I went to Greece last year I observed dudes trying to hit on women, but it's like their friends are an extra protective barrier when they're in a foreign country, surrounded by new people, EVERYONE is a stranger to everyone, except the group of friends you came with of course, so the non verbal stuff Gambler was talking about seems like a great way to establish a positive response before you open. By the way I like the grinding bit you highlighted about grinding from the front with your thigh in between the girl's leg, never thought of it before as I usually grind the girl from behind, but I'm gonna give this a go for sure. I won't be number closing at all, unless I find out that the girl actually lives near my area back home (surprisingly I met two girls last year who only lived about 10-15 miles away) but this is very rare, kiss closing is also kind of irrevelant as the girl can be in one club one minute, and vanish with her friends to another club halfway down the strip the next, so you can't really come back to her unless she's definitely staying in that club, I guess I'm just looking to be confident, escalate and full close with a girl near the end of the night, when the time's right, 3 second rule is key.
Also, the 6 guys I'm going out there with have read the game and know a little bit about it, I'm pretty sure they've studied it further than reading the book which'll help. We'll probably all arrive at the club at seperate times, but all meet inside to grab a drink at the bar, whatever... Whoever arrives first can eye out targets, get friendly with the staff so we're favoured for the night, etc.
I'm a pretty laid back guy so I usually just chill out with a drink before hitting the dancefloor and get in the zone without over thinking it, I just do my thing and see how it goes ya know?
Any tips now you know the full situation? Thanks man.
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