theres this waitress that i want to open but the situation in this bistro makes it a little difficult. the problem is that everyone working there (waitresses and waiters) don't necessarily get assigned to a section but rather they tend to just make their rounds and rotate quite frequently. thus, i cant run the "bad service" routine on her.

anyone have a good routine for such situation?

"Hey here's my number, *give her a napkin with your name and number*
call me maybe"

Absolutley. Women will always reinitate contact with a customer they barely know. Genius advice. Realistically, odds are low if she's not serving you. I would just be honest and go right to her, direct line from your table to her and just be direct but I realize this is easier said than done.

In any case, realize the woman is also working, so you can be blown off logistically. I've gamed many waitresses, and only f-closed 5 but it depends on the girl. Some don't care about their boss, others are frightened. Lol.

What's important is that you let your desire for her drive your actions. Do whatever it takes.

Since you will not have sufficient time to work game or build any rapport, due to how busy she is. You must think out side of the box. You need to want this girl so bad that you will trigger your inner beast. Be creative.

Here is a suggestion. It's not a routine, I truthfully just thought of it right this moment. I visualized a busy restaurant, a hot girl that I wanted and no potential to talk to her at the moment.

Ok first, you need to make sure you make lots of eye contact, do whatever you have to do to enter her world. When you do get eye contact, make a small gesture, a simple smile, a smirk, a crazy face, whatever you have to do to get into her head. Then through out your dinner, try to make continuous eye contact when ever you can, get a read from her. Make it clear through your body language that you are interested in her.

Then when you are just about to leave,

Get a pen and a piece of paper and write something like this:

Roses are red, violets are blue,
I'm the cute guy wearing black that couldn't take his eyes off of you.

I wanted to talk to you but you were busy with work
I could'a just stopped ya but I am not a jerk.

Here is my number send me a text
You never know when a man like me may come around next.

(sign your first name in print, then write your digits beside it.)

When you are about to leave, find the right opportunity and stop her in her path make eye contact then give her the note and walk away.
( Sometimes cheesy shit is your only option)


Either she texts you or she doesn't, either way! you got into her head, even if she doesn't text you. She will certainly remember you if you walk in there again. You made your interest clear and you did it in a charming manner. If she had any initial attraction to you, I'd say this may give you a good shot.



By believing passionately in something that still does not exist, we create it. The nonexistent is whatever we have not sufficiently desired.-- Nikos Kazantzakis

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

thx guys. she actually opened me after i made tons of eye contact but didn't want to close right then and there since her boss was around (dont wanna get her in trouble or anything).

in the end, ive ran a variation of a song lyric/poem on a note.

actually come to think of it, this is pretty genius since its a relatively popular song and it gets played around that shopping plaza quite often. now everytime she goes to work and happen to hear it, she'll have to think of me.