Make her smile/Flirting (maintain/build attraction).

It's a good post but this I don't like, it's girly. Build attraction when you take the number. Use text to set up the date. Use text to check her sexual openness when and if you're not sure that your sexual intentions are clear BUT this should be done subtly and I'm waiting for SA911 to give example of how he does it...

This is really very advanced. I was talking about guys who go on prolonged "trying to be witty" conversations, texting stuff like "congratulations!" "what for?" "I was thinking about you. Congratulations!" and such nonsense.

What you are talking about is very interesting... and I have an example of how I could have used it just two days ago. The girl I number closed at the coffeeshop, which I mentioned above - I met her that night and it was more or less a waste of time. She turned out to be much more conservative than I thought she would be. When I first saw her she was wearing a dress with a very deep cleavage (she had awesome tits), her smile was very inviting, I came over and she was very warm. We spoke and it was seriously "on" and then after a few hours she was the one who contacted me first to set up the meeting.

She knew I was leaving the next day so for me it was clear that it's going to be one of those "dates" which end up in me taking the girl into a hotel (like here http://vanofvictory.com/lithuanian-flag-captured/ here http://vanofvictory.com/three-crazy-nights-in-riga/ and here http://vanofvictory.com/instant-date-instant-pull/) . So we met, spoke for about 2 hours, had two glasses of wine each. She had to wake up the next day at 8 am so I knew she couldn't stay up too late.

And yet - 30 minutes into our meeting - I already knew I wouldn't be able to close her that night. How did I know it? Small things... how she was holding my hand, how later she didn't want to go into the van to have more drinks.... I could just feel it.

She wasn't the kind of girl who would do it on the first date or I fucked it up somehow but it's hard for me to believe that it was a fuck up. We ended up going to a club together and luckily because she had to wake up early (and I turned a little cold towards her... that helped) she left at 1 am and I could open more sets (two makeouts that night... but nothing more) She contacted me the next day to check if I really left (I didn't answer) and today again to ask me where I am and how I was doing.

So here for example I could have tried to gauge her sexual openness by text and save time but I didn't think I had to, due to our first meeting. And I'm almost never wrong on these things.

In the Riga case I did use text to gauge the girl sexually. I tried to make her invite me over to her place so she could cook for me, or so we could "watch a movie together". Her reply was: "I don't have a DVD but thats not the biggest problem, cause as i said - I don't live alone "

This for me was a sign that she understands that our meeting is going to be sexual, so I knew the meeting will NOT be a waste of time, and indeed it wasn't. This wasn't my aim... I really DID want her to invite me over because I thought it would be cool to see how a local girl lives, but in the process I also screened her for being DTF.

But I don't usually do this and I feel that this could also be risky because it could put a girl off from meeting . For example a few times when I asked girls in a club "do you live alone?" I could feel that the question turned them off a little.. but maybe it was good because it saved me time on someone who wouldn't be down to fuck anyway.

So, SA911... if you have examples of how you gauge your potential target sexually, without risking fucking up the situation by doing so, I would love to hear them. Do you suggest I do this with EVERY girl I number close?

So bottom line - "advanced text game" to screen sexually = yes. "text game" to turn a flaky number into a meeting... ok too. But long bullshit conversations to demonstrate that you are funny or anything like that = no fucking way.

If I just talked on my cell as much as I text women, I'd really need to upgrade my cell plan. For example last night, pretty typical.... I was texting with different women on and off from about 3PM to 6AM.

And it's impossible to talk on the phone with up to five women simultaneously, For me text game is pretty important.

EIT: sorry for the double post. iPad malfunction.

Why does it have to be done subtly? Why can't you just say it? We both know a girl wants sex, so if you are traveling and she knows you are leaving in 2 days, I'd be direct as hell.

Bingo you can talk to multiple women, work, and do a million different things, at the same time with text, is convenient, effective and efficient, specially if you have google voice(this is the best shit for a seducer to have) and is free...

my thoughts are twice as long as her with exceptions of course (if she texts me the next day I don't always text her back 2 days late).

I still think there is WAY too much texting going on here. I'd only text to screen girls I'm not sure about sexually...

Even turning a flaky number into a meeting - I'm not sure I'd do that because I'd rather hit the street and get a new "solid" number. It's like what I said about online game - I know its easy but I wouldn't want to do it because it's not the kind of guy I want to be. I want to be the guy that sees the girl in the STREET and walks up to her with no AA, and then pulls her into a coffee-shop. If I start texing flaky numbers (why would I get flaky numbers?) and do online game - I'll fall back to someone I don't want to be, someone I was a year ago.

Why limit yourself?

I define MY game, it doesn't define me.

RR

I still think there is WAY too much texting going on here. I'd only text to screen girls I'm not sure about sexually...

Even turning a flaky number into a meeting - I'm not sure I'd do that because I'd rather hit the street and get a new "solid" number. It's like what I said about online game - I know its easy but I wouldn't want to do it because it's not the kind of guy I want to be. I want to be the guy that sees the girl in the STREET and walks up to her with no AA, and then pulls her into a coffee-shop. If I start texing flaky numbers (why would I get flaky numbers?) and do online game - I'll fall back to someone I don't want to be, someone I was a year ago.

Lets say you would only do online game. You could define yourself however you want but you would still be the guy hiding behind his computer screen.

No man, your actions define your character, not how you define yourself.

How you define your perceptions makes your reality.