Hi all

Im really new to approaching girls. Today i went to the supermarket to get cigarettes and there was this girl who handled the payment (sorry for bad english). When she saw me she grabbed her hair and pulled it all back. When i left she smiled at me. I felt stupid for not asking her number when i left the store. So i went back and there were people so i had to get in line to get to her. So i said i couldnt help myself but to come back and ask your number. I didnt articulate well so i had to say it again the said no:(
How come? Maybe becayse it was foolish to come back? I know its hard to say but id like some opinions. And how sure are you of your take on this?

Im a buff guy but short 5.5 and a 8/10 face. She was a hb7 but 10cm shortrr than me.

Thanks in advance

Edit:actually she said no sorry.
Dont you think if it was someone else more handsome she wouldve said yes?

You didn't get "rejected". Eliminate that word from your vocabulary. It just didn't go anywhere. As for why? Who knows. Going back in probably came off a little needy to her or maybe you just weren't her type. Don't worrry about it. Make an effort to meet more girls. If you're meeting 30 new girls a week you won't put so much emphasis on one interaction that didn't go perfectly. Good luck.

Please dont have empathy for me but be honest!

I think you probably just weren't confident enough and by going back in it communicated that it meant too much to you. It really is no big deal. Just make an effort to meet more girls and you will realize this. Also, your looks aren't very important. It's hard for guys to get this through their heads but it's true. Women aren't as shallow as we are.

Thanks,more takes on this are highly appreciated..

there are numerous reasons why she said no:
1) boyfriend
2)lesbian
3)doesnt fancy you
4)fancies you but was playing hard to get - shit test
5)was being watched by the manager who told her to stop flirting with customers

truth is the only one who really knows is the girl in the supermarket.

all you need to know is that it doesn't matter. you have to move on to the next one. she really isnt worth the scrutiny. lol

who was around her?

it could have been the people around her that made her shy off

There were lots of people in the line behind me and just at that time someone else of the staff came next to her.

BINGO

so thats why she didnt give the number...because of the people in the cue, and also because of the staff member coming..she felt embarassed or shy or her ASD went up

So, you didnt necessarily do anything wrong