I'm an 8 out of 10 in terms of looks BUT I have no game with women. I have just relied on Chemistry all my life. i dont know why my confidence is so low, but I don't know what to say when I approach women. Can someone help me with some easy pic up lines?

It may be that because of your looks you never had to figure out who you are. Identity is where confidence and knowing what to say all come from. I don't think your focus should be pick up lines. Your focus should be on your own identity.

That's so true...I don't know what my identity is...how do i find out?

If you are good looking, chances are your ego has been high and you are naturally sociable but you just hit the realization that you're not getting results by just looking good.

To discover this identity will take the following: actualization and internalization. Actualization is taking actual action and internalization is making these "OK" for your brain to do. The latter can take a year or two of experience. The first step is trying. If you are good looking and consider yourself a 'people person' look to my pickup manifesto.

This what a reality check for me a few years ago. All my life I had a chip on my shoulder thinking women should throw themselves at me because of my looks, I learned the hard way this is in-congruent with reality.

In the end, however, good looking guys like me have to work less/escalate less to get the desired result.

Ok..I understand actualization and internalization, but where do i begin? I dont even know wehre to start...

It starts with "inner game" and carries through to "outer game" these two terms you must memorize and become familiar with.

If you really need some help, PM me some form of contact and I'll reach out. Coming into pick up in 2012 is going to be a mindfuck for any newbie.

Yeah these terms are true but kind of vague for you to understand.

I think the first questions are things like this:

What are the things that you enjoy doing whether others like or approve of it or not?

What are the things (other than addictions) that you just find yourself having to do because it's like breathing?

What are values you feel strongly about? What are your beliefs?

The really important thing is to separate you from others' influence. Figure out your likes and dislikes as they would be if not for the pressure of others.

And don't expect to know the ultimate answers. Just find your answers for now and know that in time you will hone them more and more.

a pickup line will not work miraculously out of the blue.

get in a conversion with a chick, and keep that conversation going

then go from there