Hmmm, I found it different. A lot of my first approaches did get negative reactions, but what I found was that it was no big deal. Affirmation excersizes at home etc sound great, sure, but its when you are in the position to approach, when the AA actually hits, that you just have to push through. In the moment of AA a lot of this will be forgotten, and thats why I think it is the best way.

Failing is a great way to start actually, as its all but guaranteed until you get good. You have to fail to learn. But you need to approach to fail.

Anyway, its all horses for courses I guess. If your method does help some people then its gold for them.

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1.) you don't have to fail to learn if you learn from someone who has already learned. 2.) the affirmations that you have instilled within your subconscious are what push you from within to approach but you don't understand that because you have not tried my method. Also, the affirmations change how you feel consciously and when you feel better you are more aggressive. 3.) once again talking to people is an inconsistent way of building. Tell yourself what you want to believe. Be the captain of your ship.

Dude The thing is this. You cannot sculp your emotions and mind if you don't understand how you need to feel to just do it.

Learning by trial and error is the best way to end up "phyiscally, mentally, and emotionally scarred." A broken heart, the wrong woman can ruin you. A woman can ruin you. Ruin you. Keep that in mind before you tell somebody else to learn the hard way.

Most people don't even understand what it means to be self-confident or how to be self-confident. They just tell you be confident. how in the hell are you supposed to do that???? Just be confident? lol thats like telling someone to build their own house ya know?

Self-confident- WHen other people don't like you or respect you, you like your self and you respect yourself. When other people don't believe in you or think the way you think, you believe in yourself. When other people dont want you to do it, you can still do it yourslef. A lot of people have confidence, but they dont have self-confidence. They rely on their parents, their friends. They dont rely on themsevles. Can you make your own choices?

Most people dont kbow how to recognize...value judgments, that different conclusions can be drawn, things can be seen from different perspectives, different assumptions can be made, different things can be seen as determinative.

how about just not giving a fuck what the outcome is? worst case- she says fuck off, you walk away. best case- you have sex later.

It doesn't work like that because obviously most guys care what the outcome is, lol

Our goal is to win

So many people want to make this so simple but if it was that simple people would not struggle with this so much. Damn....

Here are the take aways:

1.) A strong mind thinks, a strong mind feels “I will overcome.” I will overcome, I will overcome is the attitude of a strong mind. I will succeed is the attitude of confidence. I will persevere, I will endure is the attitude of toughness. (A Strong mind is both confident and tough)

2.) You build confidence with affirmations then positive experience (you believe you will succeed because you have seen it. You know you will endure because you have seen it). You also get confidence from having a plan, from know what you are going to do. You get confidence from honoring yourself with your mouth and actions. You get confidence from being cocky. Affirmations ultimately will encourage you and instill beliefs within you.

3.) You use confidence and desire to overcome AA. You practice your technique (your openers, your stories ect...) before approaching, you practice them until they become instinctive. Then you approach with your technique. If you are nervous by practicing your technique you can use it because it will instinctively come out. After you have approached more women it will become a habit to approach and if you have maintained a confident mind in these approaches your mindset will instinctively become confident when you approach women.

4.) You're tough when your so secure in your happiness, pride, and confidence that it can't be shaken. There are two ways to become consistently more confident. #1 Get to a certain mental place, meaning get confident and keep getting confident on a daily basis until it becomes a mental habit. Optimism is a habit. Its a habit to doubt your doubts. Its a habit to look for reasons to believe in yourself instead of reasons to doubt yourself. #2 Instill the beliefs with your subconscious. We all have things that we say and think that come from experiences or words that had an impact on our subconscious. Hell, subconscious beliefs affect your behavior without you actually knowing.

5.) With a lack of confidence people can’t do what they want to do, place limitations on themselves, they can’t take ridicule, they don’t confront danger or take risks, they cant take pressure and so they don’t work hard, they can’t even think for themselves. And its all emotional. The emotions drives thought and the thoughts reinforce emotions.[/url]

Here's an action list:

1.) Create about 5 affirmations (1. I am Perfect 2. SuperModels Lust After Me. 3. I will talk to anyone woman I want to. 4. I don't care if people dont like what I want to do. 5. If I don't talk to her someone else will)

2.) Write out these affirmations atleast a 100 times each everyday and/or right before you go out.

3.) Practice honoring yourself. (speaking of yourself in a positive light, dressing nicely for yourself, cleaning up for yourself...)

4.) Create Opener and Stories that demonstrate value then practice them until you know them in your bones.

5.) then go out. Approach 100 different women. And make a journal entry about each one. (when you approach the women it may feel like you are about to fall off a cliff, but the worse thing that can happen is that you will be embarassed. So you just fight that feeling off it happens and keep approaching)

If you do this, you are setting yourself up for being a social virgin. Heed this guys words with extreme caution. Wreaks of loser game.

You just keep hating son....you want people to take your advice where you saying rejection is fun?! You want people to listen to you and you say rejection is fun? you want somebody to listen to you and you say rejection is fun? And I am a loser?
You say rejection is fun. You say rejection. Dawg you a joke. Go back to first grade. You didnt pass.

Something you can also do...if you have an iphone or an ipod is that you can record your affirmations and just listen to them throughout the day, when go to bed while you are sleeping. or even while you are at the club. Think about that. YOu got yourself in your ear screaming at you, making yourself into your own man when you are faced with the anxiety. Its a beautiful thing. Grown men controlling them. Its beautiful

And one more thing. The movie Fight Club has its roots in Nietzche's idea of the Ubermensch the man that has rejected has rejected society's value's and created his own. Too often when people want to be "social" they think of that as just being what other people like, they think of it as conforming to the ways and wishes of others and thats just wrong. Behave how ever you feel like behaving and find a way to make people conform to what you think is social. make people conform to what you think is social. Never change. Never change. Be a boss, be a boss, be a king, be a king, be the man, be the man, be the general. "Don't be a product of your society, make your society a product of you" (Departed)

Here's an action list:

1.) Create about 5 affirmations (1. I am Perfect 2. SuperModels Lust After Me. 3. I will talk to anyone woman I want to. 4. I don't care if people dont like what I want to do. 5. If I don't talk to her someone else will)

2.) Write out these affirmations atleast a 100 times each everyday and/or right before you go out.

3.) Practice honoring yourself. (speaking of yourself in a positive light, dressing nicely for yourself, cleaning up for yourself...)

4.) Create Opener and Stories that demonstrate value then practice them until you know them in your bones.

5.) then go out. Approach 100 different women. And make a journal entry about each one. (when you approach the women it may feel like you are about to fall off a cliff, but the worse thing that can happen is that you will be embarassed. So you just fight that feeling off it happens and keep approaching)

good post

I would add to that:

Giving more, so that you receive. You're doing that with your post so your spot on. This also helps you come from an abundance mentality, so that your able to do the things you want to do.

An abundance mentality solves all - and that comes from giving.

When you give, you feel good - its an act of charity. That re-programs the subconscious mind favorably for abundance in that thing.

This is why you need to be charitable to others in game - give any advice or suggestions you can to anybody elses game, and watch your game sky rocket!!!

Have known this for years