Okay i would of liked to have posted this message in PUA lounge but I haven't reached 50 posts but I need your guys opinions on this.

So i was in the club and my state was sky fucking high. I necked two girls a hb6 and a hb7 relatively early on. About half way through the night I was dancing at the front of the club (it was this huge DnB night, netsky played etc but whatever just trying to set the scene) bumping and grinding with hb7 and all I could see was chicks.

However my state was probably one of the highest its been for like 2 years. I had high positive energy, I felt naturally happy and I was probably smiling alot and doing stupid but subjectively funny/smooth dancing with this girl I had necked. But she left and I thought fuck it she might come back she seemed interested enough. I still had this high energy and was just focusing on netsky or whoever was playing at the time because the music was bouncing at the time. Still had sky rocketing state and then all of a sudden...

This hb9 out of fucking nowhere (I didn't even notice her at all) ripped off my hat I was wearing and threw it a fucking mile into a sea of people behind me. This hb was my cup of tea she was right up there with the hottest girls at the club that night. When she threw my hat away she put her middle finger upto me and looked very annoyed/pissed off (like i had tried to finger her asshole or something whilst dancing) but I had not seen this girl not once in my life. I returned the kind gesture by putting up my middle finger however I do have to admit after my hat went my hair was fucked up, so got inside of my head, felt self-conscious, really confused to why this girl had done this and my state fell. I have to stress that before this I was on my A-game and felt on top of the world, wasn't even looking for ioi's just enjoying a good night out.

any takers on what the fuck happened, like why hb9 was angry (or seemed it but trust she was not happy)

I was so taken back by it - it fucked my state and subsequently put a bit of a downer on what was a great night (music and success with two girls - even though it was only necking, I wasn't looking for anything more than a kiss I do have to stress)

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You let it affect you because you saw it in a negative way..

I read this and laughed..its a funny situation.

Imagine if you had looked at her and laughed and told everyone around you how funny it was....don't you think that would've maintained your state a bit better?

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I remember a similar situation happening to me in a club around 1994.

I was pretty high on something at the time i remember and this girl just came up to me and started ripping into me about something. She was standing there screaming and shouting at me and i had no idea what she was on about.

i just stood there watching her as if totally disconnected (which i guess i was) and found the whole episode rather amusing because i wasn't emotionally attached to her or the outcome or to what she was talking about.

i later found out it was my friend's girlfriend but to this day i still have no idea what she was talking about nor why she was so angry with me. nor do i care.

I suppose i was really interested (why hb9 ripped my hat off) therefore outcome dependant

but what i was trying to find out by my topic was two things

judging on the situation would you say this was a missed opportunity...i have come to the conclusion (thats where i need other peoples judgements on the situation to keep myself level head and open to what happened) that hb9 was frustrated that i was having a good time and not acknowledging her presence

(she was very hot but I think, might be right or wrong tho, that because i didnt notice her once and she recieved a lack of attention she seemed angry/pissed off at me where in most situations shes getting looked at and people trying to dance with her but failing miserbaly etc),

Also I felt that i was receiving attention because the two random ass hb6 and hb7 where right up for the ride because for most of the night id say i felt everything I did was working as in stupid dance moves, alot of smiling (not that crazy eyed weird smiling tho, just general enjoyment), wasnt afraid to make a fool out of myself.

So after that shit explanation to clarify

was hb9 pissed off that i didnt notice her thats why she ripped off my hat and threw it into the abyss of the nightclub and seemed hostile by swearing (like i tried to slip the sneaky finger up her ass in the club)

and because this frustrated her that I had a good chance to approach and make amense and get another pull/something further from the interaction?

Thanks guys for the responses so far, ive learnt next time a hot (bitch in my eyes) throws your clothing into about 600 people that you should just laugh it off and keep up that same energy, not being outcome dependant and not to think about it like "wtf did that hot bitch just do to me"

however if you have any tips on how to deal with those sorts of interactions where hot girls seem almost angry because you haven't noticed them and approach you and do something rash to make me notice her...what should i have done next (although this is all speculation as I might of misread the situation entirely but this is what the forums about, debating and different interpretations) look forward to hearing some responses on the matter

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Okay i relate to this

i was there minding my own business feeling great and she comes along throws hat, starts giving me shit, she gave my the finger and was very animated in letting her feelings known to me like "fuck off fuck off" and shit like this, she was like screaming/shouting at me like the girl you explained in ur post.

but thanks for the response, ill try laugh it off next time if i dont feel so violated to losing a hat of mine next time to a bitch, even though she was smoking

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sorry to bump but need some input on the situ

sorry modz if its pissed yah off

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Lol I can relate too this so much.

I don't see why. Personally i think its wishful thinking that she was pissed off that you didnt talk to her. and if that is the reason then she probably has mental health issues so no loss there.

just treat it for what the situation was. a HB took your hat and threw it into the crowd and was angry with you. the only person who's really going to know what that was all about is the HB.

who knows. maybe she thought you were someone else, or she saw you making out with 2 chicks and it got to her

or maybe she was drunk

Whenever you wear a hat, someone is going to take it in a club without a doubt

better to accept that your putting yourself in a situation where things like that can happen

Focus on the makeouts and what you did right there. Thats the important thing as the success was there