So a little while ago I got this girls number, we talk back and forth via text (won't see her til August) and I think there is flirting going on (I make fun of her a good bit jokingly she says smart comments with the sticking toung out smiley). Anyway, recently she called me dear and love (like goodnight dear! See you love!) does that indicate friend zone? If so, any way to game myself out?

I don't know why you're jumping to thinking that you might be in the friend zone because of her calling you dear and love. That tells me that you're probably insecure about whether or not girls like you, because if a girl calls me dear or love, that would indicate to me that I'm NOT in the friend zone and she likes me.

I'm not saying that to jump down your throat or anything, I'm saying that because you need to undersand that that type of thinking doesn't help you.

At the end of the day, you don't really need to "game yourself out" of the friend zone, you just need to show sexual interest in her. And showing sexual interest can be as simple as calling her sexy.
"Hey sexy lady........"

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I don't know why you're jumping to thinking that you might be in the friend zone because of her calling you dear and love. That tells me that you're probably insecure about whether or not girls like you, because if a girl calls me dear or love, that would indicate to me that I'm NOT in the friend zone and she likes me.

I'm not saying that to jump down your throat or anything, I'm saying that because you need to undersand that that type of thinking doesn't help you.

At the end of the day, you don't really need to "game yourself out" of the friend zone, you just need to show sexual interest in her. And showing sexual interest can be as simple as calling her sexy.
"Hey sexy lady........"

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Thanks for your response! I was talking to my friend about this and he said that meant friendzone which is why I asked it here. Anyway, we are definitely playful via texting (we were both watching jeopardy the other night and I guessed final jeopardy right and she didn't and I jokingly said suck it and she said no way and then I responded I wouldn't let you anyway,I have high standards). She does talk about some other guy that she met with me saying he's cute (but she doesn't have sexual intentions with him) but her bringing up another guy kinda worries me even though I bring up a girl that we both met too so maybe I'm reading into things too much

Thanks

just keep it moving. you'll never know if you've been friendzoned unless you escalate, right?

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Any ideas on how to do it via text (won't see her til August but then well start seeing each other a lot)?

i would say DON'T do it over text.

the problem is whatever you say over text has to agree with what you do in person. so it'd be weird if you escalated over text... then when you see her, there'd be these expectations.

your best bet would be to test the waters a bit. keep it light, but a tiny bit more sexual. cause if you cross any lines, it'll be weird. so maybe come up with a funny nickname for her too. get some inside jokes going.

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Any advice on how to keep things slightly sexual? Sex is brought up in our convos, but not about us. Do I hint about sex between us slightly (if so any advice?).

naw naw naw. just BE sexual.

touch her arms, her waist, don't keep your arms off her. you don't have to talk about sex, EXUDE it. have it seeping out of your pores. let it fill the air.

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Oh alright thanks. I won't see her to Aug though, any tips on text game? I'm not gonna text her that much to avoid being weak and clingy.

just think. at first, try not to respond the first thing that comes to mind. it'll come fast, and sometimes won't take the conversation anywhere. make your texts funny, don't just respond "hahaha that's cool!" cause that's a way to make a conversation go nowhere. plus, with the time you're spending thinking about it, you come off as a lot less clingy.

that's just a good starting point. once you get more witty with the texts, you can pick up the speed again, and the quality texts will come easier to ya.

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