I've been having great successes the past couple of weekends. I've gotten 6 numbers, and have been flirting with every piece of ass I come across to much better success than ever before. I'm really starting to feel like the old me is starting to be replaced by a newer and improved one.

However, just tonight I went out with some friends to a bar and came across some girls I knew that happen to be close with one of my friends. These same girls I haven't seen since before the start of my transformation. Is it normal to lose confidence and conversational ability around them? Because they intimidated me before, I feel like I still associate them with some of those feelings. As where now I establish rapport and comfort with random girls much easier, I find it hard to apply it to them. I see my friend acting so vulgar and sexual with them, it makes me a little jealous in a way and makes it difficult to maintain my state.

Has anyone felt like this before? And how do you overcome it? I'm really determined to get to where I can be open and vulgar with women right off the bat, but it's times like these that make me doubt myself. . .

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Agreed!!!

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

Seems like this girl gave you nightmares before .. I know exactly what you are saying man.. Sometimes, people act differently beside people that know a lot about your past. Anyway, to get over this I suggest you get your self out of your comfort zone and do it anyway. If you don't have the courage yet, your game is not that solid yet so you still need practice

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In this world, you don't get what you deserve but what you fight for!

Are the guys that are vulgar fucking her? If they are - that's cool for her, that's not MY game... maybe that could be yours. If that's not you - move on, obviously keeping the friendship intact to fuck her other friends.

But the PUA does it differently than the other guy - always.

"She knew me when" is a common fear when you're really starting to delve into becoming a PUA. She knew you before you were 'YOU'. Right? She knew you when you were scared... Here's the secret to understanding that feeling and moving the fuck past it.... SO WHAT? Think about it that way. So fucking what. That Old You, isn't alive. There is NO old or new you - thre is only YOU - right NOW.

So, YOU dominate your own frame.

If you've not seen her in a while - that's a good thing. This makes her NOTICE you more now as you're acting completely differently. Subliminally, this is her pre-selection process thinking "wow, maybe I missed something last time...". She mentally has to recalibrate her definition of you, and the whole time that conversation is going on in her head - she's thinking only about you.

Mental game is so tremendously powerful. My philosophy about game is pretty much this: I don't care about lines, tricks and gimmicks. I care about identifying what she wants in a sexual man. If I know I'm that man - I build the picture for her slowly... then while she's looking at the picture, I fuck her.

I control her frame, I am in her frame, and I show a comfort level with being there.

But, I've said "so what" - and I don't give a fuck. That's the first step. You're in a good place.

RR

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dude this really helped me out as i was having the same problem