cheers man. got another girl iv been textin, shes at college with my mate and added me on fb after we met briefly one day, i number closed her and have been txtn her n havin fun, shes agreed to meet up before but then she wont txt for a while n say she is busy n then today i was gona go up to see her at stables where she keeps her horse (shes a posh lil daddies girl) but she never txt so when i txt about one she said she hadnt went up yet. i leave it til i here from her?

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Cool thread, maybe you can help me!

Quick background info, I've been gaming this girl for a few weeks, went out the other night, back to mine and fucked her. Since then, shes been distant. I randomly texted her yesterday and this is how it went

Me: Stop it!
Her: haha what?
Me: Stop thinking about me!
Her: haha it's like you read my mind, I wasn't though not until you text me, you must be thinking about me because you texted me first
Me: I blame all the pictures you took of us the other night (she'd recently put them on facebook)
Her: lol! I can't even remember taking them, can't remember much tbh
Me: haha! I remember you kept telling me you loved me
Her: Yeah as a mate, I say that to everyone lol
Me: haha, yeah I didn't think you were in love with me!
Her: Good, that'd be awkward

Now, I know the last line was stupid, in hind sight I wish I'd replied with "Yeah, wouldn't want you planning out wedding" but I didn't. What do you think? Did I blow it?

haha I would love too

And no dude, you have already slept with her, one bad text message isn't going to blow anything at this point. The only that will be blown is you're " Youwho"

I wish you guys would stop thinking that a text message can ruin things, a text is not a big deal!! Its one electronic frequency that invisibly travels through the air, it not all that serious. Just imagine if this conversation happened while you guys were in person; would you freak out and lose state over one thing you say? Treat you're text conversations as they are happening in person, they're is always room to recover. Its no biggy, really

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Thanks man! Great advice about the "treating text conversations s if they were happening in person" I never thought of it like that before!

I might well be misreading this BUT did she not just say she loves you as a mate? which would indicate to me she regrets sleeping with you or thinks you'd be better as friends... and does not want to sleep with you again. But well done for F-close Dude!

Just my opinion

i'm probably a bit late on this one but how the hell can you tell the first guy to carry on texting a girl after she literally says he's boring her and she cant be bothered talking to him?

Are you being serious?

Anyone that knows anything about women knows that they're words almost never calibrate with they're actions. Just ask a woman what she looks for in a guy, i bet she'll give qualities of a man that is the exact opposite of all the men she has ever dated.

If a woman is still typing to you, and hasn't blocked you or IGNORED you, she is still making her attention available to be manipulated. Ever heard of LMR or ASD? In all of the instances a women is rejecting you and tell you NO and to STOP trying however there are always ways to turn this around.

Also if you have ever been out and approaching women on you the street, you will clearly see that you can turn around a " OMG get away from me" or creeped out look with a little persistence. The guys that give up after one or two rejections just know little about seduction. And go home to they're bottle of lotion and they're very pornography website.

BUt its all good

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You gave good advice after the first "i got bored" reply. But I can not believe you still saw opportunities after the second "i got bored".
She was 100% serious and basicly said him to fuck off without using bad words. That is fact. Anybody who can not see that is clueless.
Not every girl is the same way that if she does not want to talk to you, she ignores you. Some of them actually say that they do not want to talk to you before ignoring. Of course if he would have continued she would have ignored him at some point, maybe she would have given him 2 more "get lost" before completely ignoring, maybe 5 more. But she was actually not interested.
There was a way to turn this around, you gave that cool-funny line which that dude sent to her. And if she was at least a little bit interested she would have reacted in some positive way. She would have given him at least some credit for that. Thats fact. However she gave him the same cold blooded "get lost" message. And after that even couple more cold "get lost" messages.

Positive thinking is good, but not ignorant positive thinking.

I have been in his shoes before and I have seen the situation flip around, in person and over the net; many many times. Which makes me perfectly okay with agreeing to disagree on this incident. I honestly don't get why we're arguing over a girl that we aren't sleeping with or trying to sleep with anyway

As you guys get out there more and gain more experience with women, which you will, you will understand my point more and more.

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Once again - are we talking about the first "i got bored" or the second "I got bored" comment.
If we are talkingh about the first then I 100%agree with you, it was good way to turn her around.
If you are saying that there she was not serious later - then you are over your head.
Its like saying "you can date any woman in the world if you game her well" - sounds good, but not truth.
And who are you to think that you have more experience when it comes to undestanding women's psychology?

And one more thing: if you are saying that you might have turned her around thats one thing. I am saying that guy did not turn her around.

Also one more thing - don't you agree that if she would have been at least a LITTLE bit interest she would have given him some slack for that funny and cool way to turn it around instead of repetaing cold blooded "get lost" message?

Yea man, you are absolutely correct, I apologize for ever challenging anything you have to say; it won't happen again

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Yeah this was mostly what I was wondering about actually, the thing that confused me though (I am moving away from a text convo, apologise for that) is that after the lay we had a "deeper" conversation, she kept calling me amazing, kept saying how she'd wanted to kiss me since the first time she met me, how she never actually saw it happening and how she knew she'd kiss me that night. So the fact that shes suddenly turned around and said that did confuse me, but I suppose it could be one of two things

1. A shit test
2. it's true, and the stuff she said the night before was just after sex talk?

To be honest, I'm fucking confused about it all!

i agree with eddie, this is ridiculous to argue about, none of you have probably ever tried after a second rejection so how would you know?? Y'all are assuming. Eddie just said he has been in that situation...Look, it really DOES NOT MATTER. It's his opinion anyway. That's what the thread was made for. Now quit flaming and on to the next question !

THIS IS ALL OVER FACEBOOK: So I had this date setup with a girl to go swimming at her house...she set up the date..I don't exactly remember the texts but it was all about this. And then I texted her when she wanted me to come over the next day. She never replied so I texted her telling her that she needed to let me know if she wasn't gonna hangout with me so I could make other plans with other people. And then I texted her something about missing out on a party because she still hadn't replied (I was drunk as well... ) Then She sent me a long message about how technology was bad (her phone was taken away) but the thing is, facebook has this new feature where you can see if they saw your message or not. The stupid bitch saw all of my messages RIGHT when I sent them. Should I persist or just not even acknowledge this girl anymore?

Amen.

Don't spell it out for the woman, it just kills the seduction/romance. Instead speak through the language of subtly and insinuation, never advertise what you're trying to do to her or your objective (e.g., to be your girlfriend) as that spoils the thrill of the chase.

I would simply disregard this text conversation; it never happened. Come to her anew, keep her guessing, offer her a thrill, mystery, a reason to look forward to spending time with you at the end of the week...you're enigmatic, there is a mystique about you and at the same a sexual energy to you. Learn to turn the volume down and focus more on the person's behavior rather than words.