So I leave my girlfriend in my room with my computer. Then when I come back she's gone. She calls me later and tells me she saw some sex videos of me I had in a secret file. How she found them I have no Idea. But they were from a long time ago and I finally convinced her to stay with me.
Now, the problem is shes seen me have sex with another girl, so now everytime were about to have sex or having sex. She stops everything or just gets in a sad mood. She tells me that us having sex reminds her of that video she found of me. Her mind then goes more and more to thinking of me with another girl. After that the mood is obviously ruined and we put our clothes back on with sad faces.
This has been happening alllllll the time now.

Apart form this there is another reason she says she avoids having sex with me is she says because she thinks she isnt good enough for me. and even when i compliment her on anything she says she becomes aware of what she is doing and becomes more insecure. So insecure that she never does ANYTHING. When i have sex with her she just always lets me be the one doing everything.

HOW THE HELL DO I GET AROUND THESE TWO PROBLEMS?!!!! HELPPP!!!

I just want my girlfriend and I to have great sex again. And I want her to want to want me sexually more then i do her. How could I get her to start the sex instead of me always being the one to start it, do it, and end it????????

Convince her to make a sex tape with you.... "It'll be fun!"

If she says no, just hook the cam up to your TV and have her watch it while you... you know. You don't really have to record.

Maybe she is doubting because she thinks you don't want to have vids of her too??