Hi,

The other day I got a waitress' facebook when I was leaving the restaurant, and as soon as I left the restaurant I look back and she was behind us so I made fun of her and asked her if she was stalking me and she was cracking up.

Took her about two days to confirm me as a friend on facebook.
I sent her an inbox saying Hey stalker! but she hasn't replied yet.

I'd like to ask for tips and suggestions on what would be a good inbox message that I could send her to spark her attention and get the conversation going.
I'm planning on visiting this restaurant again next sunday when i know she will probably be there but i'd like to win a few yard via online game first.

Im generally terrible at online interactions, im not sure on what to say.
Please advise on what are some good topics to make girls interested via online game.

Thanks a lot in advance for your help!

I'm not sure you'll win anything online. Seems like what you were doing in person, worked at the moment you did it. Unfortunately it sounds like you have the same problem I do, it stops mattering to them a few days later. The gals don't return my calls. I think this means I created enough attraction to get a number close, but not overwhelming attraction, nor any comfort. So a few days later I'm just some random guy that happened to hit on them and they don't particularly care about one way or the other, so they flake. I think this means I need to do more things in person, and also try to get things to happen immediately as much as possible, rather than getting put "on the backburner" for several days with phone numbers or facebook pages or whatnot. So although others might have some great online banter to offer, i'm going to suggest that you just go back and deal with her in person, and do whatever things are missing.

i know the feeling, yall. that's why you've got to be spontaneous. yes, take the FB or the number. but know that if you take it and walk away, your chances for success are gonna drop. arrange something IN THE MOMENT, or even better DO IT. you don't want to let her have enough time to second-guess. maybe invite the waitress to a bar after her shift to unwind? tell her you're planning to go to the movies the next day, and she's welcome to come! that way your only interaction over text or FB is where and when.

girls love to do things in the moment, and if you give them enough time to think about it you'll get nothing. it's like the difference between going for a kiss and asking if you can kiss her. give her a chance to think, and it'll most likely be a no!

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