Hi Guys need some sound advise from all PUAs.

A little background on my current situation. I met HB7.5 at a club 2 weeks ago. That night i was making my way to the toilet when HB7.5 caught my eye , made some eye contact and HB7.5 smiled at me. I took that as an indicator of some IOI so went over and hold her hand, she did not reject my advances. I squeeze her hand and she squeezed back. To cut the long story short as were about to reach the stairway i push her against the wall and kissed her passionately with my thumb on her cheek 4 fingers behind her neck we kissed for like 5 seconds and she stopped as my fren was looking. She held my hand went upstairs to the club and went to the VIP area. To my suprised she left the VIP area went back to me and asked for my HP and keyed her number .

The sms exchanges were as follows

Me: What are you doing on Tuesday night ?
HB7.5: Me off on Tuesday no plans yet. Wednesday have to work.
Me: I found a new ice cream parlour , would u like to join me for ice cream ?
HB7.5: Yeah!! Ice Cream!! I would love to!!
Me: Cool. I pick u up at 8pm ?
HB7.5: Okies!! See ya !!
Me: Oops forgot to ask for ya address.
HB7.5: blk227 XXXXXXXXX

On the actual day 4 hrs before our date these are the sms exchanges
HB7.5: Actually m on standy tomorrow .. got called up for early morning flight! reporting at 6am!! zzzz no more ice cream d. shall we make it next time ? So sorry bout that ! : )
Me: after 3 hrs Ok. How u plan to make it up to me ? with a wink icon
HB7.5: Hmmm// I've no idea... hahahahah
To keep my pride i pretend that i proceed to go try out the ice cream place with
a "female" fren

Me: Wow the ice cream is really nice !! COffee Oreo and Sea Sale Caramel!! Really delicious!! 2 thums up!!

HB7.5: arghhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!! ** Hate U **

Me: i dun understand y girls love to order weird ice cream flavours, mango tango
and lemon berries sound so sour!!

HB7.5: Girls are like that. i prefer sweet than sour.

Hi guys can u give me an assessment of the interest level of this HB ?
How should i proceed ?
Is she a flake ?
Btw she works as an air stewardess and her work times are irregular and always on standby. I used another number to check on her by dialing her hp , her hp is really off which indicates that she really had a flight on wednesday morning.

Regards

Thanks

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Based upon that text I think she has a genuine attraction towards you. Would she leave VIP and return to give you her number if she wasn't?

She probably really did have to work.

My advice to you would be this: follow-up, but don't chase. Make an attempt to reach her and build the relationship, but if she's not serious, then find a woman who is.

I wouldn't get from your texts that you went with some other girl, and that's good because that probably would have turned her off since her interest and unavailability appear to be genuine. She offered to re-schedule and seemed disappointed, and eager to meet up.

In fact, the fact that you appeared to go for icecream anyway without her, alone, and then teased her about the icecream, seems you're spontaneous and fun loving, and not afraid of your masculinity to go get icecream.

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Hi All

I totally agree with your assessment. Besides she also gave me her real address. It doesnt make sense if she wasn't keen y would she gave me her address so that i can locate her. I want to have the 1st date badly to reinforce the attraction and kiss, if not i am afraid the interest will die out. I have purchase some fireworks as preparation.

My plan is to have the ice cream date , kino have some hand holding before kissing .Then if things are looking up go to a park for a stroll and let off some fireworks. Think it would be an awesome and memorable 1st date to distinguish myself from the other guys.

Any thoughts anyone ?

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The fireworks are a unique gimmick and can be good.

What's really important is the delivery...

If she was already your girlfriend, when you're having your regular dinner, you can announce "...and also I bought some fireworks for later..." and make some fire / passion related pun that I can't think of right now.

But since this is a first date, everything is meant to be casual. When you tell her about the fireworks or when she finds out about them, it has to be REALLY incidental. Have a little story about how you saw them in a shop today and thought they looked like fun, and we could try them out later.

The key here is effort. The first date has to be casual, to check each other out. Yep you can secretly put some fun into it, to inject some memorable experiences into your first meeting (and this is nearly always a good idea) but she can't think that you're putting that much effort in to someone you only just met. It kills the mystery and the romance.

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Yes u are right. Letting the HB know i put in so much effort kills
the attraction and suspens. As we are all here to learn from 1 another
i have learned about frame and impression.

Btw i have picked up 3 simple magic tricks, first is a card trick to
guess the card that the person has chosen , the 2nd trick is a coin
disappering trick and the last is a trick to change paper
into money. I have practice the tricks till the presentation is flawless.
Was just wondering should i showcase all the tricks or just 1 to
keep it for future dates to impress ?

Regards

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