Getting AMOGed by a friend



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PostPosted: Thu Jun 07, 2012 3:28 am 
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But at the same time, I disagree that you need to get this guy to apologize about it.

He's just not going to do that. Also if he did where is the advantage in that? Unless this is a common place that you can't give up and can't give time, like the only bar in town kind of deal.

If you're not always fighting for territory with this guy you need to let it go. I would. Or I'd end up in the parking lot like a redneck with him - this is not in line with our goals.

If you want to beat him, do it socially, with social proof. Tighten your game! Keep your chin up! Pull more 8's 9's and 10's then he can. Pull their friend circles. Then start having parties. Don't invite him, or better yet if he shows up, ask him to leave. Asking him to leave your party would be the ultimate (I remember you said he's in your friend group).

Don't let this guy taint your experience and don't have anything else to do with him. Write him off. The event sucked - yeah. The event is over. Getting your feel goods with an apology will not make you a better PUA. You're doing fine, stay on track.
The advantage is in this is that this guy disresepected him and for his own self-esteem and self-confidence he need to hold the guy accountable. Don't break any laws, but tell the guy to his face that he was wrong and that you deserve an apology and i want an apology in front of the girl. Also if the guy does not take any flak for this he is going to think its perfectly okay to do this again.


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 07, 2012 3:39 am 
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You don't just let it go because its about respect. Its about how you esteem yourself and how others esteem you. Its about your reptuation. You know its about your honor. Your social honor and your personal honor.


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Give the blame where it is due everyone is overlooking the fact the game is always about self improvement.

Fuck the guy if he was good enough to steal your girl...there was holes in your game i'm sorry to say it but tighten up.

As a fellow community member i mean this in the most enlightening way, progress towards a goal you were dancing she was getting all touchy feely and you didn't capatalize man!
If im running dance floor game (and i absolutley love to) i give them one song now during the duration of this song i will be dancing very sexually.

After one song I k close re-isolate make out and bounce or # close and time constraint it shouldn't take you multiple songs to escalate

Let the guy do his thing the best response is always a cocky funny one. My buddies always try to steal my sets you should of tried something along the lines of

tell her "You know what i like about you, you're cool and honest ( qualification) , so im going to be honest with you.....(pause for effect) my buddy over there said you were the easiest girl in the club and he said you are all over everyone so he said he could easily fuck you tonight." The reason i didnt tell you at first is because i thought you would freak out and make a scene like every other girl... you're not like every other girl are you?( more qualification to seal the deal)

Or if you want to be less malicious " My buddy is always so playful before he ties up young women in his cellar" :)
Or "He Really likes dancing with girls after he puts the special herpes ointment on"
Anything to add value to you and make him look like your pet


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 07, 2012 4:31 am 
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He's not a friend. If you thought you were friends, he's not a PUA - or he's used you as a pawn the whole time.

By not confronting it then and there, you lost face (and the chick). By not confronting this issue with every friend you have - you risk this happening again.

Anyone saying "get back at him" is being foolish. It's not the PUA way. You confront a situation when it happens. You don't 'get back' at a guy. That's wasted effort when you could be fucking another woman.

The time to correct a problem is as it's happening.

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