So I need your help. I can't tell if this girl is into me or what is going on. So this might end up being a novel but I'll give you the main events I think are important. I'm currently 20 going on 21 and I've known her since I was 13. We accually dated for four months then and as lame as it sounds I was the first guy she kissed and she was the first girl I kissed. Well 3 years down the rode I get a call. She tells me come get her. So we're sitting in my car and end up making out and shit. This was while she was with her bf for over 2 years and lost her virginity to. Well the same type of stuff happened over the next few years like late night drunk calls ect. Well I ended up moving to Omaha with my gf and lived with her for two years. We were on rocky ground and decided to get separate places. So I call this girl knowing she needs a roomate and was moving to Omaha. Instant yes and plans started getting made. Well I call her a week later and ask if she wanted to go to this fancy dinner and my work(embassy suites) and before I even finished she said yes and started going on about these new high heels. Well that fell through because she said she would feel bad about me having a gf. Well the gf left town and I'm single again. We make plans to watch movies. So I go to my new place (not moved in yet) and she ends up cuddling up with me. I was drinking and smoking hookah and I guess she had some Vicodin. So she looks up wanting the hose and I say to bad, next thing I know we're making out while passing smoke back and forth. Get up her shirt and she's like this is the farthest you've gotten with me with a smile. Well the rest of the night went so fast I don't remember all the details. The Vicodin made her sick so she threw up. Ask me to bring her a towel and she laying naked in the tub and insist I stay. Well after a few hours I went down on her. Got her off a good four times and got her to say now you've done it I want you. She ended jumping on top of me so I got her back down to avoid sex( we had agreed not to let other that far so things wouldnt be awkward as roomates. Even though i got the best bj ever. Fell asleep togeather. We fooled around in the morning untell I worked and it has never been brought up between us. But we did have a talk that night were she mentioned she never new I liked her anymore and also said she likes me but is scare to pursue a relationship with me. Well I ended up moving out cause she has really bad anxiety and would go through breakdowns and get mad at everyone. We are still on good terms. She went to a bonfire with a group of my friends and would stop giving this look.

I know I have a bad habit of not letting girls know I like them. I have bad anxiety and get to scared to say certain things but I'm getting better. I know she's always throughing me lol but at the same time she also makes it seem like she's not interested. She would also get really jelous when I brought other girls over. She later said that night was a mistake but idk of she's just saying that or what? What do you guys think.

That's just a shit test!

She wants to bang you, and you don't!?!?

That whole "award" crap is bullshit!

So many dudes on here trying to get OUT of the friend zone, and she is throwing the opportunities at you like a pitching machine at a batting cage!

She seems like a "wild" one! are you intimidated by that?

I guarantee someone else WILL take over!...again and again

you'll be stuck in "Friend Zone" forever always wondering "Why didn't I"??

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Whoa... you didn't fuck her because you're roomies... but you let her suck your cock and you ate her out? And you expect that not to get weird? She's thinking "I'm not good enough to fuck?"... She won't say that - but come on, it's natural for her to feel that way, especially after already having orgasm(s).

Dude, go beat off right now, manhandle that cock and be angry at it. Get a 'dishonorable dicharge' from it and remember that the next time a woman begs for dick and you refuse.

FYI: The dynamic was altered the moment you had your hand up her shirt.


RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

You have no idea how much I regret that lmao. But with us moving in togeather and our families being close freinds I didn't want to fuck shit up. But that's my biggest issue, over thinking shit. But I'm moving back to Omaha in two days so I'm going to try again. Hopefully I didn't fuck my chances up. But she flakes all the time.

Rope her in on a commitment to help you with! A lot less likely to flake!....progress from there! Escalate!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

For flaking chicks ...

My mindset is simple... Do I get pussy from her? Yes? I'll endure some flaking (and make other plans accrodingly) if I still fuck her. I have one married lady that likes the side dick, she averages 2-3x/month coming over for an afternoon. She flakes a few times - but I know her deal, I STILL fuck her regularly, and I don't give a shit. She gets a pass.

A chick I want to fuck and haven't that flakes on me gets a compliance test immediately.

As for your deal... so you're no longer roomates, you're not going to be any longer? Family friends involved? If that's the case, why worry about it? I'd suggest sitting down with her and having that 'speech' as I like to call it...

"Whatever we are... I don't want to define it. I just want to feel it. If it's there, we'll just know it. I'm not a boyfriend - I'm a grown ass man, and I'm not going to be called a manfriend either. If we get serious, then let it happen over time. For now, let's just not talk about it, and simply get comfortable."

You're not saying shit there really... But, I've found that will help appease the Commitment Nazi quickly.

By the way... if you two still talk, and it's not creepy...simply hang out again and fire up the hookah...from there, she should be taking turns between smoking the hookah and your dick.

......but fuck her this time!

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

I need to get better at reading girls. I alway get and send the wrong messages.