Good you're aware of it. Calmer heads always prevail.

feel like a dick cos iv scrapped two dates with other girls for this girl so far. im tellin myself not to txt her at all unless she txts but i know i will only hold out a day or two anyway. lol.

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I feel like an idiot for asking advice on this one, but here it goes.

Met this girl through a friend of mine. One night her and I flirted a bit and walked around this park late at night just the two of us drinking some Jack Daniels. This was a while back and we were both in a relationship so I didn't make a move, but told her I thought she was fucking sexy. Earlier she was talking about how awesome of a relationship she has, but after I told her I thought she was sexy, she was talking about how her BF never mentions that. Also, I told her about how I've seen people having sex at the park and asked her what she thought and she said she would if the night was right. She knows I'm into her, but she also has a lot of guy friends, and I don't want to be another one of those. I also recently broke up with my gf so I'm now trying for her.

Anyways, she invited me out to dinner and the bar tonight (I'm pretty sure with friends), but I told her I couldn't go since I had to stay in and study and work in the morning. Lame, I know, but you gotta do what you gotta do. I told her this then get these texts:

Me(11:49): Hey HB, I'm not gonna be able to make it out tonight. I have an exam thursday I gotta study for and work tomorrow morning.

Her(11:52): Corey (friend who introduced us) already told me. Come out around 135 and get one drink with us. Please!!

Her(12:58): Hey can you come for one drink at 1:30? I'll order you one if you can come for close.


I'm not really sure how to take any of these. She is a real chill girl, smokes pot, plays video games and hangs out with a lot of dudes. I don't want to be just another one of her guy friends. She knows I'm into her from me telling her how attractive I find her, but I haven't really made a move. She is fucking sexy as hell too. HB8 for sure. I don't think I'm really friend-zoned, and I'm not too worried about it, but any advice on texting and if / how I should escalate would be great.

O and another thing. One night her, our mutual friend and I were all drinking, and one of them brought up her boob size. She asked me what size I thought she was, so I looked at her tits then back at her eyes to talk to answer. After I removed my eyes from her tits, she told me to keep staring at them so I could make a proper judgement. Is she just being a tease, or is she trying to give me signs?

I'd take it as a definitely sign of interest. Stop concerning yourself with the fact that she hangs out with other guys, you're only disqualifying yourself by doing so. Instead approach her from a sexual frame and see how she responds. All your concern with being friend-zoned may be unfounded and in fact impeded your progress with her.

Lol, you take my wording too serious, its not like that exactly, I just drew an analogy between their text game and reality.
The fact that she is interested in him, people do not flirt about having sex this way if they do not see him/her as possible sex partner.
If you do not believe that - imagine some woman you know that is ugly for you and you won't definitely consider having sex. Now imagine would you flirt with her about you two having sex? No.

How can people not understand BASIC psychology and social interaction?

She's obviously into you, she definitely wants you to go out.

Some advice for the future: you're text was way too long. "sorry can't make it tonight" would have been fine. Let her wonder why and what you're doing. In her head she'll probably think your off having fun with another girl, an exam is rather boring.

that girl i have been seein that i got back to mine last night but couldnt f-close has jus text sayin;

"getting up at 7.30 this morning it was such a struggle, i blame you haha xx"

whats my angle here boys?

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hahaha you guys are awesome! Just take over my thread will ya

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btw eddie this is same girl i met at foam party i was talkin bout in other thread

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Falling asleep last night was such a struggle, I blame you

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nice one mate, its gettin sent!

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she said

'hehe how come? x'

i litterally do not have a clue where im taking this now lol

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haha I stayed UP all last night. x

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Nice attempt to regain a thread that was never yours to begin with. Pretty simply to do seeing as 3/4 of your advice is questionable.