So i have been seeing this girl at the bar a couple times she is really interested in me I.E strong eye contact, hugging, lots of touching and close proximity. The last time i saw her she kept calling me over to her and her friends but wouldnt really talk to me so i kept calling her boring and started talking to all her friends and shutting her out. when she would try to talk to me she would yell to me and i kept telling her im not talking to her if she keeps yelling. she got mad and started telling everyone we were fighting and i was on a "time out" i texted her a few days after and told her we should grab lunch and hang out? she never repsonded..... is she playing hard to get or did i blow it???/

Hard to get + blew it. Move on.

What did you say in response to her "time out" comment? If you responded in a way that was playing in with her treating you like a rambunctious kid, you probably blew it there. I would have blown it off entirely or just raised an eyebrow and grinned at her, then continued acting the same way. Remember to keep your frame and not play into her games and you'll be better next time.

If that's not what happened, let us know and we'll see if we can't pinpoint where you lost it.

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thats probably where i lost it. i mean i said ok jokingly and went and sat at another table and talked to other people and she was like why did you go over and i said jokingly that i was on a time out and cant talk to her.

Yeah, ouch... You acted like a child. Never act like a child, simply PLAY act like a child. You can say "Time out huh? How 'bout a spanking instead?" If she responds positively - you flip it around and say "Cool... I pegged you for a chick who liked to get spanked".



Dude, I don't know more of the situation other than the few words written here, but you lost value. You allowed her to literally run you off. There's always another woman, regroup and move forward. File that under the "don't do that shit ever again" pile.

RR

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Dude, you know it's "OK- to be a MAN"! Yelling?

That's 2nd class behavior and why should one put up with it? It's like, would you have a ever preference for paying attention a person yelling at you instead of talking??

I guess not, so better to keep your power...rather than giving - infact I'd turn up the volume a few notches .. in a cocky way.

I had a girl actually tell me to "tone it down" Now...regardless of your game...logistically speaking....if she wants a man to heed her word - there ARE these women out there - she will like you if you respond. If you turn it up, she'll think you're a cunt/dick/asshole/jerk and walk away if she's truly that hot.

This is why game is truly a numbers game through and through. Don't stress about AW MAN I DID IT WRONG WAHH WAHH.

Just be you. Do what you feel like. I don't care what PUAs say about "how you fucked up /blew it"

I liked your fucking Time Out thing. KUDOS.

I would have told her "I'm on a TIME OUT BITCH! Stop bothering me. Or that mean ass lady will spank me again."