| yes it is possible to suck with a certain type of woman, but that type would be more likely to be a personality type, not a racial stereotype, or a girl with a certain hair colour, the way a person looks as well as their ethnic background is not a good metric for how that person will treat you, ethnicity is not the same thing as cultural upbringing or personality, often a guy who is extroverted and does well for himself socially will be able to easily attract girls who are extroverted and do well for themselves socially, a bad boy who follows his emotions is going to attract bad girls who follow their emotions, nice guys are going to attract nice girls,
it's not about blonde or burnette, white or indian, that is all in your head, yes some girls have specific types they want to date, just like you have a specific type you want to date, but you have to get over it, not ''every girl'' that fits a stereotype has the same exact preference and chances are no matter who you are and what you look like, or how smooth you are, you will always be having sex with less girls then you talk with, rejection is simply a part of the game, no matter what form it comes in, the majority of girls you talk with will not sleep with you, doesn't matter if you are white, brown, red, black, yellow, green or pink, girls that are often precieved as ''average'' have guys interested in them trying to get their attention regularily, so alot of girls share an abundance mentality (all the girls you are probably interested in anyways), so they have options, if you are not an appealing option for them, compared to their other options, why would they consider you over their other options?
it's pretty simple, keep improving yourself, and keep trying, if you keep working hard, you'll get there, but it won't come to you on a silver platter
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