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PostPosted: Fri Jun 01, 2012 2:54 am 
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Okay where to start?
Like most guys I was a total loser when it come to women. I found out about this forum last year but only use it for reading resource. During that time I learn a lot from these guys who despite obstacle made changes to their lives by trying to meet girls.
I would post more about my self later howeverto make things short, I want to start this journal so that I could keep track of my progress and learn from it.

So here my journey begins...


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 01, 2012 2:56 am 
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Session 1:

I was riding the bus this afternoon after work, a lady sat next to me but I did not pay attention because I was tired so I dozed off. 15 minutes later I wake up turn my head and realized that this HB Latina was still sitting next to me, reading.
Took a couple of glances to what she’s reading to get something going. Fortunately I was able to read the fine print on the cover that the author was the same who wrote ‘Hunger’s game’.
Indirect approach. Opening
Me: how was it?
HBL: It is good
Me: I have the HG trilogy but just a couple of pages into it only* (although I do not have the book)
We continued talking about the book, jobs and just about everything. And forth I introduced myself midway through the conversation and she even offered her hand to shake first, I teased her about it and her hands being cold.
Time to take things much further:
Me: So HBL you seems very interesting what do you do for fun?
HBL: We hang out and stuff like that
She mention a movie that she going to watch over the weekend with her friends and we talk briefly about it.
When its time for me to # closes her I just froze. When she said goodbye, I just went the f-in lame ass responds “see you around”.

Everything went well, the progression was smooth. But I just could not close it, before she got off there was about a minute silence. Too many scenarios played through my head that was too overwhelming I could not seal.
When she was talking about this movie that she about to see, no mention of his BF at all, only her friends ... that could have been my indication right there that she doesn’t have one, but still how could she when she is so damn hot. Anyway I hope to see this woman again if she ever rides the same bus.

When I get off, there is also an HB walking towards me, I only pivot my head since I did not have time because I was already late for my other job. During the process I almost bump into this another tall blonde. Again did not pursue due to time. (She probably knows I was looking at the other but she did not have time to react when we both bump into each other).


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 02, 2012 1:46 am 
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Session 2
Session One kind of went well; I was hoping to build a momentum from that HB Encounter heading to Day 2. I was about to meet this coffee girl in the morning that I met through facebook but she chicken out at the last minute. I ended up in the coffee place by myself.
I did not stay there for too long, so I went to a nearby Carls Jr. The line was very long but no target available. I ordered my food and sat not far from the back but still able to see the counter and the whole place, as well as outside. I don’t know I could be wrong but this nor any fast food places are not the best when it comes to day game, in the past when I was working night I used to go here and it gets packed especially on Friday nights when all the HB goes to eat before hitting the clubs.
Anyway went to Old Navy and did some warm up flirt with the employees before strolling outside. Hangout in the side of the street looking for potential target and man, I tell you the street is a Mecca for HBs. However I started having AA and now I could not seem to pull myself out. Tons walks past me by but I only do the lame ass “hello” to few of them and that’s it.
Also another challenge that I do not know how to tackles are the Ear Piece Psychos (Women who had those earpiece, headset, or something in their ear to listen to music). It seems that these women does not want to be bothered … How do I approach them?
1 hour...2 hour...2,5 hour...3 hour... passed ny and my AA is still off the roof

So last minute ...Okay now an HB I finally took the chance to chase this one, considering she was being pressured by a street artist who wants her to buy his CDs. I was about to let her go but considering I did not even make a move for the past hour, I said f- it turn around and run back.
Me: Hello,
HB ? (Smiled)
Me: Hi, I saw you back there, and just want to get to know you, I think you’re cute…My name is XX whats yours
HB: her name (then shook hands)
Me: So where are you heading?
HB: I’m going to go shopping, and then head to work
Me: So you’re on break?
HB: No
Again the progression went well, we talk a bit, until we reach the Macy’s Building.
Me: Can I come with you inside?
HB: uhhh… I have a boyfriend
Me: Oh okay, see you around

Again, I flaked out on this. Too many materials (e.g. “me too, we should have them both together while we go for a coffee” “I’m not here for your boyfriend” etc.) to use but could not. The HB put too much emphasis on the “uhhh” and pauses a bit before delivering the BF thing. I’m not sure so If she really did have a BF but its too late now went home, get changed and went to work.

The day was not wasted at least, however I need to get over my AA more, plus closing #, and how to deal with the BF s**t test


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 11:43 pm 
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I have been busy so I had to compact what happen on my sarging these past 3 day journey and write them all today


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Session 3

Some weird things happens today, I did not plan on sarging so I went home tired from work

While on the bus I notice this chick in front of me, she is listening on her Ipod but was very upbeat and was smiling, moving her lips singing to the music she was listening to. I found that very sexy so I focus my attention to her.

She got off before my stop, so I said to myself “Its now or never…” get off the bus and start chasing her. I delivered my opening routine line and we had a good convo. She was about to meet her friend so after about 5 minuts I decided to leave and ask how can I contact her, she said via email at first but I inisist it be better if we phone each other …so she did

First number close after three days…Awesome!


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 12:00 am 
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Session 4

Pretty happy with the result on Session 3 so this session I felt very positive. Confidence building up and now I want to head to the mall.

First hit the Victoria Secret seller
She ask me if she could help me, I said “This place is awesome, with bras, and underwear, where is the men's section?” she sent me to the men's perfume which not something that I expect. She showed me colognes:
Me: What will happen if I sprayed my self with the perfume
HB: Oh woman will find you sexy
ME: Oh Really So if I spray this now on my (pointing to my groin ...lol .. while saying “my body”) will you go out with me, are we going to do it right here on this floor at this very moment?
HB: (laugh) Sorry but I am taken
Me: Okay (that means she is married?)
She said that she will help if I needed to buy the perfume, I said yes sure, but bailed out like Speedy Gonzales out of the store when she turn her back..

The rest of my session just spent on looking because AA start to kick in again. I decided to hit a set and the first target was some Asian girls. A set of three, I did not know what to do, but followed them anyway, when in the escalator I tried to pick the most hottest and tallest who is closer to me, she is also tanned, the other two were about three to four steps down.
Wrong move. I said “Hello” in their own language but then she gave me the “what the f- you?” look.
I did not know what I did wrong whith a long awkward pause but I just smiled and laugh inside. I should have said something like “Alright bitch, no problem” but that is not why I am there for and will throw away any momentum I had if I start getting upset. (if you got more recommendation on what to do with this kind of attitude from a woman, please tell me)

I gathered myself for a bit, and went back to the game. But due to what happen I started feeling more AA and could not just roll. I still have that aftermath of what happen to that last chick. I felt that it is time to go home anyway, I went and do one last round with another set inside the bus but they were not interested. This is just out of desperation and I did not care about the outcome anyway they were they were not even that hot so I just see if I could pull it. I ejected, get off the bus and walk home.

While heading home I saw a blonde walking in front of me, this other tall dude was checking her out as well. But he was surprise when I open (The tall dude bailed out after I got to her first), we talk, progression went well, she is an artist and was originally from South California. That's when I talk about my travel experience. Everything went well. However no # close “I just dont give my number to strangers”she said .She was very nice though, polite and soft spoken lady. That is fine with me, the thing is we live in the same neighborhood and I will see you again. (Har! Har!har!)

Sidenote: Funny thing happen while in the mall, I saw the first girl I # close with someone outside the clothing store although she did not see me.I swore that was her with a boyfriend as she was clinging to him like a dog in heat. I texted her during that night but no reply... Who cares, I am hopeful I will get more number in the future

Question what do you consider a good time for day gaming? Because I went to these mall around 5 PM-9 PM, what about the first lady that I # number should I text her again and also I may consider looking for a wingman, I feel more C&F have more confident when I have someone with me . What are your recommendation?


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So I figured to do some quick sarging while heading to work, here's how it went

At the library returning some books, a hottie was sitting down reading I approached her. I sat down and opening but my delivery was very weak I felt I wasn’t listening to what she is saying. I seem to be more focus on my rehearsed line, Ejected.

Heading to work, I was walking on the street and saw Tall and sexy African American lady. She was issuing tickets. I ran to her straight and direct open “Hello, I just want you to know you are absolutely cute” She giggled and said I was so nice. Ask for her number but is already married. I was late for 5 minutes but it was worth it. Made someone else day


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Session 6

So here again back on the sreet for a day of gaming. I want to see if could get things rolling so start getting aggressive from the get go in order to get rid of this AA

HB Black
Few minutes walking outside saw her very short but nice body. Open up she is very receptive, complimented on her look and was very happy. About to ask for her number but brought up boyfriend. Ejected

HB White
Did not even bother to stop, run away, must have smelled my intention, who cares IThe guys sitting on the bench was laughing when I said "My house is not that way!" whe is on the run

HB Asian
Little old but pretty, sitting by the mall chair, Went sit beside her but cant open up due to AA.

HB Asian
Employee at one of the boutique, I tried to be funny and start making up stories about my pet and vacation. Must have pick upI am faking. She must have thought “If you don’t want to buy f*ck off” so I ejected.
Went to the other boutique in front where she works. I Made sure that the HB Asian is looking and start flirting with the other sales associate (an HB White). I open up, progression to DHV. Went well but could not # number

HB European
A tourist I saw sitting at fast food joint, I order food and start teasing her about the ice cream she is eating. After receiving my order I went back but she took off.

HB Asian
She is older but very classy, I complimented her on her clothes, she smiled, I went after her after 5 seconds and was so surprise about my approach very friendly and was giggling when I said she is cute. She is on her way to get the train to meet her friend, again could not # number

HB Asian
A foreign student looking for her school. I help her out, but having hard time communicating. I ask for a phone number but she does not have one because she is only been here for a week, offered her email instead, better than nothing. I will see if she replies when I write her tomorrow.

HB Asian
Chase her after 5 seconds, I said hello several times and even touch her elbow. Give me the “Get the f-off look” I ejected but before that I told her “Good luck going to the Army” she was wearing a camo jacket.

Although I did not get any # close number today I felt pretty good now having less trouble at all opening up however still needs to work on progression as I froze midway. Also I tend to be much better at conversing women when they are wearing or have an extra props on that I could tease them with. (A ginarmous bag, a kinky eyeglasses, etc.) I could just neg her about it, somehow if she is just plain that’s when I go stale. I have to try to learn to be observative about detail during a very short amount of time


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Its my First time with a wingman. We took turns approaching women so I will just have to summarize what I did today.

HB On the street. Open up very receptive, was quite surprise when I approached her. She told me she got a BF. I did not care went with the “Cool..so whats your number” . I finally gave up after several attempts of mentioning BF.

Approached another HB. Did not know how to speak English or maybe just her excuse. Give me that ‘Don’t bother me look”.

Approached another HB. This one is the same, not very friendly only gave her name and start running away.

After that we decided to hit HB sets, my wingman approached first. They were not friendly it could be his delivery. I went to help out isolating the target that my wingman did not want but it did not help either

After this I tried another one. Everything went well, she is going to the movies with her Aunt, flirt about it but then
“ Did you know I am underage right?” WTF? Ejected

HB Asian Sets
They were very friendly, Convo progression went well. One gave her number and other provided email. Both are very willing to go out as well.

After 3 hours of sarging we finally call it a day. I went home and got change to go to the gym

At the gym. I have a crush on this HB Asian. I know I am not supposed to hit on her because I go to the gym where she works almost everyday and we build this kind of friend rapport. But everytime I talk in her language she start giggling and laughing (it must be the accent). Number close and went home.

I still goes into a coma, mid conversation, I am feeling better and better everyday. Rejection seems not to bother me anymore. The thing is I cant delve into thinking of why I got rejected instead I just brush it then off next one. Rejection is now part of the game, and if I got it no problem. Move on to the next.

And also We get more attention from girls when I am with the wingman, woman starring just fly from left to right It must be the aura of confidence that we are projecting when walking the street, It’s a double wham!. Woman just sense it for some reason..
I could have taken advantage of that but here is the problem My wingman is very selective. Gives too much excuse not to approach unless they are superhot. I learn right out that going out there to game by yourself is much better.


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Session 8

Took another bus home cause I was late ...
While inside I saw an HB listening to music, wen sit next to her after it was vacated and ask to remove headset. Start opening up, but showed me the ring Hah! she is married. ..
I told her it does not matter it is just that I find her very cute and ejected from the bus

Took a nap after work and then head to the mall outside the city.

While on the the platform saw a small but nice body looking Latina, open up asking direction but cant speak English.

Oh well …

Inside the train an Asian was sitting in front of me. Not really that pretty but I kind of drawn to what she was doing, flipping her hair. AA is now taking over but f***k it. Open up by asking direction, then ask her name. I went into a coma after that. I just cant get a very good convo out of it. Pulled out cell phone pretending to talk to a friend....

Before the last stop. I complimented her on her looks, she giggled and bid goodbye. Shoot I could have ask her if she got nothing to do maybe we could go together ... Fuck!

At the Mall
I reach the mall in the afternoon so guess what types of people goes there at this time? So Did not approached much because I had to look for clothes and shoes. Most of them are with their boyfriend or husband. I did approach one at a clothing store. We were having great conversation and just out of nowhere she said “you know I am 16 right?”
“What the…?” then I went with “Cut…Cut… Sorry girl …” ejected right away.

Overall, its not that bad I am kind of getting a little better in throwing opening lines comfortably but still progression is a problem. I have to look for ways to better my comfort building techniques


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Session 9

I am not feeling well today.

First I woke up late and I want to try this other mall but the train keeps getting delayed so now I was even more late.

My Goal is to open at least 5 today.
The first I tried to approach a MILF but AA starts kicking real bad. I then tried to open a sets who were sisters but got nervous. One HB pass by me twice but I hesitated, I tried to chase her but she got out of the mall in a hurry. I saw the MILF earlier again in CK store so I decided to approached her. She keeps her distance everytime I tried to open up so I said f- it.. I open up a sales lady. Which went something like this
HB: Can I help you with anything?
ME: Yes, what are you doing tonight?
HB: Im working
Me: that sucks
(What could have been a better answer other than ‘That’s sucks”, anyone?)
Nothing went well so I went home...

On the bus I open up with girl, but I did not feel like continuing with the conversation. I ejected, get out of the train and took on another one. I open up with another one, but I knew she was very young so I tried to play it safe. I ask the question “Hey you look familiar do you go to XX highschool? … No I go to this XX Highschool”
did friendly convo about school, and went off the bus

Overall Today was not a good day for me, that is probably because I start out very crappy and really did not have any set goal in mind and just kind of wing things up. I may have to change my game plan next time.


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Session 10
Last night I was very tired so I sleep as soon as I went home, this morning I felt great. Its my day off so I took the time to look good.

Took a shower …scrub my face … wear my cologne .. damn that’s sweet
Game On!!! All in all took about 50 minutes … YEAH!l beat them girls prepping for their prom night.

My Goal for Today:
- Do primer (say Hi to people)
- open up at least 3 people
- Try to number close

So I head outside and said “Hello”, “Good Morning” to bunch of people I came across. Heck I even said “Hi” in Chinese, Korean, Japanese, and Spanish to people and I could not care less if they said something back. I’m here to prep myself.

I took the train and head to the same mall that I went to on session 9. I was a bit early so took my time to sit down, walk a bit, sit down etc…

I did a bit of warmup and open the sales lady in one of the Women’s clothing store. She is not that good looking but she has a sexy body, she ask me what I was looking for and I said that I am looking something for my mom. She help me a bit, we had a good conversation and that is a good start. I did not buy anything though and kind of did that cellphone thing were I had to say “ Alright Dude..where you at? Uhh huh..Ok Ill be there” then took off.

Man after an hour I got so hungry, I went to the food court and ordered a teriyaki. In front of where I was sitting about two tables far were sets.. One did several glance to me and we exchange glances back in forth. I said to myself let me finish my food and go talk them.

Big Mistake …They left while I was eating. How can I left my food though if I talk to them so there goes my chance. After I finish I went to the way they went but I think they left the mall already.

Went to cologne and Perfume store, I sprayed some sample to a paper stick and just approached this girl near me, An Asian lady. At first I though she might not be able to understand me but I walk to her anyway and she pick what is best

I tried some other cologne and hoping that she would come back near to where I am standing. She did so I ask her if she is looking something for herself as well and she said yes. She went to the counter and I waited for her but it was taking long so I finally went outside and waited for her, pulled out my phone and talk to my imaginary friend. When she is about to go out..

Me: Dude, where you at? …yeah… ok.. I’ll be there Ran to the HB
We had a conversation, she is from another State moved here to study Pharmacy
In short I said I had to meet a friend and ask her maybe we could hang out
…She is engaged
…Cool no problem
We bid farewell and I decided to go home as well


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Sounds like you have some approach anxiety. To develop a lasting change, you have to take baby steps at it. For example just ask ten women for the time. The next week ask ten women for the time then follow it up by asking them how their day is going. Each day you make it harder and more intensive. Eventually you'll be able to approach any woman in any circumstance and express your interest in her without fear or worrying about what to say, but its a long process. I also find that going with a wingman can help to approach many sets.


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Sounds like you have some approach anxiety. To develop a lasting change, you have to take baby steps at it. For example just ask ten women for the time. The next week ask ten women for the time then follow it up by asking them how their day is going. Each day you make it harder and more intensive. Eventually you'll be able to approach any woman in any circumstance and express your interest in her without fear or worrying about what to say, but its a long process. I also find that going with a wingman can help to approach many sets.
Hello Smooth Operator,

Thanks for this advice. I've started telling people "Hi" on my last day gaming but I kind of stuck what to follow it up next when they replied back.
One more thing I have been sarging for about 10 session straight now. As I was rereading my posts I dont know but I really did not have a clear goal in mind and just go all out Rambo sarge out there....I may have to take a break for few days or so, refocus, kind of really clear my mind and write my goal for the day before heading outside...Your tip will definitely help me get things going. Even If I am not day sarging I can use it to sharpen my skills.


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Session 11? …I Don’t Know

Okay so after work I decided to do another sarging.

Well, while going over my things, what do you know? I got overdue items that need to be returned to the library and now they are 10 days late. So which one should I do? Well I’d rather not pay extra fees and decided to call off day game.

I went on my way, as usual I greet everyone on the street well not almost everyone just the good looking gals some of them responded some did not say anything but I could not care less.

As I enter the library, A MILF on her way out ask me (in a semi broken English) where did I get the DVD’s I pointed out to her and she followed me.
We went together and I felt a real hard-on, I keep saying to myself "this is nice"… I did pay the fines while we browsed movies together. I felt a bit frustrated because of communication while looking for DVDs she wants but I stick around just to see what happens.

When we leave she told me that she just visited an Art gallery. I told her that I work in a museum with lots of Arts and if she is interested I can bring her there.
She was very happy and asked for my phone number.

Lol...We exchange numbers…

I said to myself
"The god of Day game is doing me some favor today". Had I not stick around I would not have encountered this lady. I walk her to her car and we went our separate ways.

I was at my apartment doorstep when suddenly text came in…

My friend had gone to a rock concert without me and WTF? I forgot all about it, I paid $125 for the ticket now I missed …

So this is what happen when you are really into gaming, I get so focus on it that I tend to forgot other things in life

Oh, well … talk to him tomorrow and probably pay him for the unused ticket


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