Hey guys i want to talk to you about GRINDING, every other post i see in the forum talks about the grinding, like is some magic seduction solution... So i had no idea what it was so i google it this is what came out in yahoo answers:
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When you're dancing, what does "grinding" mean?
when you dance, you can grind but what does that mean. I'M DESPERATE FOR AN ANSWER NOW
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Grinding means dancing by rotating the pelvis in an erotically suggestive way, often while in contact with one's partner such that the dancers' legs are interlaced. Actually, it is a slang term for a relatively raunchy dancing style popular in house and hip-hop dance moves. Grinding almost always involves two or more dancers rubbing their bodies against each other in a sexual manner. It is often performed at nightclubs and parties that play house and hip-hop music. Grinding has also gained popularity at high school and middle school dances across America. The meaning is basically the same as the self-describing term bump and grind for party dancing. Elements of "grinding" may be seen in a 1987 movie Dirty Dancing, and "grinding" is sometimes referred to by this term as well.
Grinding has also been referred to as houseing, "juking" and freak dancing. The perreo, a Puerto Rican dance associated with reggaeton, is a type of grinding; The word 'perreo' is derived from the Spanish word "Perro" for 'Dog'.
The most common dance techniques involved in grinding are, but not limited to:
The partners face the same direction so that the one partner’s buttocks are rubbing the other partner’s groin. A variation of this technique has one partner supporting her or his weight with one or two hands on the floor (buttocks in the air) while the other partner, holding her or him by the waist, grinds on the buttocks in a manner that simulates the dog-style position. This variation of the dance is referred to in the music genre of reggaeton as perreo.
The partners, facing each other, straddle each other’s thighs. This may or may not facilitate the rubbing of genitals through their clothing.
The female commonly does all the work with her hips while the male mainly follows.
The accompanying dance music may vary but tends to be related to hip-hop or house, and most often conforms to 808 and 909 drum machine driven tracks; operating within a comparatively narrow tempo range (between 118 and 135 bpm).
If you want to do the so call "grinding" what i highlighted is the best way, I do not really do the grinding stuff(putting my dick in the girls ass), i do not think that is that effective % of success, when i am dancing i am trying to turn her on while she is having fun, and does not look "calculated", if you put your dominant leg between her pelvis like your leg represents the pillow and you move right, the girl will get arouse like crazy and in some cases even orgasm(you have to be careful with this) , cause she will get so turn on in some cases, that she will want to bail out(some women can not stand the sexual tension cause they know they will be in trouble), i usually do the so call grinding after numerous compliance and escalation, usually mid second to third song, but i do it enough to tease, then i pull back, then i do a second time, but again it depends on the girl some are ok with the sexual tension right away(the definitely interested girls), some need couple of songs(the need more info girls)
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