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This is real facepalm situation, I can not believe you are still thinking she was interested :lol: This is unbelievable.

Of course not that unbelievable when knowing this:
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i'm pretty much used to humiliation. one more isn't going to make any difference...
Of course you have perfect interraction skills, skills that made you used to humiliation :)

Its funny how you admitted that, then Eddy poped in with unreasonable BS about shit test (which in this case was NOT) and you changed your mind again just because Eddy said it was shit test
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if you read further up you will see where i say this before eddie does.

look. she WAS interested. and then I blew it. its up to me whether she is or not again. maybe i'll bide my time and try again. maybe i won't. this is not about her but about me. she's inconsequential. like you said. i keep on and on until it doesnt happen again. no great shakes. :D
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Space can be used for a lot more important things guys, invest you're time wisely please!!! :)

I live my life believing that the essence of every interaction in life is seduction. And so I assume a woman is always interested. It might be a false assumption, of course, but it is a pleasant assumption, and so it is the way I choose to live my life. ;)

I would love to get back on track helping the fellow forum members, this conversation is so trivial its not even funny. Lets be smart guys :P

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Me: I need help robbing a bank ASAP
Girl: After we rob it can I kill you? :)
Me: Why would you do such a thing?
Girl: Well only 1 of us can have all the money... I don't find it necessary to split. 
Me: Wow, I was thinking we could take the money, move to the Bahamas and build us a nice 5 story luxorious mansion. Guess not though.
Girl: Alright I guess that sounds like a good plan too. Then get married right? :)
Me: That'd be great .... except I don't think I can marry somebody who would kill me...
Girl: 😳 well I take it back we can just get married and you can spoil me :)
Me: As long as you promise to let me make love to you every night by the moonlight on our private beach ;)
Girl: Yayayayaya. :D I think we'll have to get passed robbing the bank first


Eddie, what could I have done better in this text session. And was her last message a form of rejection?
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She's digging you dude, the conversation was cool, interesting and flirty but just a bit aimless.. What were you trying to do with this interaction? If it was just to create funny flirty and cool banter than you succeeded. If you are trying to get laid you may have to be a bit more aggressive and not as reactive.

In this thread she is the aggressor, throwing shit test at you and challenging you. " After we rob it can I kill you? :)" I would of responded with " What part of me? :)"

You did good by not jumping through her loop, however you're response(" why would you do such a thing"?) was border line defensive and reactive.

"Well only 1 of us can have all the money... I don't find it necessary to split. " You replied to this a bit begging validation seeking " Wow" was the first error on that text.

With girls just roll with the pushing, sexually flirt and be nonreactive.. Now had you responded with "What part of me? :) " the conversation would be taking a whole different route and you'd probably be getting laid sometime this week. ;)

be a sexual threat man

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That's my problem, haha. I can't think of shit like that so fast to move things along sexually. I'm starting to get the hang of this though, thanks for the help man. I'll have some more for you soon.
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got one for ya:
(her name is laura, perhaps some silly/funny name to call her)
i know this girl by name, and she knows me by name. So last Saturday at a party i was like, i will get her number this time, talked to her and actually got it. I started the next day:

Me: Hey laura, did you have a good time yesterday? Grtz wallie
Laura: Yes definately, you too? X
Me: I sure did, we should do that again soon.
Laura: Haha what? Party from xxxx and yyyy? xd i'm joking. but indeed a good plan
Me: Isn't there by chance someone else in your group having a birthday soon?
Laura: Um (guy 1) and (guy 2) are having one soon xd X (i don't know both guys)
Me: Hmm, well i don't know them, or maybe forgot their names :p probably forgotten
Laura: Haha, that doesn't surprise me at all:P It still surprises me that you can remember you got my number xd X
Me: I don't easily forgot something like that :)
Laura: Haha, good

So today i was like, i want to text a bit, get comfortable and aim for a date, perhaps with friends:
Me: Did the party host make (embarassing?) pictures on the party?
Laura: I don't know, but i don't believe she did
Me: Perhaps you have an embarrassing picture of yourselve, without even knowing it:P or myself
Laura: Haha, i don't really care if there is an embarassing picture taken of me xd
Me: Ah well, it can't get worse then my friend haha

Then i got no response. I think i am wrong and should have responded: ah so you're a girl who has a very good self-esteem, believing in yourself and doesn't care about what others think about you? (or something like that)

But i was thinking like this (and i'm gonna use the no-reply for 48 hours from Gambler)(it's almost UEFA Europe 2012):
Me: Who will win: The Netherlands (where i live) or Denmark this saturday?
Laura: The Netherlands off course blah blah
Me: You must be a real soccer fan, aren't you?
Laura: No, not at all blah blah
Me: Me and my friends are gonna watch the game at (name of bar), wanna join us?

Some feedback might be helpful :) (sorry for the long post, don't wanna leave out the details)
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Me and this girl had decided to meetup next time we go out.

Me: You changed my mind :P I'll be out on friday

HB: yes!!!!! knew you were liking the idea really woo woo

Me: haha i knew you were a bad influence! cya in argo to cause some more trouble

HB: haha ill try and not to get us in trouble again! ooopss

Me: ahhh i got into enough trouble last week! scary times

HB: ooh what happened!

Me: hmmm it's actually a long story, ill tell ya if we meet in argo :P

HB: hahha okay ill look forward to it!

Me: Awesome, I'm expecting you to do a shot with me too ;D

HB: Of course! birthday shot!

*next day*

Me: Heyy sorry we couldn't do that birthday shot, had to leave early from the night out

*4 days and no reply but she's seen the message*

It may be because we're in the middle of exams.
I do now realise that I've said nothing even remotely interesting in this conversation though :/
Where did I go wrong with this facebook conversation?
Is she interested?

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got one for ya:
(her name is laura, perhaps some silly/funny name to call her)
i know this girl by name, and she knows me by name. So last Saturday at a party i was like, i will get her number this time, talked to her and actually got it. I started the next day:

Me: Hey laura, did you have a good time yesterday? Grtz wallie
Laura: Yes definately, you too? X
Me: I sure did, we should do that again soon.
Laura: Haha what? Party from xxxx and yyyy? xd i'm joking. but indeed a good plan
Me: Isn't there by chance someone else in your group having a birthday soon?
Laura: Um (guy 1) and (guy 2) are having one soon xd X (i don't know both guys)
Me: Hmm, well i don't know them, or maybe forgot their names :p probably forgotten
Laura: Haha, that doesn't surprise me at all:P It still surprises me that you can remember you got my number xd X
Me: I don't easily forgot something like that :)
Laura: Haha, good

So today i was like, i want to text a bit, get comfortable and aim for a date, perhaps with friends:
Me: Did the party host make (embarassing?) pictures on the party?
Laura: I don't know, but i don't believe she did
Me: Perhaps you have an embarrassing picture of yourselve, without even knowing it:P or myself
Laura: Haha, i don't really care if there is an embarassing picture taken of me xd
Me: Ah well, it can't get worse then my friend haha

Then i got no response. I think i am wrong and should have responded: ah so you're a girl who has a very good self-esteem, believing in yourself and doesn't care about what others think about you? (or something like that)

But i was thinking like this (and i'm gonna use the no-reply for 48 hours from Gambler)(it's almost UEFA Europe 2012):
Me: Who will win: The Netherlands (where i live) or Denmark this saturday?
Laura: The Netherlands off course blah blah
Me: You must be a real soccer fan, aren't you?
Laura: No, not at all blah blah
Me: Me and my friends are gonna watch the game at (name of bar), wanna join us?

Some feedback might be helpful :) (sorry for the long post, don't wanna leave out the details)
You are completely friendzoning yourself, she doesn't have to do anything. You are showing no direct interest in her or stating any intent what so ever. She has no idea you are even attracted to her. Why set up a date with a bunch of friends when you can ramp up sexual tension and get her out alone? Are you not comfortable being out with a girl alone?

You have a solid, " I just wanna be your friend" conversation,if thats what you want then you are doing an amazing job! :)

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I agree with Eddie, you are placing yourself where you don't want to be! I get the feeling that she kinda digs you...stop being reluctant and start escalating! Get her out for a coffee or a drink very soon!!!


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got one for ya:
(her name is laura, perhaps some silly/funny name to call her)
i know this girl by name, and she knows me by name. So last Saturday at a party i was like, i will get her number this time, talked to her and actually got it. I started the next day:

Me: Hey laura, did you have a good time yesterday? Grtz wallie
Laura: Yes definately, you too? X
Me: I sure did, we should do that again soon.
Laura: Haha what? Party from xxxx and yyyy? xd i'm joking. but indeed a good plan
Me: Isn't there by chance someone else in your group having a birthday soon?
Laura: Um (guy 1) and (guy 2) are having one soon xd X (i don't know both guys)
Me: Hmm, well i don't know them, or maybe forgot their names :p probably forgotten
Laura: Haha, that doesn't surprise me at all:P It still surprises me that you can remember you got my number xd X
Me: I don't easily forgot something like that
Laura: Haha, good

So today i was like, i want to text a bit, get comfortable and aim for a date, perhaps with friends:
Me: Did the party host make (embarassing?) pictures on the party?
Laura: I don't know, but i don't believe she did
Me: Perhaps you have an embarrassing picture of yourselve, without even knowing it:P or myself
Laura: Haha, i don't really care if there is an embarassing picture taken of me xd
Me: Ah well, it can't get worse then my friend haha

Then i got no response. I think i am wrong and should have responded: ah so you're a girl who has a very good self-esteem, believing in yourself and doesn't care about what others think about you? (or something like that)

But i was thinking like this (and i'm gonna use the no-reply for 48 hours from Gambler)(it's almost UEFA Europe 2012):
Me: Who will win: The Netherlands (where i live) or Denmark this saturday?
Laura: The Netherlands off course blah blah
Me: You must be a real soccer fan, aren't you?
Laura: No, not at all blah blah
Me: Me and my friends are gonna watch the game at (name of bar), wanna join us?

Some feedback might be helpful (sorry for the long post, don't wanna leave out the details)


You are completely friendzoning yourself, she doesn't have to do anything. You are showing no direct interest in her or stating any intent what so ever. She has no idea you are even attracted to her. Why set up a date with a bunch of friends when you can ramp up sexual tension and get her out alone? Are you not comfortable being out with a girl alone?

You have a solid, " I just wanna be your friend" conversation,if thats what you want then you are doing an amazing job!
I understand the point of maybe getting a friendzone chat, but i really don't have a freaking idea how to get a date out of it, i'm really, really bad at text game. I can't seem to get humor in it, and i'm always either boring or just another gay friend :S
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Me and this girl had decided to meetup next time we go out.

Me: You changed my mind :P I'll be out on friday

HB: yes!!!!! knew you were liking the idea really woo woo

Me: haha i knew you were a bad influence! cya in argo to cause some more trouble

HB: haha ill try and not to get us in trouble again! ooopss

Me: ahhh i got into enough trouble last week! scary times

HB: ooh what happened!

Me: hmmm it's actually a long story, ill tell ya if we meet in argo :P

HB: hahha okay ill look forward to it!

Me: Awesome, I'm expecting you to do a shot with me too ;D

HB: Of course! birthday shot!

*next day*

Me: Heyy sorry we couldn't do that birthday shot, had to leave early from the night out

*4 days and no reply but she's seen the message*

It may be because we're in the middle of exams.
I do now realise that I've said nothing even remotely interesting in this conversation though :/
Where did I go wrong with this facebook conversation?
Is she interested?
Did you meet up with her or not? If you flaked she may of got turned off but she was definitely interested. Always assume interest; Exclamation points and haha's, she clearly wants you ;)

You can easily just start a new thread..

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Me and this girl had decided to meetup next time we go out.

Me: You changed my mind :P I'll be out on friday

HB: yes!!!!! knew you were liking the idea really woo woo

Me: haha i knew you were a bad influence! cya in argo to cause some more trouble

HB: haha ill try and not to get us in trouble again! ooopss

Me: ahhh i got into enough trouble last week! scary times

HB: ooh what happened!

Me: hmmm it's actually a long story, ill tell ya if we meet in argo :P

HB: hahha okay ill look forward to it!

Me: Awesome, I'm expecting you to do a shot with me too ;D

HB: Of course! birthday shot!

*next day*

Me: Heyy sorry we couldn't do that birthday shot, had to leave early from the night out

*4 days and no reply but she's seen the message*

It may be because we're in the middle of exams.
I do now realise that I've said nothing even remotely interesting in this conversation though :/
Where did I go wrong with this facebook conversation?
Is she interested?
Did you meet up with her or not? If you flaked she may of got turned off but she was definitely interested. Always assume interest; Exclamation points and haha's, she clearly wants you ;)

You can easily just start a new thread..
No i couldnt meetup with her because I actually had food poisoning when I went out so I had to come back home early :P terrible luck. But now she hasn't replied so I can't explain to her why I had to leave. Should I message her again even though she hasnt replied?...feels a bit desperate.

Sorry, I thought that you created this thread for people to ask you advice on text game, I guess I should've created a new thread.

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Me and this girl had decided to meetup next time we go out.

Me: You changed my mind :P I'll be out on friday

HB: yes!!!!! knew you were liking the idea really woo woo

Me: haha i knew you were a bad influence! cya in argo to cause some more trouble

HB: haha ill try and not to get us in trouble again! ooopss

Me: ahhh i got into enough trouble last week! scary times

HB: ooh what happened!

Me: hmmm it's actually a long story, ill tell ya if we meet in argo :P

HB: hahha okay ill look forward to it!

Me: Awesome, I'm expecting you to do a shot with me too ;D

HB: Of course! birthday shot!

*next day*

Me: Heyy sorry we couldn't do that birthday shot, had to leave early from the night out

*4 days and no reply but she's seen the message*

It may be because we're in the middle of exams.
I do now realise that I've said nothing even remotely interesting in this conversation though :/
Where did I go wrong with this facebook conversation?
Is she interested?
Did you meet up with her or not? If you flaked she may of got turned off but she was definitely interested. Always assume interest; Exclamation points and haha's, she clearly wants you ;)

You can easily just start a new thread..
No i couldnt meetup with her because I actually had food poisoning when I went out so I had to come back home early :P terrible luck. But now she hasn't replied so I can't explain to her why I had to leave. Should I message her again even though she hasnt replied?...feels a bit desperate.

Sorry, I thought that you created this thread for people to ask you advice on text game, I guess I should've created a new thread.
haha by start a new thread I meant, start a new conversation with her :)

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Did you meet up with her or not? If you flaked she may of got turned off but she was definitely interested. Always assume interest; Exclamation points and haha's, she clearly wants you ;)

You can easily just start a new thread..
No i couldnt meetup with her because I actually had food poisoning when I went out so I had to come back home early :P terrible luck. But now she hasn't replied so I can't explain to her why I had to leave. Should I message her again even though she hasnt replied?...feels a bit desperate.

Sorry, I thought that you created this thread for people to ask you advice on text game, I guess I should've created a new thread.
haha by start a new thread I meant, start a new conversation with her :)
Hmm...I'm not really sure of what she thinks of me at the moment though. Because she saw the message but didnt reply, I don't wanna be seen as clingy by constantly talking to her?

I think it might be best if I just wait until I meet her again, which will be in about a week. Might be better than this annoying messaging game?

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I prefer talking on the phone and I suck at texting. Anyway, I don't know what to text and say now. Meet a Brazilian girl on Saturday in the park. I suggested we meet up again sometime for a coffee or a drink, and she took my phone and wrote her number. I texted her today, and the following was the conversation so far:
"Me: Hey ****, hard luck for Brazil yesterday :) How are you? " (brazil lost 2-0 against mexico football)
She: Hiii, yes, unfortunately :( but it was just because i didn't watch the match... haha! Sorry, but I don't know this number.. Who is this? :)"
Me: Next time you should watch the game then :P this is ****. We meet on Saturday"


And she never texted me back. How should I continue this if I plan to meet her again?

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