Dear PUAs,

Hope you're all well.

A few days ago, a girl I've been seeing for 6 months suddenly became cold and distant creating a tense and uncomfortable SPAM. After sex, I told her to go home and despite her requests for staying till the morning, I refused on the basis that I wasn't feeling very well. Note that I never mentioned anything she did was bothering me (I'm unsure if that's a mistake or not).

Later, she sent several messages apologizing explaining that her aloofness was due to the fact I received a blowjob from another girl a few days ago.

To be honest, I'm not sure if her reason is entirely true - it seems to me that she has suddenly lost interest.

I'm terribly confused and although I realize I can play my final card "LEAVE" at any time, I would like to make this relationship last a little longer but only if I'm happy too.

Any general advice guys?

Get another blowjob and leave.

You want to keep her and yet you tell her to leave...do tell.