Hey guys

Was hoping this post could become a discussion of the best game techniques at house parties and other intimate venues to help me improve my game at these sorts of things so that it will allow me to develop before going on to clubs and stuff

So what has worked for you?

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1. Do not! I repeat DO NOT get drunk. It fucks up ur game big time (what I usually do is drink vodka with grapefruit because u dont get very drunk from it ).
2. Approach many girls and be cool and fun to talk with, (this works for me, because I usually say few funny things whenever I can).
3. Show the girl you want that any girl here will go for you (DHV).
4. When you introduce yourself shake a girls hand (best approach kino from my own experience, because you can look the girl in the eye and touch at the same time. Hugs are good but sometimes it can be awkward fo a girl.)

Hope that helps, I'm not an expert but this is what I know from my own experience and from what I've read.

What TheBaker said is absolutely right, DO NOT get drunk. I tend to have a couple of drinks to be social etc.. but if you get drunk it really does screw your game up.

I love house parties, I first started practicing PUA at house parties and I'd like to think I've become rather good at it! Here's what I do

1. Get there before most other people and have a drink, generally chat to the host of the party, find out the layout of the house, where things are etc.. make sure you're with friends and just stick to them as people start to turn up, I tend not to bother talking to anyone else but my friends at this stage

2. Once the parties getting pretty full I open up a random group of girls with some sort of gambit, mind reading technique blah blah blah and just enjoy myself and get them all laughing. For instance, I like to walk up to a girl and comment on her hair whilst gently touching it.

3. I like to do this thing I call the "hug routine" its basically a competition between you and the girl, you have to go around (together) hugging EVERYONE at that party, but this point most people have had a few drinks and are enjoying themselves, once you've gone around and hugged everyone not only does everyone at that party now recognise you, but you've social proofed every single fucking girl at that party.

4. You have now shown

- Confidence
- That you have social proof
- You're a fun person to be around

5. If you've got a target, you can now approach her, say something fun like "Okay you're the best hugger here, give me another" before she even has time to answer you're already pulling her in for the hug. Kino escalate, game as normal, isolate and makeout.

Last party I went to I did the hug routine, then went on to try something new called "the kiss routine" and went round kissing girls, got about 9 makeouts in 15 minutes. It's simple man.

One thing though, make friends with guys, if a guy walks past you give him a high five, hand shake, whatever and just make friends, completely disarms them instantly.

I would also like to recommend a 5 lies game, but instead of buying a drink (its a house party) try to get a kiss out of it if you feel confident with a girl.
5-Lies Game: (credit goes to Paradise who posted it on forum).

After opening, you ask to play a game with them and make a bet. I usually say I will do something silly and if the girl losses she will give me a kiss.

PUA: Ok, I'm going to ask you 5 questions. They goal is to lie to me. If I ask what color the sky is, you say green. got it?
HB: Yep
PUA: Ok, my 1st question is... (could be anything. where are we right now, what color is my shirt, i would use this time to neg and kino)
HB: *Answer*
PUA: Question 2....
HB: *Answer*
PUA: Question 3....
HB: *Answer*
PUA: See this isnt so hard. Ok, ummm, how many questions was that?
HB: 3
PUA: Smile and then kiss her

If she doesnt say "3" and figures out the trick and says like 9 or something, then you should say:

PUA: Omg, have you played this before?
HB: No
PUA: Again smile and kiss her.

Hope that helps, I thought of it because I attend to more house parties then clubs

P.S Thank you Danzella for the hug game I shall try it soon

hey guys cheers for your input sounds good

@TheBaker could you explain this game more as I dont fully understand what you mean? How exactly do you get her to kiss you with her losing the game?

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Went to a party last night and successfully used this little game that is similar to yours (@TheBaker)


What I did was find this girl who was quite friendly and open having spoken to her and broken the ice beforehand.

Then I made her promise to have fun with me, something we would do by 'playing a game'.

We had a thumb war but the loser had to kiss the winner. This is quality for us lads because we generally have bigger/stronger hands so you're virtually guaranteed to win everytime. An extra bonus with this was the ability it gives you to tease her and flirt by almost allowing her to win (I would lay my thumb down flat, she would go down on top of it, but then i could just break free a moment before she would have been declared victor ;D) Hence why this was great for getting her to kiss me in a fun and flirty way.

THis concept of a game with a forfeit is quite adaptable as well so you can add some variety in, challenge her to various other ones e.g. rock paper scissors although this is less controllable and dependent on luck so you may wanna do this after you're comfortable/after she's kissed you first if you dont want to do that

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game the ENTIRE party.
She should be wanting to get with you all night because you are the life of the party.

Open a girl you want after you are socially proofed, and not before.

See my post on "grad night".
can't post link lol

Got something to add to this post, a method which i did at a christmas party recently. In the past I have previously underestimated the awesomeness of the dancefloor for showing DTF girls. DTF girls' dancing behaviour is something I've now learnt is an amazing thing to be able to not only recognise but useto your advantage at these kinda events as they're in the right mindset for action!

Dunno what others do but for me what works is this:

What I tend to do is go to the dance room, see which girls are dancing suggestively (they often dance with other girls in the same mindset which I helpful doing obvious things to grab us men's attention with boogie shakes, grinds, slut drops and general Beyoncé-esque style dancing)

so when ive identified these DTF girls I just smile catch their eye a fewtimes and gauge their reactions. most of the time they will try to dance even harder pnce they know they have an observer and will preen their hair lots! After these signs i go and approach them with a fun vibe, half dancing and lip syncing - if I know the song - and grab their hands and twirl them around. Then as they are spinning back to face me I move in and put a hand on their waist (sometimes both hands if they're really receptive) and stay there a few seconds to get comfortable [note: if they look slightly uneasy back off a bit and build up reducing the space between the two of you more slowly but this is rarely the case if shes accepted you dancing] Then I can normally move in for some front grinding along with make out using triangle gaze

People got anything else to add/comment?

Oh one more thing song just go up to these girls and rear grind cos that's just lame and hard to escalate from unless she turns to face you; moreover she might freak out or not give a shit as she can't see who's doing it as well...

Peace
T_A_M

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Being able to dance....

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haha true that

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What I did the last time was I took the hb to my room. I pushed her on my bed and made out with her.

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Chat to everyone and be social, just be the coolest guy in the room. As some people said, don't get wasted because you will make an ass of yourself in front of everyone. I've done it once, seen it done by others, and it's embarrassing. Make sure you engage the group before you open the girl.

I never use all these fancy pick-up lines in house parties, just ask normal questions and take it from there. Works for me

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