| Dear pure_seduction,
Well, perhaps you should provide a little info about yourself and your progress in the game. Because if you're an experienced player & have already taken care of the basics, then I would say that she probably is the type of girl who is playing game on you as well. This means one of two possibilities:
1) she is Good & experienced at playing game.
2) she is Bad & inexperienced at playing game
There is no other reason why she would be constantly trying to convince you you're in the friend zone by saying "you're a nice guy" all the time. She must be playing game on you as well, there is no other explanation. Thus she is purposely saying things to confuse you (successfully). You can tell if she's experienced based on the level of attraction her mind games put on you. If she's experienced, then just play it cute & innocent. If she's inexperienced, then play it aggressive & dominating.
So we have two variables:
1) experience level of girl
2) experience level of pure_seduction
Which yields 4 possible situations based on each combination of situations (which actually applies to all game situations, not just this one)
AFG = Average Frusterated Girl
AM = Alpha Male
AF = Alpha Female
1) AFC & AFG
2) AFC & AF
3) AM & AFG
4) AM & AF
These are the answers for each of the four situations:
1) be aggressive with her, and make slight comments here & there about recognizing you're not SUPER awesome with girls yet, but that you don't care cuz it's still fun to try (play it with an air of relaxed whatever vibe; don't sound stressed).
2) play it cute & innocent. She probably is a slut that thinks you're cute in your weakness; let her use you for sex if you want lol. the only trap you could fall into is if she gets you too confident & you fall victim to the famous "rape scene vibe" technique that AFs use. The "rape scene vibe" (RSV for short) is when you get closer to sex and you make your standard aggressive male sex moves that she acts as if she's not turned on; thus forcing you to stop & wait. If you didn't stop & wait then the situation would eventually cascade into ever increasing discomfort levels as you start to feel more and more like a dirty rapist which will make most men's dicks go limp haha. AFs are freakin sneaky!
3) If you're an AM, then you should of already known what to do with an AFG, but for the sake of a complete answer I will explain. Of course play it aggressive, then pretend to be an AFG for just a few minutes every once in awhile to give her a chance to run her weak game on you. AFGs are like little kids that you have to let them win sometimes or else they will be too shy to make a move on you. Slowly romance her with casual sex references intwined with "no fear of relationships" references. The no fear references will get rid of her anti-slut defense, whilst not removing the possibility of quick sex with the casual sex references. At no point in time should you ever pretend like you are not attracted to her, as this will cause too much damage into the ego of an AFG. Remember to neg her, but DO NOT DO ANY POWERFUL negs! A powerful neg will send her running for fear that she is a loser. Slight ones that make her laugh will be KEY. She already likes you a little bit, so just try to ride that wave to a steady finish.
4) Here is where even AMs find it difficult. I myself still have trouble with this situation. Play it cute & innocent obviously. AFs are ALWAYS suckers for cute & innocent even if you're purposely doing in on purpose as a joke. Then you have to be aggressive at weird moments that I can't describe. If you're aggressive at the wrong moment, she will DESTROY your ego by playing the "rape scene vibe". My last girlfriend was an AF. I just hung out with her this last friday and that's where I learned the "rape scene vibe" trick they use. I couldn't do anything the rest of the night and went away empty handed when she lives an hour drive away! LOL, I broke her phone by smashing it on the ground though. Since we have relationship history, it actually made her like me again so that she's still open for a phone call in a couple weeks. Otherwise I think the "rape scene vibe" would of beaten me totally. As it is, with AFs you will often have to go through moments of "losing the battle but winning the war".
Hope that helps you & anyone else who might read this. I've recently earned my AM status after many years of struggle. Good luck!
Crazy John
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