I'm new to this so bear with me. I've been haning out/hooking up with this girl for a little over a month now, we've been keeping it really casual with dates here and there. We're hanging out this Saturday and I was wondering how to hook her in without revealing too much of myself and getting blown out. She is leaving college for winter break after this weekend so this is the only time I'm going to hang out with her probably for a couple of weeks.
My questions I guess are how should I hook her in and continue to build on the comfort level when there is going to be a huge time gap? I'm pretty good with the cocky/funny routine, but what other tactics should i use? I actually like this girl and want to get out of the fuck buddy stage and into something more. Any advice is appreciated.

Well my friend I would if in your shoes talk to her the next time you see her. If you've talked to her and seen her in class for a whole semester I would simply start with a question like. Hey whats up hows your week been? Then neg her, and roll into a dhv routine that involves you asking her a question.

For example you could dhv by saying I'm having a party this week and not sure what types of drinks to get. The girls told me to get some girl drinks and I figuare you would have good incite into what I should choose.

This shows pre-selection and after she goes into a conversation with you then you can invite her to come. If she says yes then boom you plan a party and move to the next phase of our plan.

Tell me what you think about that? If you have any additional questions feel free to ask.

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My bad I probably wasn't clear enough in my post. I've already hooked up with this girl, everything short of f-close. We've been hooking up for about a month and I want to build off of that and move on to something more, or at the very least have a hook up buddy when she comes back from break.

whats up dude, ya wild one was a little confused.
You are basically already there. just set up a sexual frame next time you are with her (search for that topic), then lead her in the direction of sex. If you get LMR freeze her out, (ex hit her with a pillow and walk out of the room in the middle of you hooking up), and then wait for it. Unless she is a virgin you should have no problem as long as you get her in the mood. Women are just as horny as men they just don't want you to see them that way, remember that. As far as while your apart. just make sure you play it cool, call her every few days (not everyday), talk about interesting things, and towards the end start to mention things happening around school that you are going o be doing.

Sarge On!

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Why have you waited so long with this girl? You better escalate now! Or else she's going to think your not confident enough to take it to the next level. If you want to date this girl then here's a little secret. Women are more likely to want to form a romantic relationship with a man after a sexual relationship has been established. There's no need for the whole courting process.