A bit of history :

- Her grandma dies the day of our first date. She still wants to go out. The date goes well, but she is not 100% into it which is understandable. So it is the one time I don't go for a first date kiss. She leaves two days later to go home for a week. She calls me from the airport before she flies out. Definite interest.

- She drops me a line from there through email and brings up getting together again this coming weekend when she gets back. I tell her that I can't because I am busy that weekend. I also tell her to call me when she gets in so I can have time to check my schedule. She calls a few days after she gets in, and I bring up getting together the following Saturday. She is busy.

- However, we still keep in semi regular contact, the sexual tension and flirting is great, and we are going out on date two next week. I laid groundwork by teasing her for always using her looks to try and get her way. She says she gets her way on more than looks alone. I say so it is more than just those brown eyes and that ass of yours. Tell me, what other tools do you have in your arsenal to get your way - talents in the kitchen, kissing abilities, etc.. Inquiring minds want to know. She builds up her kissing skills.

** Now usually I would never kiss a woman at the start of a date. But, since it has been a good three weeks since the first date and we have kept in regular contact with tons of ground work, I wanted to get people's opinions on kissing her right when I see her. She walks up, we hug, and then we she comes back around, I give her a peck on the lips talking about wanting to see what all the fuss was about. Not a deep, passionate kiss. Just enough to show her that I am confident enough to do the unexpected..

Hmm it's difficult. One thing's for sure: You've got the kiss her somewhere during or after the date. But I'm not sure if you should do it right at the start.

You know what? You make it seem like there's a lot of sexual tension and flirting between the two of you. If you think you can pull it off, you could just do it. On the other hand, wouldn't it be better if your first kiss with her was a deep passionate one? In that case, maybe wait for a better moment.

I would definitely wait until a better moment. Take her out somewhere, treat it like another unofficial date. Then run your game as usual towards the kiss.

It is always better to first gauge her mood, her interest level that day, her compliance, etc. Imagine you meet her, and she's in a bad mood and you go for the kiss. Probably not gonna happen. Bring her into your fun world first to build up her compliance first. Then kiss her.

If you want to kiss on the greeting, she has to be aware otherwise she'll be on autopilot and do whatever she normally does to greet.

After you hug have eye contact and say "come here" once you both have eye contact go for it.

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