hey everybody. Iv had a thing for my neighbor for a while now shes finally turning 21 and a personal rule of mine is not to deal with ladies not legal. We hang out alot and always have fun and flirt but im definately in the friend zone right now. When her roomates not around i definately hear alot of the "girl talk" stuff. Shes presently gone to Cancun for a week. Her birthday is coming up this monday and looking for any advice to help jump start something between us.
So far im one of the few people invited to go out with her on her birthday and was planning on getting her a single flower as a gift. Ik i gifts are usually considered needy but its kind of my thing and im posetive she will eat it up, just need to make the right impression from it. Something like "I think every girl deserves flowers on her birthday."
Shes the whole down to earth super nice to everyone kind of girl, closet romantic, and planning on being a teacher kind of girl. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

First things first. You should be a different man on her birthday (i think you should close all contacts on her before her birthday to make some space) Different means you should come a little bit player-ish and flirt her so much and give her subconscious some sexual talk(this usually helps you out of the friend zone). Bringing flowers is a little bit AFC but it is your choice however, you can come up with a more remarkable and memorable gift. Be funny and a little bit cocky to raise attraction then follow through with push-pull, that should help you switch on her attraction switches. You have built TOO MUCH COMFORT, you don't need to kiss her ass anymore, you should BUILD ATTRACTION and seduce her by proper kino. hope this helps

To be honest, being in the friendzone with the intention of doing that in order to start something might not really work, depending on how hot she is (but flowers, with that line you wrote could work). On her birthday, you should use MM (As a loose framework) on her, along with framing (e.g. she's the one chasing you etc), and ensure that you escalate smoothly as well. Based on what you said she's like, it's also a good idea to frame the interaction/conversation/current relationship as something special (i.e. when last has she had such a good conversation, or saying something like "it's awesome how we can just talk without fear of judgement, so many people talk to their friends but don't really say what's on their mind because of that fear"). Most importantly, calibrate. These lines may or may not work depending on the context they're used in, so analyze the situation properly, and decide.

Thanks for the advice guys. Your both right i was going to go about it all wrong i just need to sack up. As for the kino I have no issues with someone Iv just met but as for this situation should I just go for it like i normally would or some kind of transition? Like some of your lines alchemy ill be sure to use them if the timing is right. And i agree no gifts looks to AFC.

For this situation, I suggest that you go in as if it's a new sarge, so you should do a fluid escalation from the start (like hugging at the start, high fives, into play hugs etc...). You can also use the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder (the-dicarlo-escalation-ladder-vt16552.html) as a framework, but make sure that you're not moving too fast or too slow. Just to elaborate on the lines I suggested- the main thing is that she should be feeling that you two share something which she doesn't with her other friends (which should help you in getting out of the friend zone) etc, so if you try making some, base them around that.

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